Good Reasons to Dump Your Man

Good Reasons to Dump Your Man

If you've decided to read this article, then you're probably having doubts about the romantic relationship you share with your man. Is it time to end your relationship, or should you stick by him? That depends on what is causing the doubts you are having. Some issues are a normal part of every romantic relationship, other problems are usually insurmountable. Read on to find out whether it's time to throw in the towel.

He Really Annoys You

It's impossible to have a future with a man who makes you want to stick hot needles into his eyes, or maybe even disembowel him. If your man irritates you a great deal, it is a sign that your personalities are not very well matched. You would be better of ending the relationship and looking for a man who has a personality you find admirable as opposed to annoying. If you stay with a man who gets on your nerves, you are simply wasting your time. What's more, you are unlikely to treat an annoying man with kindness and respect. Hence it is kinder to walk away and let him find a woman who finds his habits and character endearing.

You Are Sad Instead Of Happy

Even if you really love your man, you shouldn't stay with him if he consistently makes you miserable. Arguments are a part of all normal relationships. However, if you argue a great deal and spend a lot of time crying, it could be time to call it quits. Romantic relationships are not supposed to be constantly painful. You should be making love more than you argue. There are occasions when simply loving someone just isn't enough.

You Rarely See Him

It's hard to continue a relationship with a man you hardly ever see. What's more, if your man only visits you once a week for sex, it's probably safe to assume he is using you. A man who loves you and enjoys your company will make time for you, even if he has a very busy schedule. If your man can't make time for you in his life, you are not one of his main priorities.

He's Not There for You

When a man loves his romantic partner, he is there for her in times of need. If you lose a loved one, he is there to offer his shoulder to cry on. If you break your arm, he comes with you to the emergency room. A man who is not by your side when you need him most cares more about himself than he does you.

He Never Calls

When a man is genuinely interested in a woman, he calls her on the phone and makes time to be with her. A man who never calls is not that interested in you. After all, healthy relationships are about give and take. Therefore you shouldn't have to do all the running. You should also be wary of a man who makes excuses to get off the phone whenever you call him.

You Don't Know Him Anymore

Sometimes both halves of a couples change and grow apart. Has your man changed significantly to the point where you hardly even recognize him? If the changes are positive, perhaps you will like him better as he is now. However, if you don't like the man your partner is becoming, it's better to walk away and look for someone better suited to your needs.

He Doesn't Introduce You

If your man genuinely loves you, he will want the world to know about it. Consequently he will enjoy introducing you to his friends and family. He will also want to meet your friends and loved ones. A man who doesn't want you to meet the people he cares about is not serious about you. He has no intention of making a commitment. The same is true of a man who doesn't want to meet your friends and family.

He Isn't Honest

You should probably dump your man if he has a tendency to tell lies or withhold the truth. Romantic relationships cannot work if either partner doubts the sincerity of the other. Trust is a fundamental part of a happy romantic relationship. Lack of trust usually leads to terrible arguments and misery. It is better to be alone than to feel desperately unhappy.

He Cheats

How did you meet your man? Was he taken when you met him? If you stole your man from another woman, you shouldn't be surprised when he leaves you for someone else one day. If you know your man is a cheater, you'll save yourself a great deal of heartache if you dump him instead of waiting for him to leave you for another woman.

He's Inattentive in Public

How does your man treat you when you go parties or public places together? Is he attentive, or does he act like you're not really there? Does he invite you to functions that require a date? If a man is proud of the woman he is with, he will give her a lot of attention regardless of where he is. What's more, he will not be ashamed to introduce her to his work colleagues. If you man leaves you at home, or tends to ignore you in public, he probably thinks he is too good for you. Do you really want to be with a man who believes he is superior to you?

He's Not Over His Ex

Does your man talk about his ex-girlfriend a great deal? Does he compare you with is ex? Does he still spend time with her? Does he avoid telling her about your for fear that she will get upset? These are all signs of a man who still harbors romantic feelings for his ex-girlfriend. If your man isn't over his ex, he is still on the rebound. Rebound relationships rarely last. If your man is carrying too much emotional baggage from his last relationship, it's probably a good idea to let go of him.

Comments (9)

I first have to have a man before I can dump one. banana
Dani_290
Sometimes, it's not the things he did, but things he did not .cheers
mheme
I wish I read this before ??
Sabina55T
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Leibherr580
and if this dose not make the female mind more suspicious of a male . and put her of dating for life . on a singles dating site nothing will. barf WELL DONE HAPPYDAYS FOREVER SINGLEcheers
1_SPCTR
Thanks for the reminders, I really could use them, sometimes :)
NOSTRUS
All true . Been there just reading it brings back the pain . Better to be alone even lonely than be with someone you love who doesn't love you back purple heart
falicia
This Is a Great Post!
I Wish Every Woman In the World Read This Post!
We Need to Learn From This!
And Become a More Confident With a Great Self Esteem!
We Should Never Let a Man to Walk all Over as!

Thank you for Write This Post !
It Is Great

By faliciaXO


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falicia
This Is a Great Post!
I Wish Every Woman In the World Read This Post!
We Need to Learn From This!
And Become a More Confident With a Great Self Esteem!
We Should Never Let a Man to Walk all Over as!

Thank you for Write This Post !
It Is Great

By faliciaXO


teddybear heart beating heart wings handshake comfort peace cheers hug banana applause head banger cheering wine sad flower bouquet

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