9 Surprising but Effective Tips for Impressing a Woman
How many times have you heard a guy complaining that women only want jerks? Although that's not the case, there are reasons it can seem that way.
In general, women want to date men who are polite and kind and attentive. However, it's not very attractive when you follow her around waiting for her next command. Most women want a man who will respect and challenge them.
Here are nine unconventional ways to impress a woman. They might just surprise you.
End conversations
It isn't always easy to stop a conversation, especially if you want to keep talking as long as possible. However, you will make an impression if you can leave a woman wanting more.
Try to be the one to end a great talk. Tell her you've had a fantastic time, but you've got somewhere to be. Then flash her a killer smile and disappear.
Don't agree with everything she says
Part of establishing a relationship is finding out what the two of you have in common, but that doesn't mean you should pretend to share her opinion when you don't.
Be honest about who you are. If you have a different viewpoint, tell her.
Accuse her of flirting with you
An excellent way to get the attention of a woman you're interested in dating is to accuse her of flirting with you. Strike up a lighthearted conversation, get her laughing, and then teasingly ask her if she's flirting with you.
She will be caught off guard and will ask herself the same question.
Stand up straight
Your mother was right. You look much better when you don't slouch. Standing up straight shows that you are confident in yourself and comfortable in your own skin. That's a turn-on.
Stalk her online.
No, of course, you shouldn't be breaking into her profile or digging for information that isn't readily available. But it's OK to take a look at what you have permission to see.
Take note of what she's posting about and what she likes. Pay attention if she states a preference for a particular drink or type of food. She'll be impressed that you took the time to get to know her.
Don't be an open book.
If you don't want to be like other guys, play it cool. Be friendly and truthful, but keep the conversation mostly about her.
Most women find a mystery attractive. If you tell her your life story the minute you meet, you're going to lose some of your allure.
Be obsessive about doing what you say you'll do
Women want to be able to trust you and to know that you have integrity. These days, lots of guys don't.
Don't make empty promises.
If you say you're going to call her.. then call her. If you promise to do something for her.. do it. Knowing she can count on your word is huge.
Make some plans.
Once in a while, you just have to take the reins. Some women will love it if you do this all the time, but almost any woman will appreciate not having to make decisions now and then.
Decide on a restaurant and decide where to go afterward. Make any necessary reservations. The only question the lady should have to answer is what time she's free.
There is a world of difference between a jerk and a doormat. Prove to her that nice guys can also be strong, independent, and sexy.