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I'd walk up to her non-chalantly and ask
who she is and then ask her who the f*ck she
thinks she is for coming up
to my man and hitting on him.
And was she his PAST.

Hey,no one messes with my man,period.

ANY female ..
ANY..
even knows me REMOTELY..
would realize a "sneak attack" such
as you describe would have one
horrrible ending for someone..
Except maybe in the gay community..
I cannot imagine any male (for sure NOT me)
being that "civil and polite"
maybe those urbansexers or what ever they are called..
I'm just an old soldier too set in my ways to let
any man ceptin me
paw, lick, or swap spit with my woman..
I'm just kind of fussy in that way..
---SoldierByte---

Does it often happen in Ireland

why should you fear anyone except yourself if this chews you up and make a scene then you are the one who loses.

look at this way its a kiss so what friendly, just look on the other side you can take the prize home for love.

let him have it!

no,it doesnt often happen here.i just wanted to know how people felt about it.

I'd ask her who she was.As for being jealous why whould I be?

ok we have established that you are NOT a jealous lover.it's a good way to be.

And what does my post say about me?
I'm not the jealous type but if
someone passes that boundary,I react
to it,in my own way.

that's cool

Believe it or not Jealousy is intricately intwined with Love and they are inseparable...you cannot get jealous over someone you dont have any feelings for or care about...the very fact that you can feel a twinge of jealousy when someone 'steps on your territory", love wise, is in fact a sign you care about that person! Ironic but true....In fact i will go so far as to say that if my current partner, if i had 1 that is, lol, didnt feel jealous if some woman came and lavished kisses on me or asked me out on a lunsh date, i would be very concerned and worried about her that she's NOT jealous

well, darn, that is what the problem was with me....i was not jealous.
true enough, but, i think that if you trust someone for good reason, then jealousy does not hit unless you know for sure you have a reason to be jealous.
not that i would appreciate somebody putting thier mitts all over my boyfriend (if i had one ), just because.

Happens all the time here, Portugal is a kissy, kissy country and yes guys I haven't seen for a long time come up to me give me a hug and kisses.....I think it is a matter of trust, if you trust your partner it shouldn't make any difference.

Only now with all this swine flu going about I mostly back off and would probably ask my partner to do the same

Lol,

I am a bit jealous but not overly so

as far as your scenario i will find out their history and based on HOW far in the past she is--like was he sleeping with her while he was supposed to be with me--HE would get punched


if she is doing it because she can she will get politely reminded that i DONT pick on people my own size



I don't go looking for trouble but it normally finds me pretty easily

It would depend on how she responds to his kiss, how she acts after the kiss that would mostly determine my reaction.

Generally, if a guy came up to a woman I'm involved with and gave her a friendly peck, a hug and a howdy, that's fine. But if it were obviously and intimately steamy, then it would be rude. And if she was completely taken in and giving the same to him, well...

Not really,but if she starts dressing too skimpy too often....
I ask questions.

I'd be curious .... for it cold be simply an old friend, family member etc. that they haven't seen in a long time. I would think that my partner would do the courtesy of introducing me as well - then I'd find out exactly who they were.

Would I make a scene? No. Would I be suspicious - probably only if there had be warning signs before and then we'd have a talk to get things straight.

Truly, I can only control myself - not the other person. So I need to kick him to the curb - I've no problem doing that because life is too short to waste it with someone who really deep down doesn't want to be with you.

That's what I find frustrating is why so many people are miserable but stay in relationships. If they put as much effort into the relationship as they do trying to find someone on the side - they wouldn't need to be looking outside of their marriage for companionship. Any relationship will have its ups/downs and most times the reality is that people simply stop trying to make it better because they don't feel its doing them any good. People need to take responsibility for the relationship/partnership and keep talking to resolve their differences.