Men: Avoid Rejection With This Proven First Move Technique

Men Avoid Rejection With This Proven First Move Technique

Making the first move is hard. It often comes with the pain of rejection. But with this proven first move method, men can find out if a woman is interested in them without actually having to talk to her. The first move has never been this easy!

It seems that men are always required to make the first move, but that is actually an illusion. The reality is that only about one-third of all initial contact is made by men. Women are normally the ones who have to make the initial move.

Knowing that a woman is usually quick to make the first move doesn't mean that a man should wait around until a woman does it. Many men do not recognize the subtle things a woman does when she makes the first move, and if they don't take the hint from the signals she gives off, then a woman may quickly move on to someone else.

A Proven First Move Method For Men That Works!

There is a proven first move that will allow you to send the message that you are interested in a woman, and you will be able to tell if she is interested in you as well; all without having to talk to her. This way, you can find out if she's interested in you, and you can approach her without a fear of rejection.

This first move is actually a method that a lot of women use to send their message of interest to men! You can rest assured knowing that if it works subtly on men, then it will also work subtly on women.

The move is all about body language. When you are interacting with a woman, your body language is doing about 90 percent of the talking while your words are only doing about 10 percent. When it comes down to it, your body language will instantly tell a woman all she needs to know.

For this first move, you will be using eye contact. It has been shown that eye contact can create attraction. In fact, it is powerful enough to cause an attraction between two strangers who have never laid eyes on each other before.

If a woman is not interested in you at all, then she is not going to respond to your eye contact in a positive manner. And if a woman does not respond well to your eye contact, then you can avoid approaching her and getting rejected.

First, make eye contact with a woman you are interested in. When her eyes meet yours, count to two or three and then look away. If you stare for longer than three seconds you can look creepy, and if you stare for less than two seconds she may think you are not interested. Two to three seconds of eye contact will send her a message that you have noticed her.

Now you have to show her that you are interested in her. You can do this by making eye contact with her again and adding a slight smile to the equation. A smile will confirm her suspicion that you are interested in her. Again, only hold the eye contact with a smile for about two to three seconds to send your desired message of interest.

Studies have shown that a woman who is interested in you will look back to see if you are looking at her within a minute or two of the second eye contact you initiated. If you catch her looking back at you again, then chances are she has an interest in you. Then you can move on to the next move.

Now that you have established interest in each other you can say hello, without actually talking to her. This will be your way of asking if she wants you to approach her, without having to actually ask her! You can do this by catching her gaze again and giving her a little nod to say hello. If she nods back, or gives you any kind of positive signal like a smile, then you can move in and initiate a conversation with her knowing that you are not going to get rejected in your approach.

If she does not respond to your nod, or gives you a dirty look after your nod, then avoid approaching her. She is either sending you a message that she is not interested or does not want to be approached. Either way, you will probably be rejected if you approach her.

The great thing about this move is that you will not be left confused. She will either give you a positive response or a negative response. You will not be left wondering what to do.

The rest is up to you. If you have her interest and you have clearly shown your interest, then you can approach her and start a conversation. If you can charm her with your conversation, then you have a very good chance of getting her number and a first date. Even if you do not have a lot of time for a conversation, she will still probably give you her number because you have established an attraction between the two of you.

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DLMac
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