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RE: People Will Treat You How You Let Them

good analysis.clears up the mind letting it go free.

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

It is quite evident , you of the staff , are of the younger generation. "Got to be in style" . Do you not recognize it is the people who make and sell the fashions that all the trendies have to have, is why they are in business. Look at the hair, disgusting long stringy unkempt tresses that look fine on grizzly bear. Most of you "youngsters" fail to recognize how a lady can look so much more attractive with a neat hair style rather than looking like someone wearing a mop on their head. As to clothing , most is disgusting. Number one is , where is the waist ? It is hanging down around their butt , in that case, I wonder how many women realize that that style only goes to emphasize how gross their posterior is. Jeans
are a very popular wear , and I agree they are practical, but with the current style it is hardly flattering when the person behind them is exposed to the cleavage of their rear end. Tailored jeans are attractive, but with todays attitude of
"who cares", it certainly defines whether she is a lady or just a woman. Ah, for the good ol' ways. studecar

RE: Making Him Wait: Why it’s Brilliant

Thank you for this article and I absolutely agree.

RE: History of Nepal?

The royal family was murdered by the Crown Prince (their son) at dinner. He ordered most of the guards to leave the premises, then went to the house armory and loaded up. He was a heroin addict. There is reason to believe he unlocked the back door for some fellow hit team members to enter. Then he (possibly not alone) went to the dining area and using at least 5 different weapons slaughtered the royal family, King Birendra and 9 others. At least one of his brothers did return fire and give chase. He was found dead in the stairs leading to the garden. The primary suspect, the Crown Prince was found dead of multiple gunshot wounds including one from the other dead Prince in the garden. No other suspects were identified. The Prime Minister then declared himself to be King. This was in summer 2001. US media attention about what was happening there was understandably distracted by the events of 9/11.

Needless to say many saw opportunity in the sudden loss of an entire royal family. Yes, 2 Princesses survived by not being there that nigh. One renounced or abdicated her royalty and went into hiding abroad and another one took refuge in India and later married a senior general there. There were Maoists who were already in rebellion with a guerilla campaign and they saw opportunity. Some Heroin drug lords in Thailand saw opportunity and took over some border areas. Some citizens felt the Prime Minister declaring himself to be King was not proper. Some brothel owners in Pakistan also saw an opportunity and after banding together tried to seize territory and towns to mine them for young females. A very bloody Civil War (ignored by Western media who preferred to focus on the 9/11 thing and Afghanistan) of maybe 2 years duration erupted. Some elements of the Nepal army also questioned the rule of the former Prime Minister who declared himself to be King. The new 'King' controlled most of the capital and not much else.

Eventually some of the killing and shelling spilled over the borders into China and also India. At that point both of their armies joined the fighting. Meanwhile Western media slept on. Eventually a truce was formed and a ruling 'democratic' communist government committee was formed. The brothel owners and slaughterers of endangered animals in the Western provinces were pushed back to Pakistan where they now only purchase young women willingly sold to them by starving parents, the drug dealers army from Thailand was beaten (shot) into extinction and China and India cooperatively share oversight of what happens in the new 'democracy.'

Caste systems still rule the provinces where what clothing you can wear there is dictated by law depending on your caste of birth. It is only very recently things have become Westernized enough so that some women may legally drive a car inside the capital. Native women traveling alone in the provinces are viewed as loose women. In many villages, at that time of the month, the women must go live outside in the barn and may not handle food or dishes others eat from, etc. The primary one runway airport services the capital (you may recall issues with airport capacity during the earthquake recovery period) although there are small plane landing fields in other areas. Much travel is still by foot, mule or helicopter (if you are rich) as many roads are still not repaired. It is a beautiful country with many great scenic views. Most of the people you will meet there are very friendly, but you really should learn to speak Nepali or Hindi and brush up on culture rules before going outside the capital.

RE: 10 Tips a Guy Doesn't Want to Date You

WOW, all is true!

RE: Get More Views to Your Profile

I am arguably, the loneliest man in the whole of South Africa. I long for love so desperately, that I will do almost anything to have someone, who would love me, for who I am. Love has been evading me for years now and I cannot handle it anymore. I thought I found love, but love left me 3 days, before Xmas - leaving me to face the loneliest Xmas of my life and starting 2018 with the worse feeling I ever felt... the feeling of being rejected... AGAIN!!! I have so much love to give to the woman, who will be my sole mate. I am starting to doubt if there are any women in this world, who knows how to love a man like me. I am losing my belief in real, honest, true LOVE. It seems that it's only true in movies, cause in real life, it seems to be a fantasy... something we create in our minds, of what life should be like. The only thing I have experienced, that is real about it, is having your heart shattered, time after time after time. I dare anyone in my city, to try to prove to me, that real, honest, true, everlasting love, DOES exist, come to me and do so. I DESPERATELY would LOVE to be proved wrong!!!, but please, be honest... no chancers, cheats, scammers or players.

RE: Dating and Statistics

What is not being taken into account in these figures are the numbers of women either looking for financial security or a better standard of living than what they already have. That is their prime motivation.
Then there are the huge numbers of women trying to find a temporary partner to re locate to a location with a higher standard of living. Both of these groups, whilst not being classed as financial scammers are non the less affecting the statistics mentioned here.
If these groups were removed from the overall total the true figures would drop to about 10% percent of serious women on the site as opposed to 90% men if that.
Most who use the site are aware of this as they only have to look at the number of serious replies that they receive coming from women other than scammers or those seeking to relocate for a better standard of living even if they already reside within Europe or the USA.
Common sense prevails.

