???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????/
I hate Zoos. Animals have emotions and its nothing funny about that. If i put you in a cage you will feel what they feel.
??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Would you kill someone if it would change the course of history for the good? and would you do it if you knew you would get caught?
I been on other sites and its like a stressed out zoo!! Fake profiles, fake friend request from people afraid to approach you,People with no pic hiding from their husband, total strangers cursing you out in your inbox for no apparent reason. lol
The 4 types of people who need to be in your life ~ by ME
1. Spouse
2. Friend
3. Social Associate
4. Business Associate
Most people don't know what these are. They think they do but they don't. They all fit a purpose using the interchange of communication so you all can grow.
An intimate relationship should go in the order of 3>2>1. Most of you go directly to 1. That shit scary. Let me tell yall a secret. when you do that, You got a stranger in your bed.
What ever happen to old fashion dating and getting to know someone first?
Psychology ""Often, both women and men focus entirely on their appearance when trying to be physically attractive. They worry that they won't get a date without a young complexion and an hourglass figure (women), or chiseled abs and a tall, muscular body (men). They also believe that physical attractiveness is an objective and stable feature (that can't be changed without surgery, push-up bras, or hours in the gym).
But, are potential dating partners really that superficial?
Good news, they're not. You don't have to obsess over ideal physical features. Shorter men or heavier women need not despair. The "pretty" and "handsome" should pay attention too. Part of physical attraction really is subjective. It is "in the eye of the beholder". Furthermore, that subjective eye of physical attraction is easily influenced - by your personality. As it turns out, "who you are on the inside" does count. It even changes how others actually see you on the outside! Apparently, beauty is not just "skin deep". Your personality counts too. Make the most of it!
Certainly, there are limitations to this effect. Physical features unquestionably have an influence on attractiveness. But, personality seems to go a long way as well. So, make sure your personality is keeping you as attractive as possible too.""
Do you like to eat at the table for dinner everyday with your love?
The Benefits of Eating Together
The Family Who Eats Together Stays Together
-- By Becky Hand
Reason #1: Communication and Well-Being
Conversations during the meal provide opportunities for the family to bond, plan, connect, and learn from one another. It’s a chance to share information and news of the day, as well as give extra attention to your children and teens. Family meals foster warmth, security and love, as well as feelings of belonging. It can be a unifying experience for all.
Reason #2: Model Manners (and more)
Family mealtime is the perfect opportunity to display appropriate table manners, meal etiquette, and social skills. Keep the mood light, relaxed, and loving. Try not to instruct or criticize—lead by example.
Reason # 3: Expand Their World…One Food at a Time
Encourage your children to try new foods, without forcing, coercing, or bribing. Introduce a new food along with some of the stand-by favorites. Remember that it can take 8-10 exposures to a new food before it is accepted, so be patient. Trying a new food is like starting a new hobby. It expands your child’s knowledge, experience, and skill.
Include foods from other cultures and countries.
Select a new vegetable from a local farmer’s market.
Have your child select a new recipe from a cookbook, web site, newspaper, magazine or check out the recipes on Spark People.
Reason #4: Nourish
Meals prepared and eaten at home are usually more nutritious and healthy. They contain more fruits, vegetables, and dairy products along with additional nutrients such as fiber, calcium, vitamins A and C, and folate. Home cooked meals are usually not fried or highly salted, plus soda and sweetened beverage consumption is usually lower at the dinner table.
Reason #5: Become Self-Sufficient
Children today are missing out on the importance of knowing how to plan and prepare meals. Basic cooking, baking, and food preparation are necessities for being self-sufficient. Involve your family in menu planning, grocery shopping, and food preparation. Preschoolers can tear lettuce, cut bananas, and set the table. Older children can pour milk, peel vegetables, and mix batter. Teenagers can dice, chop, bake, and grill. Working as a team puts the meal on the table faster, as well as makes everyone more responsible and accepting of the outcome. Improved eating habits come with "ownership" of a meal.
Reason #6: Prevent Destructive Behaviors
Research shows that frequent family dinners (five or more a week), are associated with lower rates of smoking, drinking, and illegal drug use in pre-teens and teenagers when compared to families that eat together two or fewer times per week. Even as older children’s schedules get more complicated, it is important to make an effort to eat meals together. Scheduling is a must.
Reason #7: Improve Grades
Children do better in school when they eat more meals with their parents and family. Teenagers who eat dinner four or more times per week with their families have higher academic performance compared with teenagers who eat with their families two or fewer times per week.
Reason # 8: Save Money
Meals purchased away from home cost two to four times more than meals prepared at home. At present time the restaurant industry’s share of the total food dollar is more than 46%. Due to scheduling, commitments, and activities, families eat out several times each week.
It is time to bring the "family" back to the dinner table. Sharing dinner together gives everyone a sense of identity. It can help ease day-to-day conflicts, as well as establish traditions and memories that can last a lifetime.
I asked this because some religions and Political views restrict thinking freely in some relationships therefore limiting creativity in problem solving. Example: some views limits cultural diversity which is a big mistake. From my notes "FREETHINKERS have Freedom from mental restraint from people, places, things and ideas. Free - Dome. Freethinkers are inclined to forms one's own opinions rather than depend upon authority, especially about social and religious issues; exhibiting boldness of speculation; skeptical of authority. In the same way a man can be chained to an oak tree, a mind can be chained to an assumption, a religion, a political party, or any idea of any kind. But the idea, like the tree, should not be blamed. They are inanimate things and are good or bad only in how they are used by the living. Instead it is the chain that must be questioned, along with the motivations of people who work to close minds while calling themselves enlighteners or educators. A mind is unique in the world for its infinity of ideas, for it can be used to think about almost anything in a million different ways. Any act that deliberately confines a mind to a singular way of seeing the world can not be acting for good. Most communities, from families, to schools, to gangs, have ideas members are expected to adopt without question. This doesn't make them evil, but it doesn't make them bastions of freedom either."
Love is a process for the purpose of nurturing someone or something. It is a spiritual action for the development of the self of the next person who is on the receiving end of the loving act. It is not an emotion. it is also not just sharing experiences because you can share experiences with someone who hate you.Love can be seen in action when the 2 people are developing one another mentally, physically, and emotionally. The communication process is vital it must be understood completely. The source<> encoding <> decoding <> and receiver roles must be understood. Also verbal and Nonverbal skills must be developed on a voluntary bases. Love is sacrifice.
winfrey777 Blog (10)