We all have gone through some heartbreak in our lives, but all I hear is how impossible it is to let go. Why is that? I mean, if this man or woman loves you, then why would you seek to destroy your chance at real love/a future? It's like that person would rather just stay in the past, never giving more than a certain percentage of themselves, making it impossible for the other person (the one who keeps trying) to love him/her. It is never-ending obstacles and so very tiring. What would you do?