sxc666: Luckily the majority of women work these days also and the male can get off his ass and help also
Agree, you soon find a balance of which tasks suit you best. and with both working, it just wont happen. If one person is doing all the house work then it wont be noticed and fully appreciated until it's not done.
If it was iky or smelly I usually ended up with it. Which to me was more than fair since my cooking skills were never requested much (even less after the first couple of my attempts).