missing my love
by xonia420Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia May 2011 7,851 Views 6 Comments
i always wonder how people move around normally, manage everything when someone special or the axis of one 's life is not present beside them.... how they live on in that person's absence... I CAN'T... missing is a very small word for what i felt when my love is not around... missing can't describe the pain, when seconds seems like hours, hours seems like days and days seems like century... days seems endless and night seems like never ending nightmare... at first the concept of your love being with you is so strong that you feel them with you, looking at you, sitting/standing at several places.. when talking to someone you came to a point where you think that if he would be here , he would have said that and just that mere thought make you smile but you also feel pain inside growing along with it... sometime you feel alone altough you are accompanied by many... some time you just want to hug your love but he is not there, you want to cry on his shoulder, you want to tell that you can't bear his absence BUT you can't, you never can instead you only think it wuld hurt your love more to know that... sometime you just want your day to be ended so you would go home and share things with your love but when you reach home he is not there, the person who make house THE HOME is not there, the place you live is so empty without him that feeling is so painful even i lost my words to explain that.. when love is not around you forgot when you last eat something... you don't feel like eating.. as the day passes by, light falls into dark another thing start coming to haunt you, increase your agony... how you gonna sleep without love... you try to shut your eyes but you can't make yourself go to bed , because no one is there to kiss you good nite, no one to hug you while you are asleep,you can't feel the warmth of your love beside you...it's like hell where you are helpless, then you decide to sleep at love's side of the bed, and hug a pillow like he used to... and this is only the story of one painful whole day... don't know how many days are there more to suffer... but you know you have to manage not for you but for your love... because at the end of the day, he is the only one who does matter the most.. missing you like hell...
Comments (6)
Now that you're single, embrace your singlehood. Heal your hurt, your wounds. Recuperate, be well. It will take time, a few weeks, a few months. It will pass, and soon you'll be be happy in a new single life. In time, love will comes back.
When you're well and happy, singlehood is not so bad. Then in your singlehood you can find someone and be sure, not to jump in too quick, of who you want and the qualities he must have, so he'll be there for all your life, as you'll be there for all his life.
True love is honest, and real, and must not be wasted on wrong person. It will be cherished by the one who values honesty and true love, and knows true faithfulness and loyalty is a must.
Honesty becomes true love, and built into these two is faithfulness and loyalty, no matter what. When you know someone have these four qualities, then you can finally be a real couple. Love will grows and grows and in no time at all, your empty hole fills with true love from your self and from your love, who gives his loves to you and back and forth grows and grows and never dies.
I seek these also. It's very rare. No worries!
i read your article, thats realy touches the depths of heart. you describe the real emotions of the heart. its realy a great article. God may bless you.
Regards
Adeel Jaffery
This is so deep! And yeah, it's a tough deal when your love isn't (or can't be) with you. Probably most readers here have felt this at some time. And the truth is, people don't function normally when separated from their true love, but rather under some sort of disguise of normality - a cover-up or as best they can under the circumstances.
What I do is recall and keep in mind the good moments - even when you want that shoulder to cry on imagine your love is there for you. Your love resides in your heart and nobody (nor distance) can take that away. So keep it fresh, keep their memory close and love THAT they are, not where they are. As the saying goes, if it's true love, they will return to you, if it wasn't they surely never will.
This may seem a bit etherial, but it is one way to cope ... doubtless, there are other ways. Take care, be of good spirit.
you are write a little bit but not completely because you that every picture has two side one is the brighter and other is the darker. It depends upon you in which way you see the pic.hope u under if there is still a confusion feel free to ask any time... you are always welcome..... ALLAH HAFIZ
Your article has touched turning point of my life.If you want to find the awnser please go though listing hindi song "Mein jindigi ka sath nibata chalagaya,Har fiqir ko duwen me udata chalagaya,Jo khogaya ma us ko bulata..........,
Jo milgaya ma us ko mukadar samajliya,.............