Most Viewed Self Improvement Articles

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One Simple Rule to Make You Everyone’s Favorite Person Everyone wants to make a perfect first impression. This article gives help for a more successful and rewarding social, professional and personal life....	Staff	14,113	0	Mar 2013
Stuck in a Negative Rut? - How to Challenge Your Negative Feelings Most people experience negative thinking once in awhile, but some have greater difficulty in overcoming unwanted thoughts and feelings. If you find yo...	Staff	13,744	6	May 2011	Nov 2020 Thedutchchief
Mastering the Art of Good Conversation To be a good conversationalist, you need three things: The ability to talk, The ability to listen, The ability to use the mind while listening. The fi...	Staff	11,108	3	May 2009	Jun 2020 Unknownsofar222
How to Deal With People Who Have Different Opinions From You It can be hard dealing with peopole who have different opinions from yours, especially if they want you to change. In addition, you might have an urge...	Staff	11,090	3	Apr 2014	Nov 2015 EyeLook4U
Is Guilt Keeping you a Prisoner? As children, we learn to negotiate between the guideposts of "right" and "wrong" behaviors. When we fail and wander into the arena of "wrong," then a...	Staff	10,850	1	Jun 2011	Oct 2014 AquiEstoy
7 Keys to Confident Living Confidence is a trait we all need in order to do our job and have healthy relationships. From time to time, however, we have setbacks. When things don...	Staff	10,687	0	Dec 2011
How to stop comforting yourself with food People often use food as comfort. A depressed woman is twice as likely to binge then a woman who is not depressed. To add insult to injury, after a fo...	Staff	10,567	6	Feb 2009	Jul 2009 missDior
How to Stop Being an Emotional Sponge There are people who lap up energy that is not theirs to take, and others who inadvertiently give it away. If you are one of the later, this article c...	Staff	9,923	0	Sep 2012

9 Things Every Woman Should Do Before She Gets Married Getting married is a momentous occasion in a woman's life. Before she tets married there are things she should try though. Settling down, even with yo...	Staff	9,718	0	Mar 2013
We Are All Born with Psychic Ability ! Hi! I am a 4th. generation Psychic/Intuitive originally from New Orleans. I decided to write this article to hopefully dispel some of the mystique, an...	aware3	9,685	33	Sep 2009	Mar 20 Dennmac
Love Phobia, Conquering my Fear of Rejection Read as this woman tells of her experience with her fear of rejection and how deeply it impacted her life. In a situation that began as an online-frie...	Staff	9,652	1	Jul 2011	Jul 2011 simplyked
How to Say No When It Counts It's Christmas Eve, and you reluctantly answer your phone. Your brother asks you to watch his kids so that he and his wife can do some last minute sho...	Staff	9,092	3	Feb 2009	Sep 2021 Chipmcgippery
Become the Alpha Wolf: The Ten LIES That Will Make You a Better Man You've spent enough time as the nice dogged guy who never gets the girls. Your day has come. It is time for you to become the Alpha of the pack. This...	Staff	9,023	8	Mar 2012	Nov 2021 abbyee
6 Signs You Are an Emotional Spender Emotional spending is about buying frivolous things that aren't needed or part of a budget. Some people buy things to celebrate, while others buy thin...	Staff	8,833	2	Dec 2012	Aug 2013 BrownBeauty47
How to Be Social.. When You Hate People Are you already dreading the office Christmas party? Are you just a little shy and uncomfortable at social events? How can us hum-buggers and slightly...	Staff	8,356	0	Nov 2011
Growing from Disappointments How do you grow from a series of disappointments? Life can throw many challenges your way, but you must learn how to respond. Focus on these motivatio...	Staff	8,163	1	May 2009	Jan 2011 cuddles4862
Learn to Be Kind to Yourself, or- Treat Yourself as Well as You Treat Your Dog) Most of us treat other people with more respect, more empathy, and more kindness than we show ourselves. We live with constant, daily criticism... fro...	Staff	8,006	1	Dec 2011	Sep 2014 elo3000
Make Fear Your Friend, Not Your Enemy Has fear ever prevented you from doing something, going somewhere, or trusting someone? If so, you are not alone. Fear is an emotion experienced by ev...	Staff	7,894	0	Dec 2011
A Relationship Saver: Taming Your Jealousy We have all experienced jealousy at one point in a relationship, but constant or intense jealousy can put such strain on a couple that the relationshi...	Staff	7,465	1	Aug 2012	Nov 2012 affinityjcp
6 Ways to Influence People How would you like to be an influential person? Here are some practical tips on how to become an influential and well-respected individual....	Staff	6,447	0	Nov 2012
Developing a Deeper Appreciation for the People You Love Do you complain about the weather, the traffic, or your partner? Many people take the blessings in their lives for granted. Learning to appreciate lif...	Staff	6,398	0	Jan 2013

