Girls and boys......rejection...

Seeing blogs about the self serving stories we tell each other on breaking up with (dumping) others, got me wondering. Probably blogger/formumed here before, but I'm sure we, as s*xual groups, handle rejection, real or perceived, differently. We hear caution tails about a woman's wrath, and it really is no picnic to be on the receiving end to such, especially with lawyers in tow. But here on CS and elsewhere, seems like men react with more expressed anger. Perhaps many women internalize it all. Generalizations, sure, but perhaps true.

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Women have their ways of showing you how much sleep they lose over rejection where transparent and one-dimensional man clearly demonstrates the dignity he's lost.
deedee123xo
Surely you mean Man and Woman....

I don't think it's gender specific...just depends on who is the dumper and who the dumpee...and for what reasons.
Rejection is one thing dumping totally different...
You reject someone you don't want to know but you dump someone you already know...
The first doesn't really require explanation...
to be rejected right away is not something someone should take personalty, it is best to not be with someone who does not want you,If you are chasing someone and end up with them, you will always be behind, trying to please them. Some people treat you in ways they would never want to be treated themselves, thus they do not deserve better than they are.
Thanks, all. Good points. Yes, the topic may apply more to adults, but traces of avoidance/rejection by sex can begin quite early. And rejection can occur at any time, although we often think of it as an initial event. Perhaps our differences lead us to react differently.
justkristy: "I'd just like to know!"(meet us in the profile reviews)

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