Guy's Guide to Decoding Hard-to-Get Girls

Most guys love a challenge. But sometimes it can be difficult to tell when a woman is playing hard to get or when she is really just not into a man. To navigate the mysterious world that is women, it's good to stay on the right side of the thin line between stalker and welcome suitor. By understanding better where a woman is coming from, a man can get what he wants without risking his pride. Getting the right woman starts with being the kind of man she would want for one long, hot night as well as every night for life.

Asking her on a date

If a woman turns a man down for a date, it could be that she is genuinely busy or it could be she is just not that into the guy. Before giving up, do a better job at planning a date that she would be interested in going on. Give her plenty of notice so she doesn't feel like she is just a booty call. Find out what she is into. Also, make a phone call to ask a woman on a date rather than texting, emailing or scribbling down, "You free on Saturday?" on a napkin at the bar.

Going for the kiss

Women, especially the so-called "Rules girls" love to be pursued by a man. If a woman is receptive to a first date, she will generally be receptive to a first kiss. However, in order to give the relationship a real shot, don't initiate more than a kiss on the first date. Men who try to sleep with a woman on the first date are sabotaging a chance at a deeper relationship. If a woman accepts a second date, but refuses to invite her date back to her place, it means she respects herself. A man can build some character by turning down a woman who initiates sex on the first few dates, but also spare her feelings by communicating that he is attracted but wants to pace the relationship so it doesn't burn out.

Dealing with assertive women

Some women can be challenging because they are hard to get, while other women come across as too easy. Women in society have been trained to be assertive in order to survive in the business world and advance in their careers. However, all women have a more feminine side. If a woman isn't in touch with her feminine side, it's tempting to balance out the relationship. Stay in charge as a man, but communicate clearly and effectively with actions. Open all the doors for the lady to show a chivalrous side. Ask a woman what she would like for dinner and then order for her. Send her flowers or something romantic after the first two or three successful dates.

Introducing her to friends

Instead of introducing a woman to family and friends, ask questions about the people close to her. Even if she is a dream girl, it's too much pressure for a woman to get to know a man's family right off the bat. Impress her people first before taking her home to meet the parents. Make it clear to mom and dad that they need to be on their best behavior because she's the No. 1 priority.

It's rare to find a woman who has it all, so no sane guy wants to let her slip through his fingers. If a woman declines a date or just isn't interested, let some time go by. Ask her out again in six months if another woman hasn't replaced her spot. If a dream woman seems too easy, new guy code says she may be worth taming. Simply take charge by communicating that the name of the game is patience.