Ten Irritating Habits of Women

And male chauvinism is alive and well in CS land! Which is now classified as a mental illness....my Gawd.....small talk has an outline and all women look exactly the same upside down.

As for me I believe the best life of a man will always be living with a woman that loves you good or bad just make sure you have a wife that loves you so much…

Women do tend to like brainless men with a top job (read big salary)...!!!

Knowing how a man earns his life is not only about knowing his financial situation. It gives great clues of his mind, brains, daily life, habits ,etc. If he says he is a farmer you will be able to imagine him in his farm assuming he loves animals and pastoral life. If he says he is a doctor you will know he will not so much free time for you and will be busy with books,etc. If he says he is a teacher , imagine he loves kids,we may assume . Of course he would tell more about himself.
It is far more irritating that men find women asking this question irritating . This is a very simple question if you dont have any problem with self esteem.

-I Ask what does he do for a living because I wonder what kind of activities is he involved in.I don't wanna date a guy whose job doesn't mean anything for him (would be probably bitter or lazy).I dont't care if its mail delivering or engineering.

Not because I want his money. I do earn a decent sallary and have a good job and I've been independent since forever lol.

I do agree with some stuff...except generalizations :)

Makes you look as if you're being too defensive. But then again may be Im wrong.

Have a nice day!

sorry, u seem to find the wrong girls for u

sorry, u dated the wrong girls

I think many things on your list can be true. But not all women are like that with all the things you list.

hankharlow.i actually feel sorry for you.

can i ask ,if women are as bad as you say why are you looking for one?

Nice try. Very funny somehow a man himself told me that men, most of them, don't care about brain or personality a woman has, but rather care to how good looking a woman is Hopefully it was only his very personal view.

I ask guys what they do for a living but i could care less as long as they hv a job i have dated a guy without a job was with him for years. Just a start to a conversation i have had guys ask me what i do

Yes, you must have a good job, otherwise forget it. They really judge a person on this. They dont realize or dont care, that life is unfair and you could be much more intelligent than the guy who tricked his way to the top, and boots you out. He could be a simple minded idiot, and have the top job, and you have to settle for a meaningless job and life, and accept being judged for it, and still have a smile. I think thats why, the so called nice guy once upon a time, turns out to be a bitter twisted ashole later on in life because of this. I dont think we are born negative and bad, life is what turns you into whatever.

U ONCE AGAIN PROVED TO BE NO EXPERT ON WOMEN MEN THING
I CAN DISPUTE ANY AND ALL OF YR STATINGS
STARTING FROM LOOKS OVER PERSONALITY
EVERYBODY KNOWS ITS LOOKS
EVERYBODY
U TOO
UD ONLY WANT IT TO BE THE OPPOSITE SO GET RID OF THESE EXTRA 3O KILOS AND THEN IT WONT BE SO DIFFICULT TO ADMIT THAT LOOKS COUNT MORE THAN PERSONALITY
COS s*xual LOVE IS ABOUT BODIES
PERSONALITY IS FOR FRIENDSHIP
SORRY

What do you do for a living is a favorite question of most men as well. Why would they always ask that?

What truisms!

makes me giggle...
funny, men are very often just looking for this kind of woman and than they are getting unhappy with what they got...

honestly, i do not know woman who are like this. but it may be just the case that those kind of woman do not even have a use as a friend.

we are getting what we deserve. if men deal with that... well, healthy legs can walk away ... i would not just walk, i would run as fast as i can ;-)

but thanks for this fun list, at least it made me laugh out loud

The men that I have met so far are the kind of men that think if you are not thin and gorgeous they are worth nothing. Some of us are not so good looking but are beautiful on the inside.

This list is 'generalizing'... and i think that all of us no matter man or woman; can write a list of negitivity when our love life has failed... for all those who have succeeded in this area would not write a list as such... I know i have left relationships because they did not work out, but I am NOT about to generalize and b*tch about men as I know every person is different,and comatibility is the key to finding someone to share your life with...

