How To Keep Someone Interested In You

How To Keep Someone Interested In You

Whether you want to keep friends or the people you're dating interested in you, there are things you can do to achieve this. Here are four ways you can keep someone interested.

1. Stop being overly available

If you are always available to someone, they may begin to take you for granted or not find you as exciting as they once did. Being scarce makes you more valuable in someone else's eyes. If you're always around, this implies that you don't have much else going on. If you find that you're always available on a moment's notice to reply to a text or accept a date, learn to keep yourself busy in other ways. Stop bending over backward to fit into their life. If you're not available at someone else's convenience, they will begin to see you as a more interesting person. It's human nature.. not game playing.

2. Be unpredictable and mysterious

If someone knows exactly what you're doing and when you're doing it, their interest in you will begin to wane. To avoid this, don't divulge everything you're doing and exactly when you're doing it. You might like the person you're dating a lot and want to keep them up to date, but this will remove all mystery from your life. Vary the time that it takes you to answer texts. If someone asks you to go for coffee, decline saying you're busy at their suggested time. Don't tell them exactly what you're doing, but suggest another time to meet. Let people wonder about you. This is a good way to keep them interested and coming back for more.

3. You have no hobbies or interests

People with interests are interesting people. Someone without any hobbies or interests is hard to find interesting. If you don't have anything to talk about with someone, they may become bored. In order to be more interesting, you must take an active interest in life and the world around you. If you seem to have something new to share each time you talk to someone or something new you want to try, you will be more interesting to those around you. If you spend most of your time on your phone talking to people, begin spending your time reading, learning something new, or rediscovering the love of an old hobby.

4. Look your best

If you begin to slack off and stop caring about your appearance, others may lose interest in you. This isn't because looks matter, but because when you stop taking care of yourself, you appear to not care about yourself anymore. You may be seen as lazy and that's not attractive. You don't have to wear expensive clothes to look good. You should wear what you feel good in. When you feel good, you are confident and that's attractive. Looking your best and caring about yourself also means taking care of your body. When people see how much pride you take in yourself, they will be more interested in spending time with you.

Being interesting isn't about being someone you're not. It's about putting your best self out there for others to see.

Comments (2)

Tie him to the bed post. rolling on the floor laughing
Well said ,properly presented,,FACTS ,MY compliments 2023

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