top 10 reason why long distance relationships dont work

created by ohio19 on Sep 17, 2009 | category: Dating

top 10 reason why long distance relationships dont work

1. the distance

2. trust

3. you cant see them

4. they can tell you what you want to hear but it could all be a lie

5. that song is a lie because you cant kiss them through the phone

6. they can lie with out you knowing

7. they could be with someone else

8. they cant be there for you

9. it hurts to much to be there that far away

10. you cant see their emotions




nox131195 killeen, Texas USA
Mon Sep 21, 2009 11:07 AM CST
so true, even with the deepest connection it can only last so long, i madeit a year once
eresh manila, Quezon City Philippines
Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:20 PM CST
so true yet its up to the person's decisions...
we have our own choices...
we just need to stand for what decisions we made...
we all know its not that easy but that is love is...
there is no easy way in this world...
just be true...
hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA
Tue Sep 22, 2009 4:02 PM CST
It worked for me! And it will work for any other couple out there as long as BOTH are honest and true to each other. My husband and I met right here on this site and got married almost four months ago.wine
nanibebe bogota, Cundinamarca Colombia
Wed Sep 23, 2009 6:21 PM CST
yeah...my long distance relationship only lasted 4 months !!!!! :(((((((((((((((((( the bad thing is that i love that man with all my heart....but he was always busy for me,and then i realized this weekend he has a new girlfriend....if he loved me as much as I do,we would have made it thru the distance hurdle but he just got tired of that and prefered to get a new girl..moping
coyoteechick Dallas, Texas USA
Thu Sep 24, 2009 9:26 AM CST
I fell in love with a guy from the Middle East and I live in Texas, USA. I was planning to marry him. Then he went without communicating with me and I realized he was on this site everyday chatting with others. All my hopes and dreams went out the window. All his promises were lies, I felt.
suger1 derby, Derbyshire, England UK
Thu Sep 24, 2009 2:08 PM CST
Your so right ,i did it for two years, feel in love with a cheat and lier.
tstone61 brayton, Iowa USA
Wed Sep 30, 2009 12:23 PM CST
I am in a relationship with a lady who lives in another country she says she loves me i say i have feeling for her when you can not meet because international flights are so high how can you be sure i cant say i love you to someone Ive never met are we wasting time who knows i don't
alan_uk derby, Derbyshire, England UK
Wed Sep 30, 2009 1:28 PM CST
i don.t some one say love ,,,,,i love my ex we togedher for 4 yers and we no have any problim all the 4 yer i think 2 time we shawting so she go wiv some one because money and she finished wiv the guy and she try come back to me and she told she stile love me so i dont no is love mean that i dont think so and i reding some book from long time a go some one did cuse love now love same work u can get it easy and u can lost it easy
Apostophe Boksburg, Johannesburg South Africa
Fri Oct 2, 2009 3:01 PM CST
Almost all of the above goes without saying for a relationship with someone "at home" The only considiration here is if you'll have the necessary chemistry when and if you do meet up with your connection you made here...

professor
sixmillboy East Haven, Connecticut USA
Fri Oct 9, 2009 8:01 PM CST
I agree, The longer the distance the less that you can trust someone.
exoticj Dublin City, Dublin Ireland
Sat Oct 10, 2009 7:29 AM CST
They say 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' but it depends on how long was that absence is!

We are human beings and craves intimacy and closeness, long distance relationship is very hard!
heart beating
Nena0308 Rio de janeiro, Rio de Janeiro Brazil
Sun Oct 11, 2009 11:34 AM CST
That's so true. I fell in love with a guy from UK and I live in Brasil. frustrated I was planning to live or marry him, even though he was older than me and had a strange disease in his leg. He also said he had a cancer in his spine. Then I realized he was on this site everyday chatting with others and doing the same love promises to them. All his promises were lies, I felt. He is a cheater .. He is dangerous lier.thumbs down
Aquarina Chennai India
Sun Oct 11, 2009 12:50 PM CST
Oh my God................. It's so true to believe that only one in a million works while the rest goes a flop unsaid whatsoever.

[The Long Distance Love] Here goes the saying, that a known devil is better than an unknown angel... so why bother to search... several continents away while you can observe to watch the existing one to learn if u really need him or it's jus' a mismatch.

innocent hearts lookin for love is easy for fun riders [the long distance... thing....] At the end, if you still feel something for that someone no matter how far, try applying metaphysics and keep moving ahead and let your heart communicate and think so hard until it unites....... u never..dunno It might be a clickheart wings
ghostrider6478 meriden, Connecticut USA
Wed Oct 14, 2009 4:56 PM CST
Well let me take a wild gess, You had a very bad heart-braking long distance relationship. I really hope that you didn't. A hert is a hert and from the heart, it is the worst of worsts of hurts.I hope that you are over the hurt if you did get hurt. But you are totally right..I found what I was looking for then when I asked where do you live, and she said the south-pole I died. She is unhappily married with 3 kids. I still talk to her. But now she is honest to me about telling me weather she was true to me during our long distance relationship. You are totally right Yes I do agree with you 100 % Ghostrider6478 Mark applause applause yay yay handshake handshake
anime81 colombo Sri Lanka
Tue Oct 20, 2009 4:26 PM CST
its ture..and it sucks
i have a few friends who have moved to a different country a few years back. (and we have actually met and talked a few years back) but as time goes by although u get the birthday wishes and stuff like that..u can feel the distance building up..and that u know less of each other as u continue to grow without shared circum stanses.

i still havent started anything remotly like a relationship here (looking more for polite conversation..no matter what my profile says!) but i can see how the chances of some thing true coming out of this...is pretty low

sad flower
sunny_1982 hassleholm, Skane Sweden
Wed Oct 21, 2009 9:19 AM CST
100 % TRUE
ohio19 Dayton, Ohio USA
Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:55 PM CST
life is crazy and nothing lasts for everrolling on the floor laughing
love_jesus damascus Syria
Thu Oct 22, 2009 5:07 PM CST
It depends on your manner and how you respect yourself and others
ohio19 Dayton, Ohio USA
Fri Oct 23, 2009 10:19 PM CST
i think your rightconversing conversing conversing conversing conversing conversing conversing
Aphrodites Kitchener, Ontario Canada
Sat Oct 24, 2009 12:40 AM CST
Love may not be on your door step.Sometimes things far away work out for some.If you cannot spot a liar, then you are not looking, for there are usually signs.
Everything is worth a try.
Who is to say it will not work out.
To fail is human.Not to try, is giving up on life.

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