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men's praise

This is when I was younger...much younger.

I didn't realize that men required/need/deeply appreciate (to a psychological level at times) praise from their woman. I am willing to bet that many men did not realize that either.

How could we? Well, I will actually speak from my perspective...how would I? I only dated one woman in my life...it lasted 13 years, but I never dated many women. That is not the way I am wired. I respect a relationship and everything about it. Now of course, there are some men out there that have different wiring than myself; however, I think the topic of this blog is still relevant to you as well.

Okay, back to it then. I didn't realize that men required praise from their woman. It is healthy for a man's self-esteem, his motivation to succeed, to be happy, to be the best possible self he can be. There is nothing wrong with a man being all these things....is there?

The reason why I bring this up is because back in the day, when I was in the middle of that 13 year relationship, I had heard on many occasions from the woman I was dating, she would tell me, "I am not going to give you praise." At the time, I thought to myself, I am not asking for any praise. I am going to continue on with my success and what I am doing in life with our without your praise...needless to say, I was not doing these things for her praise anyway. It was for survival in this tough world.

However...just moments ago I was listening to a pod cast by a certain somebody rolling on the floor laughing ...I won't mention his name...and he had a whole show about praise....and how not only women should praise their man, but they should also praise their man in public.

The bottom line...it was an ironic event, and I am thinking there must be something to it...my ex-gf used that exact word back then, and today that blogger used the same word. There must be some importance to it.

P.R.A.I.S.E.

Public display of following traits.
Respect
Accepting
Investing
Sacrificing
Enthusiastically

What do you think men and women....should women praise their man?

....also I would like to ask...

What does it mean if they don't praise you?
or
What does it mean if they do praise you?

If your woman is not "investing" in you, is that a troubling sign for the relationship?

Of course, this topic of praise is about a high value man...a man who is not toxic in anyway....
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Traits of a high value man...

According to the podcaster I listen to...

What are some traits that make a high value man?

...of course, everything is dependent on one's age and living location. (some living locations have different cost of living)

1. high economic wealth...making 6 figures for about 5 years in a row.

2. your image...which leads into a man's attitude

3. your material possessions.

4. you have to be accepted among other high value men.

5. you have little time available.

Now, only a very small percent of men qualify as high value...to give you an idea, it is only the top 1 to 2%. So a man can be of higher value (which would mean there are some variations in the list)...but only very few men will achieve a top high value status.

In my opinion, this is valuable for both men and women to know and understand.

For men....these are traits that others value...and yourself may value.
For women...high value men are rare...and if you are holding out for one, you may remain single for life.


What do you think?

Happy almost Friday all.





wave
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Listening to Kevin Samuels....for the men...What is a low value woman...

S.I.G.N.

According to Kevin Samuels:

A low value woman is...

S = Shame (They will shame you).
I = Insult ( " " insult " ).
G = Guilt ( " " guilt " ).
N = Need to be right (they will always need to be right).


Which leads to these types of traits:

no accountability
no honesty
no apologies


What do you think men and women....do you agree with him? Is Kevin Samuels right about low value women?

Happy Friday all. wave

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rICMiq761to
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Are men done in a relationship when...

...when they give away their power to the woman?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oEBR-B8Yppc



I think it is time for men to get to the modern level of thinking when it comes to the modern woman. There are plenty of videos online that help us men get educated. Do you remember those days when women were such a mystery to men? Well, today...the mystery is starting to be exposed. That was the beautiful thing for us men with feminism. Feminism encouraged women to be who they wanted to be...instead of suppressing it and confusing us men. Also, feminism is beautiful for women too...now they can be who they want to be. However, us men need to understand what that means for the "modern" man.

Some of the common things I see many...and I mean many...women want in a man.

1. over 6 foot in height
2. physically good looking
3. making over 6 figures for income
4. having a big p*nis
5. having confidence
6. having a nice car & home
7. willing to give the woman whatever she wants
8. having muscles

Statistically, there is data that says that women only go after the top 20% of men...meaning the remaining 80% of men, women have limited to no interest in. That is the truth for modern men. In that list provided, do you know how many men qualify with having all those traits? Let's start out with the 6 foot and taller range...only 15% of men are that tall. Now add those other things that many women want, and you can start to figure out what percent of men exist that women desire.

Years ago, I mentioned something about how feminism would cause a war between the genders. Really, there was no other way for how it to end up. Men were not going to just sit back and get sh*t on. Now after years of collecting information and getting the bigger picture of just how they are being mistreated, they have now entered the "battlefield."

It is a sad thing really. Truly sad. You know why? Because in the end, nobody will win...and it will create a division among us. Just as how many other things in the world are trying to divide us.



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Overcoming constraints..

Watching an interesting video...

So far...not done watching it yet....however...

Basically, every person has a purpose..an inner energy/being...that often times becomes constrained by that person's body. The body facilitates in that energy/being in achieving its purpose. However, the body can also be a constraint or a jail to that energy/being. According to the video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RCdNudE8gbQ
only a small amount of people use the body to achieve the inner energy/being's objectives.

