Abuse !

U get different types of abuse:-

Mentally
Physically
Emotionally
Sexually

Abuse can ruin lives, lots and lots, nobody even knows about, as the abused feel so inferior and that no-one will believe them anyway.

Counselling does not help abused people. They can only take it a day at a time, and hope the feeling of worthlessness will eventually evaporate.

Talking loudly, hitting or harming, forcing sex, manipulation is some of the types of abuse, causing the above.

Have u ever come across any of these types of abuse in daily life,
if so, what is ur reaction to it ?
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Think out of the Box

Thinking outside the box (also thinking out of the box or thinking beyond the box) is a metaphor that means to think differently, unconventionally, or from a new perspective. This phrase often refers to novel or creative thinking.

The catchphrase, or cliché, has become widely used in business environments, especially by management consultants and executive coaches, and has been referenced in a number of advertising slogans. To think outside the box is to look further and to try not thinking of the obvious things, but to try thinking of the things beyond them.

Imagination, also called the faculty of imagining, is the ability to form new images and sensations in the mind that are not perceived through senses such as sight, hearing, or other senses. Imagination helps make knowledge applicable in solving problems and is fundamental to integrating experience and the learning process.

(From: Wikipedia)



Use ur Unique Imagination and Think Out of the Box ?
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The Future:- How would u like to see it ?

U all know that I am in computers. Well a lot of change is happening in that field by the second.

We can expect AI, and everything that u said was impossible, when seen in Sci-Fi movies.

The idea is:-

Just about nothing is impossible. If someone dreams up something, someone will figure out how to practically invent it. What bothers me in situations like that, is the original person that dreamed up the idea, gets no recognition for it.
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If u r a smoker, what's ur IQ ?

I started smoking at the age of 20, when I met my ex, who was a regular smoker, as I could not handle him smoking and I thought I was in love, so could not live without him either or the smoking.

I have found in the last number of years, since they started banning smoking in buildings and restaurants, that the people that kept on smoking, had a certain IQ level.

I'm a born analyst and am always looking for patterns.

So here was another pattern. Do u know what?
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OK Men - Here is ur chance to prove me wrong !

For all the men I have known in the last 1+ years:-

1. A short resume other than ur profile, which is mainly fake and a boost of ur ego. (It is so nice to live a faery tale on the anonymous internet.)

2. How r u different from the men I described in my previous blog on Men, if at all ?
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The joys of Motherhood !

U all know the story as to how I managed to get my kids back with me, after my ex abducted them, and hid them for years on end.

Well to make a long story short, I have always been a single mother, even when married, as he was just using me as a means to an end, and never contributed to the household, but removed my money from the joint bank accounts, when he left with the kids, and bought himself a plot of land, created his own family business, and sent my kids to a private school at first. Then he realised that the money spent on the kids will be used much better entertaining himself and his friends, thus cigarettes, booze, and girls for hire, even though he had a live in one already, without being divorced from me yet.

Well my kids r now safe, and happy, which is all that counts.

What would u have done in a situation, as I have described before and now ?
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Rippley's believe it or not !

Has anything happened in ur life, or someone u know of, that no-one will ever believe ?
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What do u prefer doing on dates ?

We all have certain entertainment areas and topics !

I haven't been on a date for a long time, but it will depend on what both prefer doing most, as to what will be done.

It will obviously be give and take. If it is something u don't realy like, u end up doing it anyway, to be supportive.

None of us have the same likes and dislikes.

e.g. Going to the theater, or for a picnic, or water sports

Eating out, meeting for coffee, of going to a bar, is some of the last options, as they r so ordinary.

U want the meetings to bring back good memories, and not how u tried to talk with food in ur mouth, as u did not want to appear that u don't have anything to say.

Come on:- Some good ideas will be appreciated ?
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If u want someone --> Go for it !

I have met quite a few men on CS, in the 1 + year I have been on this site.

I am scared that others might make the same mistakes than I have, but if they go into the situation with their eyes wide open, then no-one can be blamed but themselves.

If u want someone that badly, then go for it !!!
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Hands Up !

I say to my cat, when she's naughty.

She looks at me as if saying:- "And who do u think u r ?" Then she makes it for the back door and vanishes for the next couple of hours. Enough for me to start worrying , so she gets her own back again. (She's the cat on my profile, but 2 years older)

My dog (a Brown Chow that looks like a teddy bear) walks on her back legs all the way from the electric gate to the back garden, with me obviously holding her front legs and walking backwards.

Then I have 2 other cats as well. The black baby, now quite a few years older, loves catnip. She is as soft as silk. The male cat moved in by himself over summer, and it's too cold to chuck him out in winter, so till the end of winter, then we will decide if he is behaving himself now, as he tried to fight with all the girls, especially mine, as she is the Queen in the household, even of the humans as well.

Then there r my 2 sons' cats:- The black mother, that's absolutely gorgeous and the Tortoisshell that is getting on in years now, but eats 4 meals at breakfast and supper times, as she is so skinny.

My animals:- We can't live without them. Life would be empty and sad if they were not there. Thus:- We will always have animals, just the type and colour will vary.
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Why is swearing necessary ?

We've all grown up in our different ways, where we tend to mimic our parents and friends.

My parents never swore. They were staunch Christians and swearing was very wrong, and that is the way I grew up. Only later in my life did I no longer want to be called a Christian, as there r too many using the Christian beliefs to further themselves, and it was totally against all my principles.

During my life, I have had friends that swore, but I never picked it up from them, as I still had my strong backbone, that no-one could bend.

My ex, a British citizen, swore like a sailor, for anything and everything. That it was against my principles, he could not care less about, and would most of the time do it just to rile me further. The marriage was 7 years of hell.

Now I can understand why some people would swear, to make them give an outlet to their feelings, being it whatever.

But, don't expect it of me !
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If u had to buy a man / woman !

How much would u pay for what part / characteristic ?

Some people come at a price that escalates by the minute !!!
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