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I would never cheat, its just not worth it. And you shouldn't be in the relationship if you feel the need to. I dont think i would ever date a guy who has cheated before either.

Yes, I played scrabble once and I built a collection of word blocks in the side of the couch.

Yes 28 33%
No 57 67%
Current Total 85


These stats for this poll alone don't look good.

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Never cheated and to the best of my knowledge never been cheated on.

Does that make a difference Lou?

If one can love wholesomely, [something best learnt by good parenting] it is inconceivable. Cheating in that is something like theft, succumbing to temptation and desire, in doing so, dishonouring oneself. Faced that the dying 10 years of a long past marriage. Loved her but couldn't live with her angst.

That said, if love has been betrayed,[another person], the fleeting love of another can be very healing.

Im deffinantly not one for cheaters nor being cheated on, it's one of the lowest forms of dishonesty you can think of and it hurts ike hell when you find out that thw one you love is actually sneaking off to be with some other peice of work. For those who have had that happen to you im sorry to hear that, it's something no one should have to ever expireance.

I think it is easy to judge others for the choices and decisions they make. I think there are always two sides to every story and those that cheat or those that forgive a cheat do so for their own reasons. Some may feel they can't 'get out' of their marriage or relationships for many reasons be that religious, cultural, moral, vindictive partners, fear of losing kids, family & friends

Yes what goes around comes around but that also applies to those who judge too harshly because sometimes life has a way of making you see it from another perspective by throwing things at you so you walk in another's shoes..

jmo

well here goes
were none of you ever young?
i must be a scum bag i use to cheat all the time , but never on my husband. i use to have more that one relationship at a time , all you guys must be angles , i have been cheated on heaps of times too,its not nice but i did use to be free and non comited to any af them.i would never be with any ones partner nor would i ever bring children into the freindships, i dont think i am that bad and since them i have made up by not dated 12 yrs or so, i have grown wiser and i know that i would not cheat now, thats got to make up for something.

cgd

yes i have

its not something i am proud of nor is it something i will ever repeat.

there a very long story and i am not willing to explain on here.

circumstances being normal it would have never happened but there is no going back... so forward on an d improve

Never have and never would. Altho it has happened to me too many times to mention

Makes you wonder why some people want to go into a relationship.

i dont think they mean to do it while they are in a relationship....
trust me its lot less complicated nd no one gets hurt the other way

Well my way of thinking is you are in a relationship because you want to be with that person and ONLY that person not floozing around with others. Sorry but there's no excuse for it.


(Imagining scenario with ex..patting him on the head saying ..'there there it's ok i know you didn't mean to have it off with the girl from work")......NOT!

ok so you have been hurt by an experience.

what i am saying is that its not always black and white. the thought of it being so straight forward would be lovely but it isnt. there are lots of reason that ppl cant and dont leave relationships when things have gone wrong or they shouldnt be there.

the grey hue is there and like it or not there are a lot of really nice ppl who strayed because of their own reasons.

i havent said that it is right, it is wrong but take the whole picture in, before bring in the hangman and throwing the rope over their necks.

there is nothing more i would like is to be with someone for the rest of my life and spoil them rotten with lots of tlc. you can only know what went down if you were that person.

there are a lot of sleasy ppl out there that have no morals and just do this because they can
and it is wrong...

Never cheated, but been cheated on! thats why im here.

5 years of marriage down the tube. i guess once a cheater always a cheater. Wifes first marriage ended cos she cheated , no it wasnt me.

And she does it again. Where is karma when u need it??

am sorry to hear that

but i would have to say that i will never cheat again.

i walked out of a relationship after many years not even knowing what colour i liked.

Have never been married because it is forever in my eyes.

Yeah it sux for sure but the Karma i think will come when the other person realises what it is they have thrown away....
Take comfort as I have in knowing that it is you that they have lost, a wonderful person.
But to relaxing & Blonde , I can & do realise that some people stray when they are stuck in an unhappy relationship unable to leave for their own reasons , I dont believe in Judgeing others I think we all have our own reasons for doing & not doing things & to understand compleately one needs to walk in anothers shoes , which is impossible .some people never deserved us in the first place...
JMO
Kizzy

and yep.. their loss!!!

Take heart bmachining, the scores are evened out right here on God's good earth. You might never know about it, but be assured that it will happen. However, don't wish ill on her, instead throw your ill feelings to the universe and trust that justice shall be done.

There is NO justice in this world.