I agree with Jadire's comments. When I ask a man what does he do I'm looking for a tool to have a conversation with, something to talk about on an initial date. I've seen these attitudes in the forums and it's all about trash talking women. I am financially stable and don't need anyone elses gold. Men need to get over the idea that women look for men to support them. This is not the 1950's, this is the new world where women hold prestigous jobs the same as men. If you guys don't like the way women think, the way they listen to your sorry stories then you should think about looking for a man who will "understand" you.

Wow. What a narrow minded viewpoint. What did you presume this bitter-induced, generalized view of women would accomplish? I hope it was at least cathartic for you. In any given relationship/situation where two humans are involved there are TWO people culpable for the outcome. You must be swimming in a very shallow pool indeed. I've been on dates with men who trash talk their exes, think with the wrong head, and/or expect sex immediately. Do I believe all men to be neanderthals? Hell no! Just those who compile meaningless lists that generalize a whole gender based on their own limited experience.

You are great! I quote everything you said about women general behavior!

You hit the nail right on the head in all of them. I'm sure someone will criticize you for one number or the other. It does a matter, as a general rule there are all good.

Women and men are different, no doubt about it. Therefore to comprehend each other must understand the differences with the sexes.

For instance, If a woman ask me in the first e-mail "what do I do for a living" for example:

construction, are you an engineer?
aviation, are you a pilot?
medical field, are you doctor?
design, are you an architect?
on and on and on...

How would you feel if I ask you "what side of bra do you ware" on a first or second e-mail?

Get it!!!!

Tattoos is a preference "BUT" my fellow man still right!! Women body is precious, please don't ruin it. Doesn't need other decorations

SO TRUE IN MOST OF THEM.

1) WHAT DO YOU DO FOR A LIVING? IS LIKE ASKING YOU WHAT SIZE BRA DO YOU WARE? DO YOU LIKE THAT? ESPECIALLY IF ASK ON THE FIRST OR SECOND E-MAIL

3) SO TRUE

4) WOMEN'S BODY IS SO BEAUTIFUL! WHY RUIN IT WITH TATOES

6) IT IS SO TRUE

8) SO TRUE, HIGH MAINTENANCE....OUGH!!!

11) I WOULD HAVE ADDED "COUGARS" IN THE MOST 10 LIST. IT IS FUNNY HOW MANY WOMEN PUT 10 OR 15 YEARS YOUNGER MEN AS WHO YOU WANT TO MEET AND YOU SEEK A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. GET REAL!! YOU LIERS. WE KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND I KNOW WHAT YOUNGER MEN WANTS TOO AND NOTHING ELSE. I HAVE BEEN THERE, DONE IT AND TIRED OF IT!

12) lot more to say
13)
14).... I better not say anything any more

Brilliant!! Couldn't agree more!

All 10 things are true....and women who said its not...oh don lie yourself

Well, let me first respect that this is YOUR list; YOU are entitled to your opinions, and so therefore I respect that it is an accurate list.

But it did touch a nerve w/ me. I dont know about some other women...but for me, "what do you do for a living" IS a conversational item....I mean, lots of people ask it. Its like "do you have children". Its just a conversation.

I didnt understand #2. Not that I'm incapable, but there was really no point made there, to me. You generalized about women generalizing. No fair..:).

Your idea of a nice guy is another womans idea of a jerk. Its all about personalities..and I would submit that your general comments about how women irritate you indicates your not as nice (in other people's eyes) as you think that you are (in your own). I might have that problem too....I like me, but many people dont.


My natural allure??? Jesse James seems to like it. Just cuz you dont...and anyway, we're not here to allure you..have you looked at your own image? Do you feel you are alluring? We (women) have evolved to please ourselves--even if that means pleasing a man---but its our choice to do so...not that I have to. I have learned that I am to satisfy my own image of myself--not the image I want you to have of me. With that said---i dont personally believe in tattoos for women..was very disappointed w/ my daughter got one. I recognized her right to have one tho. On the other hand...I was contemplating getting my son's "Mama's little hell raiser" done when he was just 13. I'm SUCH a chauvinist.