Emotionally Abusive... could this be you? Emotionally abusive relationships are ones in which one or both partners exhibit a range of behaviors and attitudes that are demeaning, controlling an...	Staff	6,347	2	Dec 2012	Jan 2021 hamrun
Coping With Loneliness Most people experience loneliness at some point in their life. It's a natural, common human experience. Two approaches you can take to coping with you...	Staff	6,272	22	Jan 2016	Sep 13 DLMac
Living a Guilt-Free Life Guilt can be very debilitating. Many people live with burdens of unnecessary guilt, but it is possible to live a guilt-free life. Here are some ways p...	Staff	6,170	0	Apr 2013
What Makes a Good Conversationalist Transforming yourself into a great conversationalist could make a huge difference to your life. Great talkers, who interest and entertain others, tend...	Staff	6,149	1	Jan 2014	May 2014 lukebrincat
Live by Wit and Not Wallet! If men of much financial magnitude had ended up miserably and with no confidence in wealth, surely something must be wrong with their goals and with w...	mayor007	6,105	1	Jun 2009	Apr 2011 Chelsea212
7 Positive Affirmations for a Happier Life Positive messages are important to our well being. Most people hear not only criticism from others, but also from their own inner voices that remind t...	Staff	5,811	0	Jan 2013
Can Your Body Tell Tales? How Emotions Affect Your Health Emotions are incredibly powerful and have a greater impact on physical health than many people suppose. This article explains the basic connection bet...	Staff	5,628	0	Apr 2013
4 Ways To Declutter For The New Year The New Year is the perfect time to declutter. Let go of the things you've been saving for no reason. Things you don't use only take up space. This Ne...	Staff	5,464	0	Dec 2012
Benefits of Being Spiritual Life can throw up detrimental circumstances over which we have no control. In troubling times, many people turn to spirituality for strength and solac...	Staff	5,246	4	Jun 2014	Feb 2020 turoto12
Are You Too Nice for Your Own Good? If you're too nice you fail to find a balance between pleasing others and meeting your own needs. Here are some of the problems of being too nice and...	Staff	5,193	1	Aug 2015	Nov 2015 Barranco77

10 Tips to Overcome Anxiety The unpredictable and impermanent nature of life generates much fear and anxiety in many people. It is essential to control these negative feelings to...	Staff	4,991	2	Aug 2014	Jan 2023 GullyFoyle
How to Find Happiness Ask a random person in the street what they most want in life and the majority will reply 'to be happy'. The bookstores are stuffed with self-help boo...	Staff	4,990	1	Jan 2014	Oct 2014 avias
8 Habits of Happy People Some people seem to be happy and optimistic no matter what their circumstances. How do they do it? How can you be more like them? Here are eight think...	Staff	4,983	0	Aug 2015
Don't Wait for Your Funeral: Live Your Eulogy Now This rather blunt article is a wakeup call to remind us that if we don't stop waiting to attain success and chase our dreams now, our eulogy could sim...	Staff	4,887	4	Aug 2014	Jan 2017 sophiasummer
A Grump's Guide to Optimism Do you feel miserable and cranky a great deal? If so, you might be a grump, and being a grump is not conducive to happiness. Here are some tips to ste...	Staff	4,768	0	Mar 2014
Finding Meaning in Life Many of us live our lives at a hectic pace, sitting in traffic, worrying about our mortgage, taking care of ageing parents or young children. But ever...	Staff	4,602	2	Jan 2016	Aug 2019 Liza2
4 Ways To Declutter Your Life Living a life free of clutter might seem impossible, but it's easier than you think. We become so used to the people and things around us that we no l...	Staff	4,599	0	Jan 2015
How to Deal With Shyness Anxiety in social situations is very common. Those who suffer these sorts of fears often miss out on a great deal of fun, happiness and success in lif...	Staff	4,405	2	Jan 2016	Aug 2019 Drj64
Why Having Your Buttons Pushed is Valuable Although having your emotional buttons pushed is uncomfortable, the experience can aid self-growth. Overreacting is a gift, since it's a message from...	Staff	4,362	2	Aug 2014	Apr 2022 Caprikious
My Explorations – Improving Health through your Toilet... You must be little philosophical and logical to understand this. Perhaps you will be surprised to hear that the type of toilet you use can have a dire...	freetraveller	3,958	2	Dec 2009	Jul 2013 teddydog
How to Make Friends When You Are Over 30 Making friends during your teens and early twenties is relatively easy. At school or college, most people you meet are single, childless, and eager to...	Staff	3,947	2	Apr 2016	Jan 2019 LuckyDuck2018