While you might think the things you do aren't such a big deal, your boyfriend just might. Here are 7 things that might seems little, but might really annoy the guy you like.
Just because he's your boyfriend and might let you drive his car sometimes, doesn't give you the right to change his radio presets. In your car the presets are yours. It doesn't matter if you don't like what he listens to or want to influence him to listen to something new. Doing this will definitely annoy your boyfriend.
Doesn't matter what sport your boyfriend is into, if he loves it, you need to avoid being a chatterbox. Most men get into a zone when they watch sports, so he probably won't hear you anyway. You'll end up mad that he's not listening, but he'll be mad that you're trying to take his attention away from the game. Instead of talking during the game, wait until commercials or game breaks.
While you might assume he'd be flattered that you're always thinking about him, consider how you would feel if you got texts from anyone that many times a day. Give him a chance to miss you. Texting him so much is only going to do the opposite.
This is a major no-no. No peeking in his phone while he's in the shower. Whether you're just curious or you're suspicious, it's important that you talk to him instead of sneaking around. Eventually, he will find out that you did it. He'll likely find out from you because you'll probably have a question about a name or picture you saw. A guy who isn't doing anything wrong will be annoyed that he has to protect his phone from you. Just because he's not doing anything wrong, doesn't mean you should be able to snoop through his phone anytime you want.
You might do this because you love him, but over time your constant attention will become too much. Your boyfriend doesn't need you to take care of him constantly. Remember that he's a grown man and not a child.
This behavior is annoying coming from anyone, but you don't want to try this with your boyfriend. Guys already feel like they can't win when it comes to giving compliments to their girlfriends, so you don't want to fish around for compliments. Putting yourself down, whether in honesty or an attempt to get compliments is not an attractive quality.
Whether you are bad-mouthing your exes or talking about them fondly, the experience won't likely be pleasant for your current boyfriend. Of course he realizes that you had boyfriends before him, but that doesn't mean you need to relive the relationship with him.
It's the annoying LITTLE habits that can break a relationship. It's important to take your guy's feelings into consideration. If you don't, it might mean the end of your relationship.
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She continued to spend my money down and at the same time to become more enraged that i didnt give her MORE money. She was THAT kind of person. So now what i know better, i dump the few girls who come my way real fast, when they start doing that sort of thing. I wont forgive it ONCE, for one minute. And no apology or any other offering can fix it!
I finally learned my lesson during my marriage. She did more than mess with my computer.
My ex wife made me fully realize there's some things you can't fix.