RE: Are You Alone Because You’re Too Picky?

yes i am alone because i was to picky i had this image in my mind of the guy i was looking for
and five years later and date site after date site i am still alone ,
but in saying that i have had all the excuses in the world off guys
like the distance is to far ,,or i want some one with long hair, or
i like a woman with tanned skin, or i want some one taller or shorter than me .
and the list goes on and i find looking for my soul mate very hard work,

RE: Thinking about getting a tattoo?

Retsina
For your information tattoos are an expression of a persons own feelings.
I have several, all of which were thought out prior to being done.
Whilst I don't believe tattoos necessarily have to have to have a meaning, and can be just an appreciation of art, most of mine have personal meanings which I don't feel I have to explain to anyone.
I am quite well educated and literate and resent the fact you think anyone with tattoos isn't but then that's just your ignorance of the subject isn't it???
Glad your comments are as dated as your opinion

RE: Why Women Pick the Bad Guys.

Your a d*ck. Bad guys your afraid of. thats not even your profile picture , how can we take you serious ,you d*ck.

RE: Thinking about getting a tattoo?

i lived in vineland nj and never thought about getting a tattoo it wasnt till i relocated down here to georgia where in 2012 i got my very 1st tattoo which is my daughters name in a heart with her birthday then i got 2 more but they were only apprentices who only did the outline in november 2017 i happily found a artist here in covington ga who gladly colored them and as of this past saturday i had another one tattood on me on my arm i see no problem with getting tattoos for i agree that its my body and i think its really cool to be inked . ive made quite a few friends in the time between 2012- 2017 for i feel like ive been accepted into a new family of tattoo fanatics and YES I LOVE ALL MY TATTOOS and wouldnt change anything for all the money in the world.
FOR ANYONE THINKING ABOUT GETTING INKED
do your homework ask around on who the best tattoo place is and are they clean and are they experienced. and yes the most important is MAKE SURE THE TATTOO YOU WANT IS THE ONE YOU WANT FOREVER because once the tattoo is on you its on you to stay so again MAKE SURE THE TATTOO YOU WANT OR INTERESTED IN YOUR 100% SURE OF merry christmas to everyone tattood or not and may 2018 be much better then this year

RE: Why Women Pick the Bad Guys.

Yes this article is true but real recognizes real and a good woman will choose a good man over the bad guy anyday.
Bad guys are bad news and vice versa! I say be smart and choose wisely or you could have a lifetime of heartbreak just from thinking with your eyes instead of your brain

RE: Why Women Pick the Bad Guys.

Yes this article is true but real recognizes real and a good woman will choose a good man over the bad guy anyday.
Bad guys are bad news and vice versa! I say be smart and choose wisely or you could have a lifetime of heartbreak just from thinking with your eyes instead of your brain

RE: Why Women Pick the Bad Guys.

From a psychological perceptive,
both victim and the masked share mirrored narcissism.
The victim unmasks the narcissist.
Victim evolves into the narcissism baring a mask or continues being the victim.
While the narcissist finds a new victim...and so the act continues.


From a spiritual aspect,
both light and dark, dance as one
to experience pain and pleasure.

The dark becomes light
and the light becomes dark.
The transfer for karma is completed.

One that played the light in previous act becomes the dark in this next drama.
One that played the dark in previous play becomes the light in this next scene.
This cycle or wheel is known as dharma.

For one becomes whole,
bringing contrast to living.


From an electrical view,
On a circuit board of resistance, power, and currency.
Can you turn her off, there?
And can you turn her on, here?
If one can do this in many places.
...This is "power"...they are attracted to it.

RE: 5 Things You Probably Didn't Know About Your Favorite Christmas Carols

Nice one

RE: How to Cure a Broken Heart

What a load of bullshit heartbreak is real physical pain go ask your doctor.The latest research shows chemicals are released into the heart and cause pain and this can cause heart problems and if ya do not believe it go ask a biologist.So the best medicine is actually pain killers, so treat a heart break the same as any headache is the medical advise darling, not reading a book or spiritual fantasies.

RE: How to Get Respect from Your Teenager

The lack of respect is 100% the parent's fault, number one is - the child was allowed too much freedom in all cases. The lack of discipline is the cause, but if the parent does not apply it early on, the battle is lost.
I was a teacher for 31 years and I never had any problem because my #1 subject was DISCIPLINE in the class room. When the legislatures forbade spanking, they lost the ball. I have paddled many children but I never hurt a one, a little tap is all it takes in most cases, whether it is in school, in the family, or in business, discipline is the very foundation of success. studecar

RE: 5 Steps to Ease Social Anxiety

SOCIAL ANXIETY AND PEER PRESSURE IS IN OUR HEADS ONLY. WE CREATE THOSE FEELINGS IN OUR MINDS AND THEN START WORRYING ABOUT IT. IN REALITY, ALL THESE COME FROM "LOW SELF-ESTEEM". IT'S THAT SIMPLE! WE NEED TO CHANGE OUR THINKING ABILITY, OTHERWISE, THESE TYPE OF ISSUES WILL OPEN A WIDE BUSINESS DOORS FOR PSYCHOLOGISTS. WE NEED TO BE OUR OWN PSYCHOLOGISTS, AND AVOID LOW THINKING AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.

RE: What you should know about Online Dating over 50

Dating at older age if over 50 is older don't see the problem. You know more about life hopefully

and what you want and not. ...Stay posetive ..Good luck !