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Hello guys...
It's nice to be back here...missed to be here..
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Thank you

For those who sent prayers for my son for his successful scholarship Examination. THANK YOU ALL
Though the result is not released yet.
Except math which since his young age, it's never been his favourite subject, other than that, he got no worries, though an exam is an exam, until the result be released that's the time I could say he made it. Again thank you guys...kiss ::teddybear:
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Kids without a mom and a dad at their sides ...

Just talked to my 3rd son, after work today.
I felt that pain, as am supposed helped them in every difficulties they are going through. He was worried last week, as he hadn't received any message that he was qualified for a scholarship exam, as he said it's very important for him. Last Monday he got a message for a positive response. The Exam will be this 21st of October. He had no time to review due to hectic schedules. Being the journalists in school,the editor of the school newspaper. Represent the school journalism competition. He already gave up some of the co curricular activities even his passion in music, as a band and bugle corp's leader as I told him so, as academics is more important .
A lot of projects to submit ..I felt like..it broke my heart..I could not help him with his tasks .
Now he is worried how he could make the scholarship exam , he did not reviewed at all.
The only thing I could help him is to give that courage...stock knowledge is always there and don't worry too much just do your best, and TRUST HIM.
I suggested him to sleep in a hotel on Friday and Saturday for him to relax and will not be late on the exam as our home would take an hour due to traffic and thought he could do some reading.
But Saturday is the awarding and recognition day, he must be there too. Hahhhhh, I could not imagine how busy he is.
But my eldest son, has always that magic in comforting me, "Don't worry mama, everything will be all right."..
Those who believed in God, who reads this blog of mine, may I ask your kind prayer, so for my son not to experience that mental black out during the exam.
I thank you all in advance..
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Best Gift...

Am thinking these past days...just that, I could not think what must be the BEST GIFT for a son, who worked hard in school, to compensate the hardship of his Mom.
My son will graduate in senior high, and got high honours. Passed the scholarship exam, which means, deminished burdens of tution fees, and will receive financial support from department of higher education for his allowances. Happiest , proud mom and GRATEFUL. A gift is never asked, so I could not asked him, as it's supposedly a surprise..
But if I would ask...he might say...I want my Dad...lol..cheering
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Impulsive and Spread-himself-too thin superiors..

Being an employee, we could experienced different superiors..which we need to adjust and learn how to deal with them. But an impulsive superior is a kind I considered a" doesn't knew what he is doing. Same as true with the spread-himself-too-thin. That's what I considered my supervisor. Which in my Eleven years working in my present job, I experienced much stress when this superior came. The first was last year, and I promised myself it will never happen again. He may get stressed on me, not me on him. Just that situations happened. Just yesterday, I need to be appraised for recontracting. He mainntained my appraisal grade. In my previous supervisors, I used to asked and discussed about the evaluation. And got the same answer, "you deserve more, but this is I need to put as per policy". For some it might not be important, but for me, I wanted to know which area I need to focus, for some improvement. Yesterday, I asked him" do I deserved this, or did I not improved for the whole year?" His replied" I decreased the grades of, almost of the staffs. Ohhh...he evaluated me based on other staff's performances. I replied, "the field of work might be the same , but we are different persons". What is different" he replied. Huhhh...anyhow I told him, ok I will sign that evaluation but am sorry, I need to write some comments. Before the end of the day, the chief of staff called me, as he said my superior gave him my evaluation telling him, am not contented with my grades. Hahhhh...
Good enough, at least I was given a chance to speak out. So we had a long conversation. I told him, there is no issue here, I just wanted to know if I deserved or did not improved as the next question, what to do to have some improvement. As job is not just all about money, enjoying the job matters most, otherwise one will face much stress. Stress is one cause of death..lol Bottomline he wanted me to sign the evaluation. Yes, I will sign, but as was said, I need to put some comments..
This is what am going to write....
Supervisors, deserves respect and perform task assigned by him. I did asked permission to put some comments and he agreed. I want to say thanks for the evaluation, but I think, he doesn't know what exactly to do.
1. He doesn't know that evaluation is not about increment, it's about performance..
2. He doesn't know that evaluation is based on the staff performance and not based on the previous evaluation he did to other staff.
3. He doesn't know that the appraised grade is applicable for the present year and not for the next year.

