I have a friend a guy from middle east (22 years old) who knew a local woman 37 years old (a widow with one daughter 5 years old) online for 2 years then they committed to get married. The guy traveled with all documents to marry her.
After 2 months of marriage his wife told him that she cheated him and it was because her child told him when she was not there, the child is always afraid of her. This guy did not have choice but to accept it, he could not go back to his own country. From that time his wife showed her real character, she is a monster. His wife abused him. He found out she even ever tried to kill her own brother. This guy could not work or open a bank account, this is the rule for spouse visa. He started not to be comfortable to stay with his wife but cannot run, he did not have any friends. He tried to make friends but because he is good looking women like him, so he started to be as playboy, while his wife also had several boyfriends. One day he met a woman and he was so depressed this woman took him to stay together, the last 6 months he lived separately with his wife. His wife several times brings different men to live in her flat with her and her daughter. He told that his wife would make him into jail, she always threatened him, he also becomes a liar. He sometimes met his wife and he kept secret about the woman he lived with. They would get divorce soon as his wife already had a man that contact him to marry her. It is almost 2 years of their marriage.
Last week, his wife asked him to come to her flat to return her travel bag and exchange their laptops. This guy did not have any feelings so he went to meet her. Actually it was a trap, she made a report and polices took him from her flat to the police office nearby.
She found the phone number of the lady he stayed with and started to threaten and terror her. She would make another report to put this lady in jail too if she heard she interfered the case. She said his husband was a suspect molested her daughter.
As friends, we would look for him as he could not be contacted for 2 days, so we called this police office and found out he was there and the case is not about molest a child under age, but hit a child. Well we know he would not harm any kids. One of our friends tried to make appointment to meet him and pretended as his fiancé, cos this time only family can visit him. His wife knows and terrors again thinks that the lady sends someone to visit him. Of course this lady denied. Poor guy, he lives alone here, no family and the strange is police did not give him a chance to contact his family in his country or his close friends, he does not either have a lawyer.
I wonder why Algeria is not listed here, now I know the reason that many Algerian men are willing to live and work outside their country, but they will marry only with Algerian girls.
The websites is a place how to get the access to go outside his country. They will ask money after knowing each other more than 5 months, not like other scammers who need money faster after meeting online less than 2 months.
tends to lie ?
Maybe it is because of a habit or a curse !
If you always fail to build a love and remain single. Are you ashamed of living being a single, are you afraid to be a single ?
i love to visit him bring along some food and fruits, since i can not visit him all i can do is just sit and pray, hoping for a better tomorrow comes at the soonest.
hope i can cheer him up i could act like a red nose clown if it can make him feel much better.
I wish CS has IM with voice chat but unfortunately it is not there.
I look for a free website for online voice chat without download it or installation of the free software from the website is not required, just the very simple one if possible incl. webcam chat will be better.
Any idea, please let me know, thanks.
if love is a machine, we can buy its spare part somewhere, do the maintenance, find a technician to fix the broken one. We intend to fix it for permanent good condition.
We have many loves not only to our boyfriend/ girlfriend, first, for God who always hear us, who bless us with everything, second, our parents who make us to be as who we are today, shower us with their loves for the whole life, third, brothers/sisters and best friend, we've grown up together, we can talk anything to our best friend for something we cannot talk to our boyfriend/ girlfriend, sometimes a best friend can be a secret lover, fourth, nice neighbors and sweet people around us, people we meet, see or talk to everyday.
There is no love spare for a broken heart people, we are not talking about an hour love. The 4 loves above will keep us alive in any kind situation.
even though maybe we are not superstitious persons, but sometimes something that just already happens by accident could make us think about what will happen in the future, sound likes it is a signal. Or when something that just already happens we think about the same thing that we ever had in the past, it looks like a repeated action a repeated happening in life, sound likes it is a deja vu ...
The trend or culture in the future will be a global culture. Eastern culture tends to prohibit a kid to argue with their parents because we are worried the kids will not respect anymore to their parents. This view has been changed now since kids could be treated as a friend that needs to be listened to. Eastern women should keep their virginity until they get married, even when I was a kid I had to close my eyes if I watched movies for a click flash kiss. We might be worried if something happen to a woman, a child will certainly know who his mother is but could be not sure about who his father is. This view has been changed, sometimes it is not under her control to lose her virginity we understand there are some reasonable conditions.
Eastern woman should obey to her partner, must know how to cook and clean the house as she has to stay at home when her husband is at work. It has been changed when a husband is at work and the woman can be at work too, we need an assistant at home for cooking and cleaning the house. Now everyone can cook and clean the house. Eastern women tend to be shy before, today there are many women that can be as tough as men and they are not shy anymore
Everyone has imagination a fantasy, what is the great imagination that you ever have in your mind ? I wish I could dance a beautiful dance and get the highest score
Well, I do not know how to write a blog actually. I notice many interesting persons here, i think it is not totally different between here and in real life.
I wonder what I am supposed to do when I meet someone i love here for the first time in my real life.
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