I agree w/ your number five reason, some what....but anyway, we dont want to compete with someone who thinks we are here to please (or allure) them. Its supposed to be a partnership...not a service to your needs.

Number six--again didnt make any sense to me. What has rejecting a guy for dates have to do with a marriage proposal??
Could the problem actually be the person asking? Maybe the approach was wrong. Its not like we want to marry a guy just cuz he asks us for a date. If we wont even go on the date with him, why in the world would we want to MARRY him?


Sounds to me as if you are really barking up the wrong trees. If women are asking you for cruises for dates..you need to drop them like hot potatoes...I mean....it really sound to me like you are being cased out for possible raking. If a woman cant accept you for who you are, and enjoy your company doing just normal things...why would you want that woman???? (Conversely, same thing goes for you, buddy)


Yes...we can be boring. Are you sure its not that we are just not rich enough for you? Perhaps its because you want us to take you on a cruise? Maybe its because of your tattoos...marking up your body and such...it couldnt POSSIBLY be because you are actually boring that we are rejecting your dates!! Nooooo. LOL.


Touche on the Number 9. In response--neither will sex. And anyway, why is any man trying to "meet an expectation"???? Just be yourself. And, that same freedom extends to us women---we dont have to meet your "expectation" to be alluring.

For your number ten: was that a statement, a myth, or an irritation?? I dont think all men think about sex all the time. But, neither do all women think about humor all the time, or money.

I do understand your frustrations....I just wanted to respond w/ my own opinions. I hope that you have better luck in the future, but remember, please.....its your choice who you do or do not deal with.

jade
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in conclusion...
Society has changed over the last thirty years or so. Adaptability in the now acceptable dating circles is not easy at all

Most of this is a load of old codswollop. Most of it is completely untrue.
I ask men what they do for a living just to be certain they arent bums who are out to use me!
I thought men liked their women to look attractive?
I dont give a toss whether men or women have tattoos.
And to all you men who agree with the posters top 10, who would want to know you anyway? That would make you chauvinistic, and quite frankly, I wouldnt give you the time of day.

Well 90% of men really dont want to start a conversation with what do you do for a carrier...From this mans view most all the women i had dated in the past says that as a topic starter has ben looking a bank account not a man....

I always ask a guy what kind of job he has...Im not looking to find a rich man,,just starting conversation..And what better way to get to know someone from what they do for a living. :)

As I observe society never changes, whatever you wrote was actual 30 years ago, today and I believe tomorrow too :)

Good on you sir! And listen to them scream "unfair" and "all lies" I think about 65 to 70% of dateing woman are exactly as you have described.

smooth

Well Hank hit it 95%.I will deduct 5% .. for the tattoos comment...

I'm in agreement with the introduction part!

hank you are a true genius, with an amazing insight into the female soul! Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

I haven't read this much trash for a long time, thanks for making me laugh. But now seriously, should women now make a list of those 999.999.999.999 irritating habits of men???

This list was comprised by those "visual" men trying to date the beauty queen women and by-passing the ones with "personality" "integrity" "intelligence" but not quite so good looking. READ THE PROFILE. I totally can belive the list would be generated by most of the men, because they want what looks good, and nothing underneath...all that talk on their profiles is mostly BS.....been there done that on 6 dating sites...if I post a glamorous pix, wow, the hits, the glowing lovely words, but if I put just the real me along with the honest opinion how great I am, which I think I am....no one comes along to even say hi....then if I say hi...I get ignored by 95% because I'm not looking like the beauty queens, and I'm sure that happens to many wonderful woman in inter-net dating land...so whoever wrote that list created their own problems by not taking the TIME to really look and read and understand each profile because they made some attempt at a WINK or whatever it's called here.

So I agree on the one hand and disagree for the majority of women....

nooo your all wrong...come . there is still honest and good womens around the world.

hankharlow,hi,well just as well i don't fit any of these statments above,i'm different ,unique and ohnest,have a great evening and take care,justwanutoluvme,r.b.

wow,hit the nail on the head.like song what have u done for me lately/true.