Last year I asked him, why he decreased the staff's grade..he answered , it doesn't matter as the company stopped the increment. I explained to him that evaluation is not about increment, it's about performance..for long long years the staff work hard and earned the grade this supervisor came after 10 years and he decreased. He don't realize the consequence. I asked simple question he made it complicated ohhh..I should be thankful he did not decreased mine???he told me, I will increase next year ..tsk tsk...he really doesn't know what he is doing...
frustrated
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Need some SAY

I need a break from work, I thought of travelling. My two other colleagues wants to go with me. I was searching in the internet which place is preferable to go these days.
The other colleague said, she wants in a snowy place. Well, as a third country nationals, travelling is not easy for us. The most we could go, is the european territories.
We were in Armenia , Giorgia and Dubai last year. My searched this time is...Paris, Lucerne, Milan, Venice and Rome . Two nights stay in a hotel each place. We planned to leave in March first week. Is Lucerne still snowy that time???guys from Switzerland ...teddybear
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Am so so so sick

It's been a while...got busy with work and everyday activities. But believed me guys, I missed to be here.
Am so sick today, the last time I was sick was in 2012, my health dropped down when my father died. I seldom got sick as, I am careful with everything I put in my mouth , had to do some workouts, as I believed, health is important than anything else.
But, as age adds, really true, immune system starts to lower it's performsnce. Becoming weak . I could not imagine those who are suffering with serious sickness. If I only could change my head ...huhhhh...this is real worst.frustrated crying
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Why am here????

Just like most who are here, obviously, looking for the love of my life....heart beating
I got registered at about 22:00 hour of June 24, 2016. After a few minutes I met someone, thought it was fate. After 8 months of communication, I flew for us to see each other,as impossible for him to be where am at. The first thing I did , talked to his ex wife, asked them both the possibility of reconciliation. They assured there is none.
I stayed in that place for a month with lots of arguments and fights, the fact that we grew up in different surroundings culture and traditions. But we resolved those, through communication and communication. Leave from work was almost finished, the Doctor called he had to undergo operation. I extended leave from work for another 30 days, took care of him.
When I returned to work we kept the ball rolling. Then went back again for the 2nd time. We came up to a plan about marrying.
Just that the true us, came out, and I left that place, this time with goodbyes...
I wrote a blog on here with the thought to share the experience and impart some lessons in life. But he begged that I had to delete.
I deleted my profile too, deleted the means of communications we had. So to moved on.
Just two months ago am here again with different profile.
Why am here again???
Well, the fact that am here in this place, where, English is not that important, I could no longer trust my English , no more. Though my Boss still believes I could do it well. So I need to have a conversation with people who speaks English very well, so I remember this site. Well, could be, that I could still find that love of my life too...who knows???
kiss
dunno

I hate goodbyes as it mean forever

I am so grateful, to be a part of the blog land not that long, but I really felt , am so welcomed by members here. In as much as I wanted to enjoy, as being here, has a lot of fun.
But, I would be busy, and would not find time here, no more, so I need to be out from here.
Again, thank you guys, for a warm welcome here.
Sooner or later , I might be back but am not so sure.
Good luck to everyone, and hope each succeed each purpose of being here..
Good Luck and God Bless...
kiss teddybear

Simple way to fight Cancer

I saw this in my newsfeed today, just thought to share with you guys...professor
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Why am still single???

Well, I did not find the handsomest, the sexiest, and the prettiest guy, I want .
Or maybe am just naive, or just denied the truth that, I already liked or loved a person...
But....
What holds you to keep the status????kiss heart beating

Are we really expecting to be happy when we get married???

Isn't it that, we should be happy already.. secured and knows who are, before getting into a serious matter like getting married???
dunno
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