You've changed
Every serious relationship you were ever in, changed you. Men change for women and yes, women really do change for men.Did you keep the changes or shed them with relief when the relationship ended?
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Comments (58)
But she went back to work shortly after than incident
Tough. Enough was enough.
The last time I dared to fall for someone brought out something powerful and really painful to maintain...
But important and meaningful too...
And there's no question if I want to keep that "change" because it's actually a part of me, that I've been looking for for a long, long time...
and years later haven't grown it back.
True relationship is when you are honestly and not fake .People must respect each other and do not try to change each other . You do not need to play to be perfect :)) and he/she loves you as you really are .It will be true love .
...me thinks...
Blue, sometimes in the rebuilding we have to consciously or subconsciously include or reject a change. Or make a resolution never, ever to go down certain paths ever again. Which like all resolutions is not always easy to keep - I started blogging here because of a bloke I met through CS. Took me a while to decide whether to leave but I enjoy the interaction.
Emmy, half the time the person we initially fall in love with was just the mask, there's a temptation to try to force them back into the silhouette we originally took them for. That's both sides, many a man complains that the woman who was up for anything while they were dating picks up her knitting and settles in front of the telly the minute they marry. Then what? Change them back by any means possible? Accept the change? Move on? I believe we start falling in love long before we see the real person.
Viking - my changes aren't always for the best I agree that what mattered so much 10 years ago barely features on my wishlist now. nice video
Daears, the perfect match is someone who changes us into someone we like being and hopefully there isn't too much work to do
I’ve made a pact with myself to at least make an effort to learn how to cook for Arty’s sake
I’ll start by perfecting the art of making the perfect soft-boiled egg...6 1/2 minutes: soft, jammy yolk. A favourite for eggs on toast or soft boiled eggs on a salad.
“Art honey, where do you put ‘em eggs?”
Kaya is a spread made of sugar, egg yolk and coconut milk. Art loves Kaya!
The Malaysians and Singaporean eat their half-boiled eggs with white pepper and light soy sauce. Art nearly died when I served him that!