My late husband didn't get a lot of the kind of love and care as a child which All Children deserve during their childhood years some people don't get.Someone can get the harmful kind of love.
I learned many years ago that it's not so much that the food causes people to put on weight it's what people put on their food or how they choose to cook it is what causes people to put on weight.
That's all one can do when online is usually take someone's word for something or unless you obviously meant them in person.Even cameras can put about five extra pounds on people.
RE: I would never understand ....
Mainly I buy mostly magazines that have recipes in them and once I get through with them I toss them out.