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Relax3

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

I don't exactly agree with you.
as for my self when I go out on a date. Its important they make no effort to dress up but be there total selves and dress as to there style.
I as such look more at the beauty from the inside. as on the long run that is what important.
At our age we all been though hard times , which at the end of the day, its our choose how to take them. sadly enough many of us live with anger. which effects us and any relationship you have.
The best way is to let go. learn, be wiser and stronger, and except your responsability as the problems of the past made us the person we are today.

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Dennmac

RE: How To Tame Your Need To Chase Him

Sadly most people merely settle. They stop looking for what is best and accept what is hand. They allow the good to be the enemy of the perfect.
Look up Ven diagrams or make a list of pros and cons as to what you NEED, not what you WANT.
If using a Ven diagram seek out those where the overlap is, using pros and cons is more obvious.
Keep in mind that you are the thing of great value and don't settle for anyone that can't recognize that.
Men have it harder than women by they way.
Women only settle for the " good uns" after being dumped by all the bad ones.
Society taught us what we should fear and what makes people "perfect".
But failed to explain the lighting, makeup, and lack of real personality that comes with looks.

heart beating

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Dennmac

RE: Good Reasons to Dump Your Man

Sorry ladies but I guess you don't know about Passport Bros?
Or the stats on single thirty and older women.
You can do your own research on both.

doh

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Dennmac

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

Really? CONFIDENCE MEN CONMEN for short.
Where have you people been since the beginning of time?
Mean scammers only profit from BDSM.

cool

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Dennmac

RE: We Are All Born with Psychic Ability !

Hello one and all.
I reside just down the road from the worlds largest psychic center, Lilleydale NY, and the winter in Cassadaga Fla.
Few are true psychics.
I read that popular people are liked because they read a situation faster.
We all have pattern recognition, some are better than others.
Mystic states can be induced via magnetism and the placing of electrodes on certain parts of the head.
because we ,live in a very large magnet field and have an even larger one a few million miles away certain places and times can induce a mystical state due to this.
The reality is some are good, some are bad, and some are just doing their job.
And I have practiced and read various mystic "things" since about 1973.
Are we all psychic? Most likely;y not the odds alone are against that.
Then again we have eight billion plus variations on the overall human dynamic, so who knows what powers exist out there.
Finally like all good Pantheists we are UNIVERSE and everything is NATURE Quantum Entanglement and Superposition kind of make foresight, psychic knowledge, possible.
And consciousness may be non local.
Go read some Robert Anton Wilson.



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Dennmac

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

Just a hint men don't really care how you dress unless you are the novel version of Patrick Bateman.
All we want is sex.
That entire inbred survival by spreading your seed far and wide.
Evolution you just can't escape it.

devil

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Dennmac

RE: 16 Simple Ways to Make a Woman Want You

"No Girl Will Choose Six Pack Over Six Cars.. So Stop Going to The Gym and go to Work." —Robert Mugabe
cheering

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Dennmac

RE: Men to Avoid Dating Based on Their Handwriting Characteristics


Manipulation: Techniques, Strategies, & Ethics

According to the above EVERYONE should be avoided because EVERY action is manipulative.
Graphology is fun but then so was Phrenology.
teddybear

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RE: Men to Avoid Dating Based on Their Handwriting Characteristics

Size of handwriting: The size of someone's handwriting can indicate their level of confidence and self-esteem. Large handwriting might suggest extroversion and confidence, while small handwriting could indicate introversion or a reserved nature.

Spacing between letters and words: The spacing between letters and words can reflect a person's need for personal space and their relationship with others. Narrow spacing may suggest a desire for closeness and intimacy, while wide spacing could indicate a need for independence and boundaries.

Slant of handwriting: The slant of handwriting (whether it leans to the left, right, or stands upright) is often associated with emotional responsiveness. Rightward slanting may suggest sociability and openness, while leftward slanting could indicate introspection or reserve.

Pressure of pen strokes: The pressure applied while writing can reveal the intensity of a person's emotions. Heavy pressure might suggest strong emotions, determination, or stubbornness, while light pressure could indicate sensitivity or a more delicate nature.

Baseline consistency: Consistency in the baseline (the imaginary line on which the text rests) can indicate stability and reliability. A consistent baseline may suggest a well-balanced personality, while an erratic baseline could indicate moodiness or instability.

