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i kno exactly how u feel

I think you are selling yourself short; many of these things on your list are done to us because we allow it.

Many women especially are blind to what a dog a guy is until they leave. I think it's wrong to say I have no control over a relationship; I'm just a victim and if things go bad, he's a dog and poor me.

Love is action; not words; and many women obsess over a guys words and never look at what they do. When a guy cheats but then tells the girl I'm sorry I love you, then they have a chance to get back in with her.

I look at actions; if the words don't equal the actions then the person isn't real.

Remember that no one puts a gun to someones head and says,"you have to date him". It takes two to tango; good luck,

my top 10 reason why I want to fall in love:

1. knowing that where ever I am, that person is thinking about me.

2. sharing special moments

3. getting through hard times

4. getting butterflies everytime I see them

5. holding them in my arms

6. starting a family

7. laughing and smiling together

8. not being alone and feeling lonely anymore

9. not having to be on dating sites to try to find someone lol

10.and overall, the feeling of being in love

You may be scared, and it is understandable, but you must remember that there are also many reasons that one should want to fall in love. I hope you find what you are looking for

Words well spoken, Thanks for sharing.

mjames.. you are a very wise man, i stayed with a man who hit me for a long time and i thought that i still loved him, when i finally left him i realised that my life has been waiting to start and the whole time ive been wasting it on him,
had i have looked after my own happiness properly i would have walked away the first time. Girls, we need to have higher standards, if somebody doesnt make you feel great about youself everyday then its ok to walk. There is always someone else. Keep your chin up and your standards high and you wont go far wrong.

Love Love Love Love. That sick thing is sick at times and good at times and i wonder how long will all that last or is the fact all about encountering with the wrong one that hurts.

Trying to understand it for 25 yrs as love differs from a relationship to another.mama's,dada's,bro's,sis's friend's and finally the lover boy's .

I believe that the lover boy's hurts the most 'cuz most of the times we crazy girls get immersed and totally in so much of love that even the sky isn't the limit for our love and when the crazy career made men will begin 2 try white lies and thereit all ends.... our obsession and flawless love where Mr.doubt and Mr.Hasty enters to to break us apart.

Way back my 2nd statement, we don' care if love of other relationships stays or not but expect the loverboy's love to stay. Well..... it's bound to be that way for a man needs the woman as much as the woman does....

The key is patience,space,time,compassion,supporting one another and be there for presence and power of absence will teach the man to run back to his lady love.Damn, he doesn't, he certainly doesn't deserve any woman. So, chuck him and make sure that you [in general]catch hold of the right one for our past will certainly lead us right.

i agree with mjames love is actions not word and so many times many of us ae confused when it comes to that

for some reason your reasons are bitter but yet you are still on this site hoping your luck will change all i have to say to you is you dont fall in love you create love by showing emotions and feelings that is beyond you yourself for now dont go out there looking for love instead let love come to you be happy and have fun with your life and i arsure you love will fine you.

thank you all for you thoughts

Love is the dew that find's it's morning and is refreshed... you will find it!!!

I agree with you there thank you for you comment

I think we look for love as a Ideal,a pocession were gave in life,we complicate all that is so simple,Its around all of us,and sadly we just do not realise it,or for that matter see it,Just be aware as it passes but a few times,and you must follow the heart of your self thoughts,exsept who you are and the fear dissapears.....!