Lammycool: Imagine, you find a profile that is interesting. You`ll have a look at what he/she is looking for. As you see, there are one or two things, where it seems to be not quite fit. Things like smoke, drinks, religion or body type, does not matter. Things for you, where you possibly could change yourself. But, he/she is perfect for you! Would you change a thing, for to get a chance, with him/her?
I dont think you should just change yourself for someone, but if you think you are perfect and dont need to change something in you they God speed.
How arrogant some people are to say, "i'm me; I'm not changing anything". What you are pretty much saying is,"i'm perfect and great and if you dont get me then get bent".
I want to change until the day I die. I want to be learning and evolving to be the best person I can be. We all make mistakes but I want to learn from them.