Forgiving and Forgetting
Only yesterday when I was sad and I was lonely....I learned the way to leave the past and all its tears behind me.Hoping tomorrow maybe even brighter than today.How can u forgive if u dont forget the past?
If I don't forget then I dont forgive
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"Forgiveness frees us and allows us to move on".
I know it is just easy to say "forgive them" but I hardly cannot figure why I cannot forget that triggers me to be upset
even I told myself I forgive them
Raising of sun give u a new life a create new thing and start new life.so i think make bessy and start the day with new era
Making new memories is the best thing we have to do...trying to move on....the thing is
its just remind me things I hate
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My view is that I can’t forgive someone who has deeply hurt me and done wrong unless they show true compassion and remorse. Then I will. Well all do stupid things on the spur of the moment that we then regret. It’s easy to forgive those. But if someone has planned and connived to cause hurt in a pre-meditated way, this I find very very tough to forgive and probably won’t.
Maybe in time it will be better.
Just move on and just make good memories on my nrw journey in life.
maybe as time it will be ok.
@ times its like a ghost that haunts me
But hope you find your own way of dealing with it, that will bring you peace...
Don't push yourself to do something you don't want to do...
a bit lifted in spirit thst makes u sweet
Yes I will do that make sense
I had been waiting for over 15 years of my life on getting an apology when I finally realized that those apologies would never going to come.I'll never forget what harm was done to me but I realized that I can't/couldn't just reside in the past and had to move on and not allow those people to continually do me wrong and thinking that it wasn't my fault and that no matter who I was with wasn't going to change the other person attentions towards me.
@this moment sitting I came to realized that what I read ftom all your comments brought back the hurt I had and like i I am waiting for that apology but I know its not possible.I am judt grateful for my 2 big boys beside me to comfort and understand.
Thank you for the nice words I am really learning to cope up with it.
Yes I am maybe thats why I am at my best today and tomorrow
full dose to me.Things has to go on and live a better life
You will never forget what mishap was done to you (our healthy mind does not have a reverse button), but you do have the ability to forgive. I always say if Jesus could forgive his tormentors, then so can I forgive the many injustices the world possesses. What's important is when you recall the situation,you also need to remember how you followed the word of God and pat yourself on the back for following his wish, to forgive. Once you feed your mind with positive energies you will forget the negative ones that are trying to block your path forward. GL :)
Sometimes I wish my mind forgers.
gotcha!!!
Just perfect timing u made me smile with your joke
True who are we not to forgive
if God forgave us
I agree with all of the above comments
Along the way, people have done me wrong and I’ve forgiven them and I’m pretty sure I’ve done somebody wrong somewhere somehow and I hope they find it in their heart to forgive me too....
However, I’d find it very hard to forgive someone who has done wrong to my loved ones.
You hurt the people I love is akin to hurting me 10 times
Thank you.I learned from it too.
This is what matters accepting our faults
that along the way of our journry in life we cannot avoid hurting someone.I have forgiven them that made have my pace of mind
So long
I meant to say on my earlier comment, “Along the way, there were people who had wronged me....”
Anyway, all these do not matter anymore coz I’m on bigger and better things now.
Hope you’ll have a good week ahead, Jhen
and vise versa....its past and I can just learn from it.What matter is what we have now ...peace love and happiness
Hope got u right there