The frustration with online dating.

For years I've been on these online dating sites, as well as social media. I have over three hundred or so friends on face book. Have a video channel on you tube with a number of films I made when I was an access producer for Bronxnet. Have a collection of paintings and drawings on display at an Artist site. which is my own work. And a number of poems I've written on a poetry site. With all this I receive no feedback from anybody. On my films, art, writing. And still to this day I continue to search for that someone that I have not been able to find on line.
I text dozen of women and very few respond back. And if they do, it will be conversations that rarely lead into anything. And if they do and I make contact with that women on the phone or in person. We find we're not attracted to each other for some reason or another. Or the women has too many things going on that may be negative in order to focus on started a relationship. And I'm back to square one. Texting women until one responds. So I'm very frustrated with the whole thing, can anybody else relate? Now this is where I hope to receive feedback. But by my experience I don't expect it.
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Why being so negative?
A famous guy like you.... and 300 friends on FB... and you´re looking for someone on dating sites??? confused

I would have thought that you could find someone in real life? dunno
Maybe a little introspection is in order.
Why do you feel the need to have such a huge online presence?
How many of your 300 FB 'friends' do you chat to on a personal basis on a daily, weekly, even monthly basis?
If not,  they are not friends, just numbers to boost your ego.

Basing your social life on likes and numbers works against the goal of the most important  number- that one special person in your life.
If someone tries to be everything to a large number of people, they are less attractive to somebody who needs them to be everything to them alone.
over 300 friends on FB will be a red flag for me.
Hi wave I thought I would actually find true Love on the site, I really did lol there is no way anyone can communicate on CS besides emailing, n sending emails to one another actually gets tiring coz we run out of things to type out lol only excitement I see in CS is on the blogs, pretty good actually lol

I live in a small town that so conservative (n I don't mean conservative in a political way), no excitement here either lol I been on CS over a decade n haven't had a date, n didn't even meet not even one person lol

I haven't seen any new ' success ' stories geez no wonder lol

dunno
"over 300 friends on FB will be a red flag for me."

Me too, but I would rather know this in advance.
By he is not responding to comments ?

confused
Yoy gotta have patience .handshake
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ArtStar

Bronx, New York, USA

Well I grew up in the 70's and 80's, so that makes me a 21 century middle aged man. I'm a creative type, for I studied art in high school and college. I exhibited my work in group shows as well as solos in a number of galleries through the New York c [read more]

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