Worry & Why? prob half-baked or idle-mind are you?; Get all the facts & causes to the problem that worries you; Weigh options available before you & take a decision; Once the decision is arrived at, act upon. Do not let worry take over you; instead ask yourself what is the worst that can possibly happen & prepare mentally to accept the worst; then try harder to improve on the worst; Decide how much anxiety a thing may be worth and refuse to give it more. Remind yourself of the heavy price you may have to pay for worry in terms of your health. Learn to co-operate with the inevitable; do not fuse over trifles & use the law of averages to outlaw your worries. Keep your mind occupied at all times to keep your worries at bay.
Do not forget that unjust criticism is often a compliment in disguise. Every opinion is valid, nobody is right and it is o.k for people to disagree with our ideas, kinda gets you off the hook? Or take a look at it and see what you can learn, there may be something incredibly useful to correct yourself; It may help you better your performances; Criticism thus makes you grow stronger. Learn to take criticism and praises evenly.
Why me? - We are blamed and singled out when something goes amiss/wrong, be it in our workplace or at home; we curse our luck and subject our pains and miseries bestowed on us as curse of god to offset the misgivings of our previous birth or as destiny that cant be changed and end up saying why me? and why not somebody else?. Instead Ask yourself - why not me? the problem that one encounters may have been showered on Him who possesses qualities to handle them; who has patience to outwit them and look beyond. In the process, he/she is able to learn lots about life and is able to refine him/her to be an better person; thus problems break away and lose steam to those who ask - Why not me?
Do not grieve over mistakes committed, not all of us may have tasted success in one go; But shall try to learn from our mistakes and correct them; Failures are stepping stones to success; Thus 2.Action - Wrong when refined or fine tuned paves way for 1.Action - Right; But 3.Inaction? Doing nothing or staying grounded, not having made any headway; we become Non performing Assets. We lose interest and our confidence gets eroded; The faith that others have in us weans away. Therefore do not be a non-starter, not throwing yourself in the ring fearing losses or failures that may hit you; instead make small yet confident moves, the result may be averse, but do not lose hope. You have then moved from 3.Inaction to 2.Action - Wrong & are not very far away from your target/goal of 1.Action - Right.
Learn to effectively manage time; Carry a logbook with you even in today's paperless times; Make a note of what needs to be done & do not postpone the assigned task under any circumstances; Do not give any excuses & do not blame lack of time; it just shows how poor you are in managing time effectively.Prioritize your pending tasks and execute them in the order so arranged.
Faith, faith in ourselves, faith in god is the secret of greatness. With no faith in oneself there is no salvation. Have no fear, fear is death, fear is sin, fear is hell & fear is unrighteousness. Never mind failures, they are quite natural & what would be life without these setbacks. Fill your mind with thoughts of courage, hope and prayer. Count on your blessings and not your troubles; Do not think you are weak; you know but little of that which is within you, the ocean of infinite power and blessedness. With immense faith in you and your deeds, you shall throw down any given challenge with ease.
BLAME none, but yourself; when things do not go our way, we shift the blame onto somebody else; try to make another the scapegoat for our failures. Stay calm, balanced and in control, respond assertively and keep your poise. Take corrective measures instead of blaming others. Why waste our time and effort in looking for changes in others, when we can work to make changes within us. When we can't bring about changes within us, the problem may also lie in us, hence shall blame none but oneself.
Be a good Listener; Go with an open mind, listen carefully to whatever is being told, digest whatever you have heard and then speak out; be clear and precise on whatever you say or commit; Fulfill all commitments made and earn the trust of others. Be a trustworthy person in the eyes of others. When your actions match with your words uttered, you win other's confidence.
When you make a sincere effort on any assignment, do not expect things to go your way at one go; you may face obstacles - do not lose heart, believe in yourself & do not make hasty decisions; Stay positive and you are sure to achieve your goal; Failures are stepping stones to success; when you encounter problems, try solving one at a time; if you are stranded for a longer time with no solution in sight, try looking at the problem in a different perspective; perseverance pays.
When something interests you, you may begin with trying out the same; but may soon lose interest when it does not go the way you wanted it to be. Be it a Gym workout or Diet workout, give some time frame, say 30/60/90 days & do not decide to end the same abruptly. Your decision to end abruptly may have been the cause for not achieving the desired result; instead be regular in what ever you have started and on any given opportunity do not discontinue, but try to make the same a habit to achieve your goal. This attitude helps you to stay on course for a longer period than giving in meekly when you confront difficult times in the course of your life.
We must be more attentive on the happenings around us, each of them may convey a message to us; Always be open to ideas, welcome suggestions from all around, do not ignore what people younger than us have to say; Mistakes that we commit while venturing into new areas, shall not pin us down; instead we shall learn from our mistakes and better our performances.Our confidence grows when our continuous quest for knowledge does not cease. Yearn to know more & make Learning a continuous process.
When you are lying, you are not honest to you and to the other person involved; your true identity is lost and no more are you looked upon as a genuine person in the eyes of others involved with you.Let us not try to fake things to evince interest in others, such acts may work out in the shorter run; but our true qualities stand out in the longer run. Your actions reveal what we are made up of; may your actions be honest and sincere, be it in what you do or your body language or what you talk!
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