How do you feel about someone NOT of your gender preference checking you out

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Kattsrose Portsmouth, New Hampshire USA

How do you feel about someone NOT of your gender preference checking you out

created by: Kattsrose | Nov 7, 2009
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OK, you're just minding your own business when you spy a person of the "wrong" gender for you checking you out.

How do you feel about it.
amahlala Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Does it matter...it's still a compliment.
lookin4ubabe Yakima, Washington USA
amahlala: Does it matter...it's still a compliment.


I agree. It's is flattering either way!!
solitare Up river from Concepcion Paraguay
Kattsrose: OK, you're just minding your own business when you spy a person of the "wrong" gender for you checking you out.

How do you feel about it.


rolling on the floor laughing We are all 'on parade' from the moment we step outside our homes to the time we lock ourselves in for the night...we see the world and the world sees us (and some expose themselves to the world on purpose!)...just shrug it off and have fun...laugh
Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy
Kattsrose: OK, you're just minding your own business when you spy a person of the "wrong" gender for you checking you out.

How do you feel about it.


It could be a genuine mistake.... A few times I have clicked on a profile when I did'nt mean too. doh

Makes me feel quite embarrassed, thinking that the person may consider me to be gay.

When anyone looks at my profile, I am flattered but, if it's a male I am not interested so put it down to the fact they may have made the same mistake that I do.
rubendario Hartford, Connecticut USA
I agree also, it is flattering!! They can also be checking out the competition or just getting ideas for their own profile, I don't really care!! dunno confused grin cool
rubendario Hartford, Connecticut USA
Englishman55: It could be a genuine mistake.... A few times I have clicked on a profile when I did'nt mean too.

Makes me feel quite embarrassed, thinking that the person may consider me to be gay.

When anyone looks at my profile, I am flattered but, if it's a male I am not interested so put it down to the fact they may have made the same mistake that I do.


That's very true, I have clicked on a man's profile pic by mistake when trying to read their blog many times. doh thumbs up handshake cheers grin cool
lookin4ubabe Yakima, Washington USA
solitare: We are all 'on parade' from the moment we step outside our homes to the time we lock ourselves in for the night...we see the world and the world sees us (and some expose themselves to the world on purpose!)...just shrug it off and have fun...


thumbs up Yup!!
jer6164 Herscher, Illinois USA
I would just wonder why there looking at me. I aint the best lookin guy lol. Nah really I would be indifferent.
HavinFuninTx North of Houston, Texas USA
Well, I could care less. Being a leo and all, out there in your face an all that, to me it is ok with me. What the heck. I am not skeered. Might be an old friend trying to figure out if that is you or not. Or someone that read your posts and wants to see if you have interesting things to say elsewhere.

I like reading interesting people's writings. I love to laugh and be entertained.dancing yay



Apostophe Boksburg, Johannesburg South Africa
I've done it - checked another women or girl's profile because as the above poster's just remarked - the person seems interesting or maybe even fake!


cheers
drbombay virginia beach, Virginia USA
I don't care, you can look all you want but you cannot touch and besides where in a relatively safe place, you think. The other possibility is checking they're backround after conversing on these topics of the forums(curiosity). No big deal.
SoldierByte Grove, Oklahoma USA
I am in the forums a lot..
I like to know whom I am talking to/about and just
what kind of person they are.. I do or did not
really think it either mattered or was relevant if
someone looked at your profile or not..
Same gender.. again, mostly are the same forum chums
I either fight with or pal with..dunno
If it were a gay seeker.. I dunno.. kind of gives me
the creeps.. but I would imagine that it is no big
deal..
I'd be offended and or upset if they actually contacted me.
Again.. I have never really thought about it..
now I wonder.. cripes.. I must be getting old...moping
---SoldierByte---sigh
SoldierByte Grove, Oklahoma USA
Just waiting..
just waiting..
---SoldierByte---cool
RobertC2 Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta
Englishman55: It could be a genuine mistake.... A few times I have clicked on a profile when I did'nt mean too.

Makes me feel quite embarrassed, thinking that the person may consider me to be gay.

When anyone looks at my profile, I am flattered but, if it's a male I am not interested so put it down to the fact they may have made the same mistake that I do.


If you put down that you are male and seeking a woman it won't show if a guy looks at your profile or vice versa - ok? thumbs up
kanokwan Petchabun, Amphoe Bang Kapi Thailand
RobertC2: If you put down that you are male and seeking a woman it won't show if a guy looks at your profile or vice versa - ok?
sawadee ka robert,i not sure but i checked womans profiles befor many times to try see what person i talking with...it not mean checking them out only for datingconversing
drbombay virginia beach, Virginia USA
RobertC2: If you put down that you are male and seeking a woman it won't show if a guy looks at your profile or vice versa - ok?
I didn't know that, I thought it shows anyone who views you, thanks for the info.handshake
langleygirl Langley, British Columbia Canada
If I'm curious about a person from their forum posts then I'll certainly view them and sometimes even write them! Truly I don't see a problem with viewing both men and women's profiles. There is the opportunity to make friendships and possibly find love on here so to me its not always a matter of sexual orientation - the majority of the time its got nothing to do with it.
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
You can't see if a person of the same sex views you, it doesn't appear on your 'Whose Viewed Me 'list.

Only know if they rate your pics or mail you
Witchaywoman Carpentersville, Illinois USA
I'd just keep doing this...tongue on my knees ...and whoever gets in my way...rolling on the floor laughing Let's just say it's their own lookout what happens to them.
Witchaywoman: I'd just keep doing this... on my knees ...and whoever gets in my way... Let's just say it's their own lookout what happens to them.


Im willing to take my Chancesblushing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing hug kiss




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