I have a lovely life, gorgeous kids, enough time to do with as I wish. In fact you could call it almost perfect. But almost?
I suddenly long for a bit of male attention. Someone to chat with, or watch a movie with, play a little golf with and sit and watch a live cricket match!
So I join a dating site and what happens? There are too many young men available - I get messages from 26 year olds! Now really...
My age bracket seem to be scared of dating their own age - instead they look for young women. To boost their ego? Or do I come across as over intelligent? But I DO want intelligent conversation, an independant man, a good looking man who is well mannered!
Is that too much to ask for?
So every day I go through my mail and try to discourage the gorgeous young men trying to date me! They probably think I am a love starved widow ready to do anything for a bit of affection. No I am not a love starved widow!
Or maybe I should become a cougar? I will seriously consider the option unless you, the nice 55 year old will contact me? I really am good company. I am pleasant to look at, I laugh a lot but thats because I have a good sense of humour - so be brave guys .........
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Comments (16)
I suspect Ms Cougar may need to be my default.
we are in the twenty twenties now not the sixteen hundreds . it takes two to make a relationship . pic or no pic there all just as bad . so may i suggest if you can find an active 2020 profile on here and you like it give it a go. JUST BE CAREFUL . MUST BE TREATED LIKE A FIREWORK HOLD AT ARMS LENGTH . AND GIVE THEM NOTHING .
As long as you can spread them and enjoy.....life goes on.......
Sure the ...kids..recover quicker but whats to recover after 90 seconds of selfish panting?
Go by feelings...if they treat you well, act as they should, have fun!!! If not show them the door!!!!
Best of Luck
I would give some consideration. Yes you don't want to raise another kid if you have raised your kids already. Even your own children if you have any would look at you kind of strange.
Some young studs are still looking for a mom but figure they can entertain a milf for an ego boost.
When a guy gets too old and useless or needs little blue pills to make things work I'm sure it is embarrassing along with lack of staying power. As for emotional maturity and stability that is what women expect of a man at middle age. If he doesn't have anything on his plate to offer he's a loser and you are not getting any younger to wait to see what happens. Such as in my case women will be a senior home before they see any results from me. It is why they don't want anything to do with me today. If you find someone within a reasonable age who has much to offer you I would cease the opportunity. She who hesitates is lost. You say you want intelligent conversation and independent good looking men to entertain you who hopefully are not walking with a cane or sitting in wheelchair. Yet, to find someone emotionally and physically healthy even partially wealthy and wise would be an ideal match for any woman. You are a beautiful woman and you deserve goodness and love and beauty surrounds you. If one dares to approach you to offer you kindness be they 25yrs 35yrs or 45 cease the opportunity for she who hesitates is lost. Only minds and hearts truly join. Love is ageless and timeless but, always ever trying to offer healing.
Being too selective shows one is not seeking love but someone to feed them what they cannot get for themselves.
Never assume a guy who is middle aged is any more mature than a 25 yr old.
tc
wish u get your perfect man soon
bye
and smile allwayssssssssssssss