Letter forms and shapes: The way letters are formed and shaped can provide insights into a person's creativity, attention to detail, and level of organization. For example, rounded letters may suggest a nurturing and friendly personality, while angular letters could indicate a more analytical or assertive nature.

Margins and overall layout: The placement of text on the page and the organization of margins can reflect a person's sense of orderliness and control. Neat, well-organized handwriting might suggest discipline and attention to detail, while messy or erratic handwriting could indicate a more spontaneous or chaotic approach to life.

It's important to note that handwriting analysis is subjective and not universally accepted as a reliable method for assessing personality. Interpretations can vary widely, and factors such as cultural influences and individual variability can impact the accuracy of the analysis. Therefore, while handwriting analysis can be an interesting tool for self-reflection and exploration, it should be approached with skepticism and used alongside other methods of personality assessment for a more comprehensive understanding.professor

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williambruse733

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

i definitely agreed with you.... first impression are very important as for me its a key

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carlamee

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

Dress to impress may be eye catching, but once he open his mouth to speak it may be disheartening. dunno

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carlamee

RE: We Are All Born with Psychic Ability !

If that is so, I wish I can tap into mine.

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carlamee

RE: Good Reasons to Dump Your Man

I first have to have a man before I can dump one. banana

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Dani_290

RE: Good Reasons to Dump Your Man

Sometimes, it's not the things he did, but things he did not .cheers

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Friendship4ever

RE: How To Tame Your Need To Chase Him

I enjoy the chase. ONLY if I'm attracted to the person.

I never chase, If I smile at him he will know my attraction. banana

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Dani_290

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

Why would they be rude? if their only aim is to manipulate your feelings and milk you as a cow.laugh

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Dani_290

RE: How To Tame Your Need To Chase Him

Men love chase, but women never ignores men they like. If he ignores you, move on!bouquet

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plynne

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

I have talked to many scammers. They use a script most of the time. They are only lying to us and could care less about us. All they want is your information so they can get your money, and all the stuff you send them, pics go into another profile they will use to scam someone else with. Always red flags-working on the ocean, private investigator, seem to be the jobs of choice. Widowed with a child being schooled somewhere else. Not sounding American in text, and using two first names.

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Wrinkleylove

RE: We Are All Born with Psychic Ability !

Oh, I just saw it. It is a Warning of Dark times ahead. (Return of The Dark Age, or will it repeat?) (The way it ran the first time)
What tipped it for you?, the non stop relocation of the same war?
The Cost of Living crisis.
The Housing Crisis, pretty much in every country we hear about on mainstream tv News.
Or just wanting to go on record for later when you say, See! I foresaw that coming way back when I wrote on CS.
Encore, encore. My congrats. Well done and I mean that deeply sincerely. Do you have anything else please? W.

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Wrinkleylove

RE: We Are All Born with Psychic Ability !

Hi, 4th. generation Psychic/Intuitive originally from New Orleans.
I am the first model of me.
I agree, we are all born with it, those that are born with it. Natural Mutation and cross fertilization however does mean either one or the other of these two groups holds higher percentage.
Then you have to take into account the two Primary Natures, Individualism and Collectivism. It is said that every Nature is one or the other. Logically, how could it be anyway different?
I continued reading you in hope you might divulge the formula / psychological logic empowering your Psychic/Intuitive - ness but got to the end feeling somewhat unfulfilled.
Not your doing. It was all me. Being 4th. generation I went in with high expectations of what you might divulge. my fault and i should have known better.
Please forgive me. My disappointment was all on me. W.

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Wrinkleylove

RE: Why are scammers the most polite and complimentary?

nenew,

seems to me your perfect soul mate is a scammer.
You should run with it. Obviously men who are not scammers fail to rise to your expectations. If someone likes blond hair only, why date a red head and force them to dye their hair blond?
Also, do you treat 'scammers' differently or 'other men' who all day long get told to treat females as independent and equal or face the full consequences of the legal system?
You want them to take care of you. Is that until you decide you no longer want them to take care of you?

Consider this, a scammer never says goodbye on the relationship. A scammer never says a harsh word in reply. A scammer always acts as it you are number one, and he is number two.

nenew, sounds to me like your perfect match. You should always run with your strengths. W.

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Zoharstrius

RE: We Are All Born with Psychic Ability !

Did you see my last post?

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fantasyartist

RE: What to Do When You've Been Stood Up

I've been stood up more times than I care to count, and the reason is usually they just didn't want to show up and it was just a game to them. I've tried to contact them after the date was supposed to happen and just been ghosted! If there's no real intent to show up to the date, then don't talk to the other person at all on the dating site. It could cause the person you let down a lot of pain when their intentions were pure.

