Building a relationship with your Pet

First off Hi everyone, welcome here and feel free to make suggestions as well as give insight to ideas and share, feel free to express yourself, dont hold back, lifes honest to short to just wear a mask most of time...

First off lets start with feeding habits, animals see feeding times as a time to gain energy, and boost there drive, as well as to release stress, see this time a chance just before eating to bond with your animal, share some emotions, ask them to do something for you, and dont expect them to listen the first 5 times, it might take some diligent work, and yes this does work on both cats and dogs, ive tried.

getting your animal to speak or just shut up, lol, well speaking is one thing, u must not break confidence when it comes to training your animal divine right is yours as the master, to the servant or in a more respectable way master to administrator. demonstrate to the loved animal that u want them to do something they are capable of doing, or you have seen other animals there kind do, start with sharing stories about what other animals have done, and enlighten them to embark or embrace there inner spirit. then feed them for there success, this lets them know that you are in deep respects with there inner spiritual child, which most and if not all people can relate to themselves.

I could write more but i wanna keep this short so i can write another add later enjoy this and let me know what u think so far... how many ways can u use this alternative way of process to thinking alternatively...

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buckeye1332
I have 3 cats, two males and a female (all are fixed). They are all about 3.5 years old. Each one has their own personality, and they all get along great.

The leader of the group is Romeo, he is a large orange and white cat with mitten paws. I think he is a beautiful cat, and so does everyone who has seen him. He is the first to come up to someone who comes over, and can be quite the show off. He can be very lovable, especially when he knows it's feeding time. At times it seems he never runs out of energy and loves to play and sometimes bully the other 2. he also like to be very nosey, and can open cabinets and drawers, and loves to climb (I have a 4 tier cat tree that stands about 6'2").

The there's Bell, he is a long haired black and grey tiger. He has is also a beautiful cat. Originally his name was Bella, as my (now)ex was convinced he was a female till his boys dropped (I knew he was a boy but there was no changing her mind for awhile, lol). He was very timid and shy for a long time. He rarely would come out when someone came over. In the last year I have been single he has came a long way. He is very vocal, and can be quite needy at times wanting attention. He also is a climber.

Then there's Pretty Girl. She is kind of a black and grey tortise shell with some white on her belly and paws. She was a stray I had been feeding for a few months and really took a liking to her, so I took her and the boys to get fixed about 2.5 years ago. She is the best mannered and laid back cat I have ever had. She is a lover, and craves attention. She's kind of a chub, she loves her hard food over soft food, and will weasel her way into making me give in and give the 3 of them treats.

When I come home from work or somewhere else, they are all there at the door waiting on me almost always. Bell has to be petted or he will keep meowing at me until I do. Pretty Girl will hop on my lap as soon as I sit down and want attention. Romeo is always curious to see if I brought something home, or what it is if I did.

When me and my ex split a year ago, they knew it. Me and my ex lived together the almost 4 years we were together. They never really acted as if they missed her, like they knew how she did me wrong. They knew how hurt I was, and were always right beside me when I was home. They sensed my pain somehow. I could hide my pain from my friends and family, but I coldn't from them.
maxicherokee
i love my dog, he loves me, but he wont let me shave 'im! ha! ha! hee! hee!
SuperSexcSoldier
Im talking about a distinct friendship you build with you animal, called trust, companionship, and reliability with your pet, if they come to you when its time to eat, or if they come to u for more water, stuff like that, ofcourse most of the time i just leave the stuff out most people do the same thinking it signifys nothing to the animal, but its not true it lets you actually get to know the animal better depending on what they do right after they get what they want, you should be able to get a view point of where there minds are depending on how playful they are after they get what they want, if they lay back down right after thats usually a sign that they are only giving u a small piece of there attention and they dont respect you, i mean a pet should greet there master, and attempt to gain your attention and respect as well the same way you do yourself, also it never hurts to pretend every now and then that your an animal also, the monkey see monkey do thing really works, it help also if you sleep with your pet in the same room, that changes things also...
JeanKimberley
confused
inner child? are you talking about real animal pets, dogs, cats, horses or human "pets"? It is really.... not clear......

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