shabiu Blog (15)
i have yet to meet anyone who looks like there picture or /and who is what they have projected..maybe they are just all delusional 
came home after work ..did not stop at the bar with your single buddies before going home ..
did not beat the little lady..the kids or your dog...you were a keeper!!! if you did not smoke or drink ..bonus points... 
or chemistry
so what the h--l is that all about sounds like a load of c--p to me... personally i think its a way out for women.. you know men are shallow... women are not... so they could never get away with just saying..i really like you ..but am not attracted..your just too fat!!! 
guess then women would have to admit..that yes virgina..women like men are very shallow indeed!!!!!
BUT FOR THE MONEY TAXPAYERS ARE POURING INTO DETROIT...GIVE ME SOMETHING OTHER THAN MORE OF THE SAME!!!! two relationships..one short one long.. so what is this blog about??? poor return for your investment??? yah think??? then last week it all comes crashing down..she is not interested and to be fair.she never told me she was.. never said she wanted a relationship.. but i was flying high ..i felt 16 all over again and that my friends is a stretch.. now today she pulled herself from my facebook..and i would assume i am blocked on here.. (havent tried).. and am told to not contact her.. 
you spend so much time on the net or the phone to try to meet someone.. then they have a quick cup of coffee or a couple of dates and then boom!!! with the click of mouse you are history.. 
i think the whole thing stinks..i seldom run into any women i find interesting..that are not dating or married..or way younger than me..so the net was my only option..unless i want to go on expedtions to the city on weekend to find a gal??? think i could stuff one in the truck??? 
i have had a week to hurt and feel bad but had hoped she would change her mind.. if folks have a mutal agreeement to split its one thing.. but when its just one side.. somebody pays the piper..and its me .. and i am tired of paying.. so .........hey guys...i hope you all have better luck than i.. it hurts like hell to get dumped...
its hard to find someone to share your life with at my age..you are not a viable entity anymore..women are not looking at you as a provider ...a potential father.. a protector.. at my age (59) your more of a liability ..ready to drop at any given moment..older women seem to be done with men.. have had their failed relationships.. suffered and once free of the yoke..tend to not want to go back..and they tend to socialize in female groups..men do not.. i seem to know a lot of older guy and they are like me..alone..work and work..and little else..unless they are active with their children... the fear of a stroke..heart attack..of waking up one morning and not knowing who or where you are these fears have made me angry...about growing old..as my body fails me.. and i find socially i am unwanted.. my last attempt at finding a soulmate ended with .. you want to much in a relationship..your not active enough..your to fat..your health is not to good.. your to sedentary..you not finacially secure.. you make less than i.. all things that alas were true..but things i thought i could change ...in time.. but ..time was not to be given... going out in the garage today see if i can find my old gear.. or so one would hope.. This is a list of shabiu's Blogs. Click here for shabiu's Blog List