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when things go wrong

So we all make mistakes.conversing it's our inherent human flaw. Imperfections.

crying We can't ever change thatdunno

What we can do is to rectify our mistakes by being honest.professor
Stop hurting and tell the truth. Ask for forgiveness then move on. wow

All of us are capable of doing things that hurt us. Acceptance is critical to our relationship's future. Infidelity is probably one of the most painful cause of breaking up. frustrated crying crying Trust is gone. I personally believe whatever reasons we have are all personal doh

confused But staying after such a grim discovery of unfaithful affair is difficult if not plain wrong. dunno

Question: do men hurt less than women? uh oh

Better yet? Chances of salvaging the relationship, is it greater if the man is the adulterer? sad flower confused

Would you stay? I won't, no matter what reasons. I'll forgive and move on, but will never stay. You're unfaithful? I'm gone. Period.

Thanks for all your reads and comments.
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hit and run - a life is lost

When our self preservation outweighs our guilt, we cover up the wrongful things we do. Would you do differently?


I am a very forgiving person but when a life is lost and you lie in the hope of setting you unaccountable, it is just plain wrong.

A convicted killer is released after 2.5 years. Why? She's rich and manipulated facts to suit her needs.

Scenario: A poor motorist ran out of gas, while filling on the side of the road at night, with his blinkers on, was hit and killed by a drunk rich woman. Two witnesses saw the accident and came forward. Amy Senser, the woman who was driving a Mercedes SUV, fled the scene and never reported the accident. Deleted all her text messages after that. First lied that she wasn't the driver, eventually accepted it and declared she thought she hit a cone or an animal?

You be the judge. What makes me sick is how the rich can pay their way out of a crime and meted a light sentence.

(Please read all articles regarding the case on Google)

Question: Is there a lesson we can draw from this?

Of course, DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE is one. Second, if you do, you have to be rich to buy your freedom.

Thanks all for your reads and comments.
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700 billion dollars US military and defense budget

Here we go. Serious war business. Last night the actual US military presence across the globe is shown from the late Fox news.

QUESTION: With this budget, 2 billion dollars a day, what's our chances of winning this war?

First of all do you support it? If not, why?

I just hope that my tax is used for a good purpose. To keep peace by eliminating our enemies?

I hope and pray we're truly fighting a good fight.

I'm not sure anymore.

Thank you all for your reads and participation.
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illegal entry, what should we do?

Since January,  there's about 160,000 thousand apprehended unaccompanied children marching towards the United States.

Unaccounted are probably even more.

We all know why they come here.

Problem, our system,  is not equipped with a ready and easy answer to handle this situation.

The paper today presented a scenario which make it even worse.  There are three groups with conflicting interest on addressing a possible solution. None of them is good for the country except for the children themselves.

Judge Susan Castro is confused as to what we should do.

Jessica Vaughan who has been assigned from the immigration office to help in the processing, personally feels that we should be returning them.

The children's activist and non profit organization is joining with the UN that we should give them protection.

QUESTION: Should we? And why?

I know we have so many pressing problems that needs our critical attention but I believe our decisions in handling this situation is very sensitive to our future immigration policies if not even right now.

Note: 1. This is beside the daily illegals (adults, families) entering the country from all over the world. Chinese and Asians by boat.

2. I believe it's time for UN to create patron of these abandoned children?

Thanks all for your reads and comments.
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LIES AND DECEITS

This generation, I believe will go down in history as the most lie infested generation. You agree?


Lying, by simple ethics and moral in humanity is a flaw. Or on a higher note like the priests molesting children, a SIN. And, can be legally kn the court of law, a crime. Depending on the situation sometimes it can't be that seriously harmful. Although of course when it comes to love, it is devastating to say the least.

Sometimes people don't even know what they're doing is a lie. Losing a normal sense of reality is sometimes affected by our personal bearing and mode of survival. I remember all the horrifying stories of my mother during the Japanese occupation in the Philippines.

My three uncles were all enlisted for the US army.

When they interrogated them as to their affiliations, of course they lied. This is a call for life's preservation. But if we lie and deliberately deceive someone for our gains at the expense of others, I believe there is a certain violation of our code of good manners and societal conduct. Our character when it's stained with inconsistencies to what is true, then we become incredibly lacking integrity. This I believe is a flaw of character, but when we are calculatingly misleading others specially in love, this to me is betrayal. Trust is lost.

The point of this blog however is far more serious than just lying. Stealing one's identity for whatever purpose it serves is a federal offense. It becomes a serious commission of a crime called Fraud. Those that commit this heinous crime deserve to be punished and pay for their crime. If only to prevent them from doing more harm to others.

In our community of bloggers, I have heard about so many people who had been banished and came back as different people with entirely different profile and pictures. I don't exactly know what constitutes fraud by stealing one's identity for their selfish gain but there should be a true measure and control for those scammers, don't you think?

Note: There seems to be a pervasive reincarnation of banished members and come back as a totally different person (s) just to unleash their anger? Maybe I am wrong.

Thanks all for your reads and comments.
sad flower frustrated
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what are we afraid of?

I never thought I'd ever be afraid.

