How To Be The Kind Of Woman Men Want To Pursue

If you're interested in a man and want to get his attention, there are certain habits that will successfully achieve this more than others. Here are five ways that you can be the kind of woman that men want to pursue.

1. Don't act needy

The quickest way to keep a man away is to act needy and clingy. If you're always there when he calls or texts, he will begin to think that you have no life or are desperate for his attention. If you want a man to pursue you, don't always be available to him when he comes around. This isn't about playing games, but about being busy living your own life. Having your own life is an attractive quality. He's not going to forget about you if you don't answer his text within five minutes. Chances are that when he texts you he moves on to something else anyway, so don't assume that he's sitting there waiting for your response unless the text is time sensitive.

2. Be interesting

By getting a life instead of just pretending you're busy you will automatically become a more interesting woman that the man you're interested in wants to get to know. Your conversations will be more interesting because you'll have stories to tell. When you're apart, he will wonder what you're up to and who you're with. This will cause his natural chasing instincts to kick in. If you only pretend to be busy, he will see through this because you won't have anything to say about your time away.

3. Don't be over-emotional

Women who are less emotional tend to be pursued by men because they don't come off as irrational and high-maintenance. If a man disappears for an afternoon, don't freak out on him and send 17 texts for him to come back to. You will scare him off if you resort to this behavior. If you want to be chased, be cool and calm. Don't get fired up at a new situation before you find out what happened. Remember that people get busy and have lives outside of you. When he comes back from his afternoon away to find just one text instead of the third degree and accusation, he won't be overwhelmed or stressed by you. He'll want to spend more time with you because he knows you're laid back.

4. Be confident

Confidence is attractive. Men love women that are self-confident because they don't need constant attention and reassurance. Women with low self-esteem are hard work and usually not worth that kind of time and energy to a man. It's important to love yourself before you can expect anyone else to. When you are insecure, this is obvious to those around you. When you have confidence, you know you have things to offer others. You know your time is valuable. The way you hold yourself is proof of confidence.

5. Leave him wanting more

It's easy to get caught up in a good conversation with a man you like, but it's a good idea to cut it short and leave him wanting more. If you were working on a project before he called, tell him you need to get back to work and will talk to him soon. If you always talk until he says he has to go, this doesn't keep him curious, wanting to know more. By leaving a good conversation you'll make him want more and seek you out to get it.

To get a man to pursue you isn't about playing games or acting like someone you're not. It's about being a woman who is living her own life with passion and confidence.