As a side note: I wonder if that is why people develop such mental conditions as depression or addiction. There is a conflict between the inner and the outer. hmmm

Our body and hence our inner being/energy live within the confines of human made environments...such as capitalism. I would think in order to develop and manifest the inner being's purpose, the outer being (body) would need to be free of external constrains....thus allowing the outer body to realize the inner being's purpose. In order for that to happen, I think one would need knowledge and resources. Knowledge to know there is an inner being with a purpose that needs to be realized...and resources to allow the body to explore these inner being purposes. I would think it would be difficult to explore this inner being purpose while stressing about how the bills will be paid, stressing about where one's next meal will come from. So money to some extent would allow for the exploration of the inner being...and to allow for enlightenment to shine among whoever. Of course, not wealth to the point where you are obsessed with it.

Another constraint is one's mind. As the video points out, the mind is not the inner being/energy...but it is the connection between the two. So a "clean" mind will help remove constraints. A mind altered by alcohol, drugs, ...addictions in general....could cause one to fail to explore and illuminated the inner being/energy and its purpose.

So...if you have a feeling that something is not in harmony with yourself...a peace...a comfort...a confidence...a clear assessment of yourself, perhaps trying to remove constraints from your inner being/energy and its purpose. dunno
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Would you be the guy who pulls a wanting woman out of a relationship?

What I mean by wanting, you know she wants to leave the current relationship she is in. She has a child with the guy, they are not married, and you know she is not happy in it...however...she is still in it. Would you be the guy who takes her out of that relationship?
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I don't understand...it is actually funny/sad??

Two of my friends....there is one man and one woman....who are both single and enjoy their singlehood and sleep around with many different people. They both share the same meme..."don't cheat."

Both of these two have been with over 30 different partners....and the woman I have heard her say that s*x is just a physical act....and the man has told me he has been already with 3 different women in one night.

...and they are advising people not to cheat by sharing that meme. dunno
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The main character of The Bible

I believe the good book is good.

So, if the good book is telling us accounts of times past, and is believed by very many to be true, isn't it time to stop for a second and ask yourself something?

Who...or perhaps even...what, is Jesus?

Somebody who can walk on water.
Somebody who can make the cripple walk again.
Somebody who can make the blind see.

Are these just metaphors? Or, are these real physical acts he performed?

Or perhaps, mistranslations?

If they are real physical acts he performed...as many truly believe. I am not aware of any such human that can perform these feats. Was Jesus human then?

dunno
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To better understand each other...

This should be a fun exercise. It is only intended to make each gender better understand each other.


Okay...to better understand each other, name something(s) that men do bad to women...and now vice versa...name something bad that women do to men.


Maybe we can better understand each other's arguments about each other.

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Endless selections for mates...

It used to be that women were thought to have endless selections for mates...and all they had was the tough decision on discerning who was the best one to pick. The world has changed.

Now with monogamy becoming a thing of the past...they have the less tough decision of picking the best ONES to pick.

However, that is not what this blog is about. It is about men now being in the same position as women. With men now having endless selections and also choosing the best ONES.

Now, I am not saying that is how I am...or how all women and men are....that they want to be with multiple partners. However what I am saying is, both of their available selections have dramatically increased with social media and the internet.

So...what are some of your deal breakers when looking at photos of men or of women on the internet when determining if you want to move forward and pursue a person as a potential mate or life long partner?

For me: when I see a woman post several pictures of herself in fancy restaurants and in expensive formal dining clothes...my mind automatically concludes that she is high maintenance.

or...

When I see a woman posting a picture of herself shooting a gun....that is an automatic red flag for me. I don't care that she owns and knows how to use a gun...but why post a picture of it thinking it is important for her potential mate to know that?

dunno

Those are two main ones for me that I can think of right now. What about you?

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I know another Narcissist blog...but...

But, this has to do with a narcissist in a relationship. I found some of the examples I seen in a video recently...interesting.

What does a narcissist do while they are in a relationship?

They never apologize...or if they do, it is not a sincere one.
They will seemingly always try to belittle you. Sometimes they will say they were just joking around.
They will weaponize sex.
They will cheat on you...because they feel entitled to cheat, and when confronted, they will turn it around on you and say something like...you are seeing it wrong, or you are making more out of it then what it is.

The narcissist needs to feel superior to you and will do what it takes to maintain that status. They enjoy seeing you miserable because it gives them a sense of power over you. They will start out in a relationship as the dream mate...but months later, that is when their power trip kicks in.

I wonder how many people on here are narcissist? You know the ones...the ones that always know everything, they are never wrong, they never apologize, they always have to be one up on somebody...etc, etc..

They say when you are in a relationship with one....pay attention to your emotions. Your emotions on how your partner makes you feel are the indicator.

We all have narcissistic traits...but the question is...how dominant are they in our personality and behaviors.




Happy Friday all.

wave
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Are you aware of this manipulation...I bet not.

I just heard on Tim Poole, with a musical guest on his show that music is tuned at 440 hertz, up from the standard 432 hertz it was for many years.

This minor change in these hertz cannot even be heard...but Poole's musical guest said, it is felt.


Vibration....affecting human behavior.

I know that 528 hertz is used in meditation for emotional healing. I wonder what 440 hertz does.
I also know that certain hertz played in one's ears back and forth facilitates with astral projecting.


dunno
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