How do you define the sincere people from those who want someone to occupy their free time?
I have noticed that the people you begin to trust with personal about yourself tend to use it as a tool to hurt you. I had such an experience when I tried to give someone new space in order to take care of his affairs. He took it as a personal afront and repeatedly brought it up to me. Once he said something that irritated me so in return he used a comment that my ex husband used to hang over my head.
If a person cannot accept that you meant them no harm, why go on unless he was waiting to make his attack for touche'. Yes it hurts when it is so personal and told in strict confidence then after shredding your character discards you like you were a waste of his time. If they say that they want to relocate to be near you, be very wary indeed. You may have to support them even if they find job when they are unskilled.
Who can you trust anymore when a singles site is like s smorgasborg for the low lifes?
I have had some odd experiences with men especially here lately. It seems tht two want to stone me, one wants to own me and one is a friend of mine.
It all comes down to one thing. They all say they are attracted to my honesty in that I am not afraid to say what is on my mind. Reading between the lines, I take no grief from anyone as life it way too short to succumb to another.
When you have a chance to get to know men through chat or email their true personalities come through loud and clear. Now I am not desperate enough to withstand the grief that my ex husband put me through by someone else. When they attempt to dice and slice my character I will stand up to the challenge. Of course this will piss them off and the rest is history because it is either take me as I am or leave me alone.
Are their any men who truly wish to have an equal and not puppet. I can understand why so many women today are single giving the alternative.
So for the decent men, where are you or has society changed so much that one does not exist any longer?