But, when my one and only son told me to consider enlisting in the army? frustrated help scold

I have never disagreed with mostly what my children did, and not because I didn't trust them, just that I respected their decisions, that is after I tell them how I feel and think about it.

So far I'm so happy with all of them and their choices. Two of them married happily with each three lovely children, (giving me 7 lovely grand children) my youngest daughter 25, with one child, but living alone by choice. Now my youngest not married and telling me to be in the force?

I told him I am not in favor because of the ethics involved on this cause. Not a matter of being right, either way his dedication might be serving a wrong end.

Am I wrong? Nevertheless, I have never been so afraid and disillusioned.

QUESTION: is there any value for Valor and heroism on this call? Will my son's act a need for my freedom? And the world?

Thanks for all your reads and comments.
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PEACE, ANYONE?

Have we driven our world to a hopeless maelstrom of violence?

In my lifetime, I am sure this year seems to be the worst when it comes to peace. It appears like the whole world has gone Gung-ho and that brutalities, killing, rapes, and all forms of violence has dominated our world.

I was reading the front page today and one prominent political writer suggested that the NOBEL PEACE PRIZE, should be given to NOBODY this year. A very fitting tribute to a world gone mad.

I do beg to disagree, for one, Malala Yousafzai, the remarkable woman who is responsible in fighting for educational development of women in Pakistan, deserves to be recognized.

Second I believe, with the exception of a very few citizens HERE AT CS: BLOGGERS, WRITERS, AND READERS ARE PEACE STALWARTS AND ADVOCATES, don't you think?

Question: Any suggestions to cultivate world peace and unity?

Thanks all for your reads and comments.

Have a peaceful, sunny day. Absolutely gorgeous in Minnesota today.

Note: I just woke up and read the news and in fact Malala took the prize. We have hope after all.
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Our dying or deteriorating traits

What happened?

Courage, honor, courtesy and justice, no longer observed or practiced?

Chivalry a most honorable character of our civilized world seems falling to extinction?

My daughter and I were in a train in Canada, two years ago and she was standing 7 months pregnant. I was so amazed at how the male population never bothered to offer her a seat. Thank God we don't use that transportation in California. Years ago even in New York, I've experienced courteous treatment among the males when I was there, much to my surprise. But with a pregnant woman?

Have a nice day or night my friends and all your comments are very much appreciated.

Note: we were in Vancouver, and most of the male passengers were from India. No intended prejudice just the truth.
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are we alone?

In this vast universe, we're but tiny speck.
Millions of galaxies out there.

Question is: ARE WE ALONE?

Thanks all for your reads.

I truly appreciate.

Have a good day/night/evening. bouquet teddybear conversing
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silence

Should we keep our minds

Unspoken

So the world thrives

In ignorance?

Or

Should we undo

Our silence

So the corrupt

Ends their arrogance?

Thanks for all your reads and comments.

LOVE WHERE IS IT WHEN WE NEED IT MOST?
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My glimpse of heaven

It was never my intention to stir some personal beliefs on our faith. My faith. But having just shed so much tears after watching the movie "HEAVEN FOR REAL", I can't help but be as personal as I can and answer any crucible questions anyone wants to present.

I've always been an advocate of religious freedom and preferences. I always believed that all we do when it comes to our God or no God is a personal choice. Therefore I make it clear head on, that this is not an invitation for any explanation. Rather it is a sharing of my faith to those who want to join me on this journey of my life.

Although born and raised as Roman Catholic, I am not adhering to the infallibility of such a tradition. But I believe in God, and my Lord Jesus Christ. In spite of all the flaws and imperfections I feel and think about such faith, it is by far the best that suits my commitment to serve humanity. Full of love, kindness and compassion. It never ever asks me to harm let alone kill if anyone doesn't believe in what I believe in.

My personal experience suffices my inability to understand all of life's mysterious ways including surviving two cancers.

This blog is presented for whatever purpose it may serve, and I thank you always for reading and participating.

Humbly and sincerely,

Phyllis

Note: for those who don't believe in heaven, my respect.
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Refugees and HUMAN RIGHTS

To my fellow citizens of the blog world.

What can you make up of this? Please let me know what you think and feel we should do, considering our position on the immigration laws. Under human rights programs, should we be obligated to extend our hands? When do we say no? Or shouldn't we?

Thanks all for your reads.

Just received this today.


Human Rights


Dear Phyllis,


Children threatened and alone. Mothers desperately looking for help. Every day, families in search of protection are sent to detention centers near the U.S.-Mexico border. Many of these vulnerable people may have legal claims as refugees. It’s a critical moment for justice.

You can help.

Human Rights First has long stood as a leader in refugee representation. We try to make sure that everyone gets a fair hearing and due process by matching pro bono attorneys with refugees in need.

And we’ve been successfully working with refugees for decades:

We’ve had a hand in nearly every major piece of human rights legislation in the United States, including the Refugee Act of 1980, the Torture Victim Protection Act of 1991, and the Refugee Crisis in Iraq Act.
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Starting in 2012, we hosted meaningful dialogues across the country on the state of the immigration detention system. From Los Angeles to New Orleans, from Phoenix to Austin, the dialogues brought together unlikely partners to apply lessons learned from criminal justice reform to the immigration detention system.
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