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Zoharstrius

RE: We Are All Born with Psychic Ability !

To OP: aware3:

What happened to those before the 4th generation started? Were they too not Psychic/Intuitive? it had me wondering why they were not included. Simple logic for me would state that wahetever you can accredit yourself to having came from the first, and not generations later. Then again there is no real rule of thumb per-se when it comes to saying how many generations does it take to make up our ancestors. i suppose for one it might be just one generations worth. and another, all of them. Yet for you its four. Aside from this, the overall sentiment that I personally gather from what you wrote is a safe-zone method of describing a gravely misunderstood topic of magnificent beauty. Your method of explaining it is safe, and though I do not agree with your explanation of it I can see and understand whay you explained it such. at least with your method of explaining would not burn bridges and cause mass separations as it would in the manners of which I would explain it. So, i value your tactfulness and willingness to soften the blow of such a degraded and misunderstood topic. So while your intuition gains you broken bits of insight into where these bits of information exist, it is my desire that you find every day worthy of greeting a newer and better you as you steadily become what you have been becoming, as you awaken to what you already are. Cheers* from the other Side.

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carlamee

RE: 16 Simple Ways to Make a Woman Want You

That list is a guideline, but if he can't communicate then he can't complete the list.

COMMUNICATION IS IMPORTANT.

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Luigi137

RE: 16 Simple Ways to Make a Woman Want You

The 16 points are guidelines as I read them. A man has to have his unique creativity on dealing with any woman. In my experience is to be yourself, be honest, have clarity, don't expect too much let that be something that sparks on its own, and make time to do all of these things. Without time and effort nothing significant happens.

The listening part and non judgmental is very important in any relationships. Even towards a man, lastly be unselfish regardless how much you may want to have sex with her. Women feel that they have been taken for granted those are the honest ones, and there are women who also are in to get something out of you that is more than sex. I always pay attention at what a woman's writes and expects especially before even meeting a man. Some of them they will write a long list.

Okay, that is all. Cheers everyone.

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phatdrummer650

RE: Men to Avoid Dating Based on Their Handwriting Characteristics

but with everyone texting now, not using hand-written notes, we
won't have any idea who we're talking with or what they're really like.


doh

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carlamee

RE: Five Reasons You Can't Get (or Keep) a Good Guy

I smother them with LOVE. banana

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sherif39

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

Hello, I am Sharif from Egypt. I am 51 years old. I have been separated for years. I have a daughter and a son, and they live with their mother now

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RE: Scam Profile Red Flags

AD Spot } ..because we dont have enough of them here.

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I have discovered sum spooky physics in popular musick charts ...[ 2 samples,
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Hann56

RE: Five Reasons You Can't Get (or Keep) a Good Guy

Do you know who Jesus Christ is ?

Col 1:15  Who is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of every creature: 
Col 1:16  For by him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him:

Do you know that Jesus Christ died for our sins?

1Co 15:3  For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 
1Co 15:4  And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: 

Do you know this is the gospel you must believe to be saved ?

1Co 15:1  Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 
1Co 15:2  By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 

Eph 1:13  In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise, 

You must believe this gospel given to Paul by Christ to be saved.

Gal 1:11  But I certify you, brethren, that the gospel which was preached of me is not after man. 
Gal 1:12  For I neither received it of man, neither was I taught it, but by the revelation of Jesus Christ. 

2Th 1:8  In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ: 
2Th 1:9  Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord, and from the glory of his power; 

PM me, if you have questions.

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DLMac

RE: Five Reasons You Can't Get (or Keep) a Good Guy

Only one simple reason.
YOU ARE A WOMAN!
teddybear

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DLMac

RE: Relationship Dating: Building Successful Relationships

I have been in many that failed for many reasons.
One of the biggest factors is people change as they age.
Security, forget that.
Stability, forget that.
"While approximately 35-50% of first marriages still end in divorce, second marriages face a higher likelihood of dissolution, ranging from 60-70+%."
Good luck.
"In fact, the U.S. crude divorce rate is 2.5 , while the worldwide average crude divorce rate is just 1.8.Aug 8, 2023"
"In the U.S., while the divorce rate hovers around 40 or 50 percent, the divorce rate for arranged marriages is 4 percent. In India, where some estimate that 90 percent of marriages are arranged, the divorce rate is only 1 percent."

