Top 10 Reasons to not let CS Rude comments get you down
A lot of times people that don't feel good about themselves cut other people down...
Be strong in who you are and don't let other peoples views or opinions knock you down. We all know the saying, "Opinions are like a** Holes...everyone has one." LOL
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When someone says they are not judgemental...watch out...
It could be a cover up for what they wish they were not. LOL...I have had some say they were not yet ended up they were most definatley.
2
When someone says that you are fat and shouldn't date...
Wow, who made them God? I have heard several on this site say they got mean remarks like this and that is a shame. Everyone has opinions and if they don't like a profile; simply move on. Just because we all put ourselves out there and took a risk doing it...doesn't mean we are up for rude comments and nasty remarks.
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If you don't like bald men ....
Then pass up the profile; no need to be ugly...no one is on here to please anyone rather to be open and to take risks and to find friendships, companionship and possible love.
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There are some hard choices to pick when you create your profile
Like for instance; what body type are you...well; you may be in the process of losing weight and are very active and go to the gym but are not quite there yet; so you can't put fit and so forth but you are not fat either; so you may choose curvey...(lol, like me...) and someone cuts you down for saying you are not curvey but a few lbs over the limit...lol...Yes, it happened to me too...for the first time...lol
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People that are hurt or wounded lash out at others or play god
Not all the time; but lots of the time....someone who is quick to judge and whom feels they need to criticize others has either deep wounds that have not healed from previous relationships or that they feel superior like they need to be the judge whether people ask for it or not...wow...how sad...maybe a recovery class would help you so you don't wound others or try to anyway....
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for those that are stalking others on CS
Wow, this is not a site for crazy people to stalk and harrass...you will be reported and please...take your issues elsewhere...there are descent people on this site and you really need help...this is a site for people trying to move on in their lives...
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If you don't like a profile or a picture and no one is asking to be reviewed
then simply don't. LOL....If we wanted our profile or picture reviewed we would put it out there for reviews...I would never look at a profile and cut someone down for who they are nor would I say rude comments or hurtful things to them...that show a very ill person who is not ready to be on a site like this...
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If someone doesn't ask; then don't offer your opinion ..
if it is cruel and just flat out mean...then bite your tongue...and think of why you are on this site...are you on it to just be rude to others and to try to hurt others or are you on it to find some relational bond? If you are trying to find a bond; then I would drop the rude image as that will only attract another person on the same level...one that is shallow, hurt, wounded, and mean.
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Oftentimes people that don't like themselves are mean to others
this is a given fact...If you don't love yourself you are not kind to others as you would treat others the way you would hope to be treated.
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Remember to keep your chin up no matter what someone says...
Everyone does have an opinion and unfortunately they don't have the maturity to know when to speak it out and when not to. Know who you are and feel good in your own skin and those remarks will roll off of you...and you can recognize them for what they are...move on and keep a good attitude...
Be strong in who you are and don't let other peoples views or opinions knock you down. We all know the saying, "Opinions are like a** Holes...everyone has one." LOL
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Comments (11)
If someone says, "I lie, cheat, and steal". And then you say,"you shouldn't do that; it's wrong". We should all jump up and down and say; OMG DON'T JUDGE THEM!!!
To judge is to give to give an informative opinion or point of view. Judging and condemning are NOT the same.
People want to say and do whatever they want in society today, without anyone questioning them. it's unreal.
This "I live with no regrets" is as selfish as it gets. If I live with no regrets, I think I've done nothing wrong; thus think my actions are perfect; thus never learn any lessons in life and could care less of the wake of pain my decisions have made in the past.
Again, if you are not the type, you shouldn't post online.
Hey... I'm all for ppl having opinons and draw the line when ppl use intimidation, interrogation, aloofness and the poor me/victim behaviours to express them. It just stings ppl and it's not very nice for the ones on the recieving end I'm sure.
I would like to see the day come, where ppl will actually feel the desire to educate themselves enough to be able and capable to have an opinion without using these control dramas to get power over another. Now there's "WORLD PEACE" right there.
If I put something on a forum and ask what people think, that's what I want. What they think. I am not asking,"only comment if you are nice to me or tell me I'm good".
There is one forum where a girl was cheated on 4 times by the same guy; she asks what she should do; leave or stay. When people told her to leave she ripped on them and said "but he said he loves me". She didn't want opinions, she wanted people to tell her to stay.
Again, I agree, some people can be mean spirited but this is the internet and I really don't take things very personally.