itsallme112: I would like to learn more about myself and how members of the opposite sex really see me. Since this is anonymous perhaps I can get an honest response. I have not had a serious relationship for a number of years and I question the image I project.
Just because you have not had a serious relationship for a number of years does not mean you are projecting the wrong image.
Maybe the right one just hasn't come along yet.
Maybe a little fine tuning is required.
Try speaking to close female friends (not the ones you are trying to get your leg over, or vice versa)
They are the best people to make helpful suggestions as to how you might improve.
JMHO