Hi Damon,
You probably don't remember me but I answered your question on why there's so many religions. You wrote me back a very polite & literate email which I still have. I think you're a sweet teddy bear. I liked all the things you said in your profile abt how you would treat your woman. Maybe women think what you say is too GOOD to be true?
I don't think you come across as arrogant at all! Au contraire mon chere!
The only thing I can see that mayt be a problem is, it's a wee obvious you're not 46. (I don't mean to be offensive by that, cos I know you're true age but it doesnt bother me.) Maybe women are put-off that you're not being honest & figure if you lie abt one thing, you'll lie abt everything. So, the age issue mayt make your profile self-defeating. But I fully understand why your advert options are limited, being stuck between 2 worlds, as it were. It must be difficult & frustrating for you.
Also, you mentioned you want a live-in. I dont think women would want to uproot their jobs/home/family for something so uncertain, as you didnt mention the possibility of marriage & most women need/want that emotional security.
Personally, I find you fascinating, intelligent, extremely literate, polite, funny (I love your paper bag!), creative, & sweet as a puppy! Its a shame I'm too old for you. I think you'd find me interesting & we'd have endlessly great conversations…
Guess this is more like a testimonial, than advice, but maybe the positive things I've said here will make women take more notice of you. I truly hope you find the love you seek.
RIO.