You've changed

Every serious relationship you were ever in, changed you. Men change for women and yes, women really do change for men.

Did you keep the changes or shed them with relief when the relationship ended?

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They are still together
But she went back to work shortly after than incident laugh
Ditto - I went back to part-time work, even though SA had joint-taxation and I had to pay super-tax to cover the difference in our joint income. I didn't take home very much!

Tough. Enough was enough.
I think it is choice here in Spain, joint or individual. I'm about to have to set up for tax so am trying to read up what I can. Right NOW I have spent more than I earned uh oh but maybe I can sort a tax credit for next year's lavish income laugh
I don't know if this is an actual change, if feels more like finding out some new, undiscovered sides of yourself...
The last time I dared to fall for someone brought out something powerful and really painful to maintain...
But important and meaningful too...
And there's no question if I want to keep that "change" because it's actually a part of me, that I've been looking for for a long, long time...
A very good question Elle. I believe we adapt more than change. Not that we have to pull the curtain of who we are it's just that we do adjust. I've kept some good stuff of who I am from those experiences.
Fundametaly Biff----i meant they way i like s-x-------being an athiest i could not change----nor kill anyone either ha ha BUT no-one yet no-one will tell me Nessie does not excist ha ha That is fundamently a no no
I once shaved a beard & mustache off of myself (that I had for a long time) as per a request from a girlfriend,
and years later haven't grown it back. dunno
Changes are like a stains, some come out in the wash and others you just cant get rid of no matter how much bleach you use!
If you need to change . It means that you can not be yourself !
True relationship is when you are honestly and not fake .People must respect each other and do not try to change each other . You do not need to play to be perfect :)) and he/she loves you as you really are .It will be true love . heart beating heart beating
I honestly dont think i go back to my old ways.i just try and rebuild my life.
I think if your in a relationship you subconsciously change, but I would not and would not expect my partner to change because they would not be the person I fell in love with.
...we all change slowly as we grow older... what seamed important in yeasterdayes, might not mean much in tomorrows...
...me thinks...

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I'm a changer bloke whom hasn't met a changer lady yet dunno . If a lady is not a changer like us I kick em out so peice returns rolling on the floor laughing peace teddybear . Love the changers. More effort required to be a changer. Others are just plain lazy as cool
M4 yikes only when re-reading the comments did I see yours help you're completely right we change all the time anyway every day in every way getting better and better - or at least trying to uh oh

Blue, sometimes in the rebuilding we have to consciously or subconsciously include or reject a change. Or make a resolution never, ever to go down certain paths ever again. Which like all resolutions is not always easy to keep - I started blogging here because of a bloke I met through CS. Took me a while to decide whether to leave but I enjoy the interaction.

Emmy, half the time the person we initially fall in love with was just the mask, there's a temptation to try to force them back into the silhouette we originally took them for. That's both sides, many a man complains that the woman who was up for anything while they were dating picks up her knitting and settles in front of the telly the minute they marry. Then what? Change them back by any means possible? Accept the change? Move on? I believe we start falling in love long before we see the real person. sigh

Viking - my changes aren't always for the best uh oh I agree that what mattered so much 10 years ago barely features on my wishlist now. laugh nice video thumbs up

Daears, the perfect match is someone who changes us into someone we like being yay and hopefully there isn't too much work to do laugh
i hardly cooked for my ex-husband...

I’ve made a pact with myself to at least make an effort to learn how to cook for Arty’s sake smitten

I’ll start by perfecting the art of making the perfect soft-boiled egg...6 1/2 minutes: soft, jammy yolk. A favourite for eggs on toast or soft boiled eggs on a salad.


“Art honey, where do you put ‘em eggs?” grin
Biff, we have almost the same thing here called ‘Kaya butter toast with soft-boiled egg’

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Kaya is a spread made of sugar, egg yolk and coconut milk. Art loves Kaya!

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The Malaysians and Singaporean eat their half-boiled eggs with white pepper and light soy sauce. Art nearly died when I served him that! grin
Mimi - I'm suddenly hungry. STARVING.
Yes, I'm a changed person nowmoping
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