Arranged marriages are best.

teddybear

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Moodymir

RE: Relationship Dating: Building Successful Relationships

A successful relationship is built on honesty, sincerity, and respect, the only nourishing thing for any relationship

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DLMac

RE: Scam Baiting.

Anyyone else actively reporting scammers?
I have that in the forum section. Maybe start crossposting?
teddybear

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DLMac

RE: Coping With Loneliness

You must have been reading someone else because I never described a "perfect woman".
No one is "perfect".
Honestly how close a match do you consider perfection?
A lot of men advise renting boats, homes, cars and women. They state you pay a hooker to leave.
Needs vs wants.
Have you taken a good look at your fellow women here? They are marketed sex products from names to fake pictures.
Then you have the aging out women trying to compete with them and getting angry when men don't notice them.
Now why are you still here in the meat (MEET) market if all you ever get are angry men?
Or maybe you simply make the men angry?
I put out tests. maybe puzzles, to uncover the INTERESTING women.

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carlamee

RE: Coping With Loneliness

"In short, If women are so bad why are they so heavily hunted by Men?"
You can't ( legally ) kill them and you can't have Heterosexual sex without them."


Sounds like a misogyny.

"What bothers me is the declining birth rates and aging demographics of the first world, colonizer, nations."
Don't worry, the invention of AI will make you feel right at home. The prediction is that AI will rule the world in the near future. Now that's the perfect woman you described.

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DLMac

RE: 12 Sure Ways to Turn a Woman Off

"carlamee•Aug 6•Atlanta, Georgia USA
Unable to use proper grammar and spelling.
Let her know how prejudice you are.
Unable to communicate.
Narcissistic.

Those are very large assumptions regarding the quality and quantity and AGE of education.
The smell one is funny because of the whole Pheromone attraction thing.
It isn't like every woman and man have not watched sweaty people shake their booties.
Everyone is prejudice against something so a pass on that.
Everyone is Narcisistic in some sense.

Basically there is no way to make absolutely everyone happy and people either like you or they don't
Eight billion of us, just move on. Go to India, Africa, China, so on. Until someone finally "gets" you.
We want our cake and we want it here and now and we don't really want to work for it because we all think as first worlds we are entitled to all the crap.

Before enjoying Rick and Morty maybe Elliot of Mr. Robot fame could give us all a nice kick in the butt.

"Elliot : Oh, I don't know. Is it that we collectively thought Steve Jobs was a great man, even when we knew he made billions off the backs of children? Or maybe it's that it feels like all our heroes are counterfeit? The world itself's just one big hoax. Spamming each other with our running commentary of bullshit, masquerading as insight, our social media faking as intimacy. Or is it that we voted for this? Not with our rigged elections, but with our things, our property, our money. I'm not saying anything new. We all know why we do this, not because Hunger Games books makes us happy, but because we wanna be sedated. Because it's painful not to pretend, because we're cowards. f*ck society."

The wisdom of Rick and Morty. I thought I would stick to a thematic overly intelligent adult cartoon.

“Listen, Morty, I hate to break it to you, but what people call love is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle, Morty. Rise above. Focus on science.” — Rick

"When two people create a life together, they set aside their previous lives as individuals." "Gimme a break! We're not heroes for having unprotected sex on prom night."

"Your love’s value is defined by scarcity. You are highly trained to seek it, and you have no idea how to maintain it. If you have bothered to master love, you would have known it is as abundant as water. You know what isn’t? Water, that s*** runs out.”

“Have fun with empowerment. It seems to make everyone that gets it really happy.” — Rick

“Don’t deify the people who leave you.” — Beth

“Yeah, sure, I mean, if you spend all day shuffling words around, you can make anything sound bad, Morty.” — Rick

I realize now I’m attracted to you for the same reason I can’t be with you; you can’t change. And I have no problem with that, but it clearly means I have a problem with myself.” — Unity

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DLMac

RE: Coping With Loneliness

carlamee

"In short, If women are so bad why are they so heavily hunted by Men?"
You can't ( legally ) kill them and you can't have Heterosexual sex without them.

Are most men here angry?
Most US women are.
A Nazi survivor described camp guards as some were good, some were bad, and some were just doing their jobs.
What bothers me is the declining birth rates and aging demographics of the first world, colonizer, nations.
If you can examine that cartoon from 1925 in my profile.
Someone saw the future.

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