Feeling Connected

"To feel connected - understood - are deep human needs and Do you find this within your marriage. or any relationship you are in now?"

I made this blog because of one patient I encountered during my morning rounds who has Cardiac problems and I tried my best to calm him down of his problem towards his wife
smitten sigh

Comments (29)

Art and I could finish each other's sentences....smitten

Hello Jhen applause
Bearwoman
"To feel connected - understood - are deep human needs and Do you find this within your marriage. or any relationship you are in now?"

I made this blog because of one patient I encountered during my morning rounds who has Cardiac problems and I tried my best to calm him down of his problem towards his wife

ysabel I felt connected to a lady patient in one of the Adult care homes that I worked in years ago.Her adult children just dumped her and never returned to see her.I learned about this ladies situation from my boss and chose to spend as much of my time with her after my shift was over and on my days off.I would sit in her room and she would tell me about her childhood and such.Since I didn't have any living Grandparents I chose to make her my Grandma.
ysabeljhen
Hey Mi2 dearest Isn't that owesome you both feel the need to connect all the time and I think that contributes to have better and lasting relationshiphug teddybear
This is off topic, Jhen but I feel so protective over him that whoever hurts him is akin to hurting MiMi as well...

In fact, that somebody can behave stupidly with me and I can still forgive that person and still talk to him/her but you mess around with my Arty.....

This Is War!!!! very mad very mad very mad
Ok, I feel like I've saved the whole world, I better get back to solving my face-puzzles now laugh
ysabeljhen
awww BW hug that was sweet and kind of youthumbs up somewhere out there needs ppl like us to reach out and connect with them because they can't feel from their respective family.wine thumbs up
Bearwoman
awww BW hug that was sweet and kind of youthumbs up somewhere out there needs ppl like us to reach out and connect with them because they can't feel from their respective family.

ysabel Thank You.I used to see several residents in a similar situation as the lady I spoke about.When she passed away it hit me like a rock.
ysabeljhen
Mi2 dearest cheering you are over protective of your Artythumbs up its normal of course to do our best to save the relationship that we have been protecting...wine teddybear
BW applause thumbs up bouquet
Bearwoman
Hi Mimiart.Thank you.hug wave
ysabeljhen
BW in our everday life we meet some ppl
but in a way or another touched our lives
and I knew He used us to lighten one's
feeling of emptinessteddybear
timotie
Jhen angel
Where their is Love n respect,
Their must be a connection. applause
handshake peace teddybear
EXRED
Many forms of connection, i believe one must be connected happly to self before being able to connect to anything.

must add well done you for your work in understanding and helping others.
Connection is nice.
To feel connected. One must desire a connection frustrated . Or would one get that from themself dunno or do we actually need dunno maybe to appreciate connection. We need disconnection dunno . I'm totally connected. Yet to discover another in the same space. I see connection as a want. Not a need dunno
ysabeljhen
After my duty hours I tried to dropped by the patient who asked me to just listen
as he continued to say this statement...
"My story may be scary or confronting for many wivesor husbands but my marriage ended because the emotional connection I needed from my wife just wasn’t there. I take some responsibility in all this too, but I didn’t give up on it easily and made many attempts to save the relationship."..sigh
ysabeljhen
Timwave
In any relationship we need emotional connection to feel importance from our partners and that will make us feel wanted and love of coursewine handshake
deedee123xo
To be kind, thoughtful and caring is what I need from others as that's what I give.

I don't really need any deep and meaningful connection with anyone...have always wondered what people meant by 'connection' to people.

Is it similar interests?
Is it daily interaction?
Is it just simply showing kindness and thoughtfulness?

It's akin to love with me...I don't sometimes understand when people say connection.
Hope someone can enlighten me.

My motto is if I have loved you before then I will always love you and will always want the best for you and will always care.

That may be from a distance or on a daily up close way....but I have 'written off' very little in my life...I don't believe you should discard of people...unless they pose a health and emotional risk to your own well being.

Long winded and probably off topic.

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Miss Dee. Connection is just that. Having a connection. Where or when it happens is not an issue I feel teddybear
ysabeljhen
dd and ears

It is possible to learn the emotional communication skills necessary for establishing, maintaining, and deepening your relationships at any age.

Although men are not generally as connected to their emotions as are women, their feelings need to be acknowledged and accepted,recognition and responses for emotional connection.To be more attentive and responsive to your partnerwine
Do you find this within your marriage. or any relationship you are in now?

Yes...
ysabeljhen
Hey Chatwave
Think it happened to any relationship that causes partners to fall apart because they lack emotional connection.sigh
I have great connections in my friendships....wave
ysabeljhen
EXwave
Thanks for the k8nd words.Yes their are many forms of connection e.g. emptional and physical that somehow needs to nurture for a better relationshipthumbs up


Mercewave
Thats good thumbs up
ysabeljhen
M4wave
Having that would make you the best friendthumbs up thumbs up
ysabeljhen
Mi2dearestapplause
That says all my dear its just like a non stop music that needs new dance steps
to learn more deeper the existence of reconnecting to one another.hug wine
Oh yes gayyem. I'd run away if connection is blocked in my relationship. Thank God, sll ky children and friends are all connected with me very strongly and my love is up in the high nines.

Great blog gayyem. teddybear heart wings
zeroBalance
CONNECTION requires AFFECTION

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