My love..
Last two days ago,I posted me and my boyfriend will meet next3 years...All people said noo, not work out and 3 years too much to wait for one another.
Yes, I understand perfectly but i still believe love is stronger than everything. For me, to wait for 3 years is nothing if we have a chance to spend the rest of our live together.
I love my boyfriend so much...and he love so much... both of us believe will work out...
I believe true love will bring happy ending.... I don't want to rush.. rushing relationship never last!!
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All the best moonlove ...
this is a quote i wrote in one of my poems:
I believe that Time and fait is what will bring two people together. no matter where we are no matter what our position and status in life is, no matter what obstacles lies ahead, I believe Time and fait will prevail and bring two people together.
good luck and all the best for your future moonlove
jayjay
As you seem like a nice girl Im going to be honest with you. Its crazy to imagine that "a relationship" can last for 3 years by email / msn / telephone etc. And anyway, why should it? You know a guy just has to get on an aeroplane and fly a few hours....you think thats so hard to do ? You should ask yourself, what kind of guy would want to wait for 3 years when he could just fly for a few hours. And you are so busy that you dont have one weekend for 3 years !?
Im not trying to upset you, Im just telling you the simple truth which it seems not many people on here will do.
If I loved someone, 3 years would seem like an eternity, I couldn't wait that long!!
But I still wish you the best!
Have a great Xmas Season & God Bless!
Have you seen the film "He's just Not That Into You" ? Im not putting this forward as The definitive work on relationships, but it does make the point strongly that if a guy wants to REALLY make something happen, then he will make it happen.
I dont know how old you are but I suspect you must know as well as I do that no guy, however good his intentions may be at the outset, is going to wait 3 years to meet a girl. Or if he is then he's really not much of a man, not in my book. I suspect that Moonie may not be the most worldly 21 year old and I honestly think it would be helpful if this simple fact was reinforced !!
yes, My view about life is quiet similar with you, like (Howie)said, I'm pretty young so i dont want to make quick decision.
If he really love me, he should wait me and i believe he can wait me. He als told that, he's okay with that coz he dont want to do something that i dont like, it would be too selfish
I love my boyfriend as much as i love myself... but life is still need to manange if you want to keep it successfully.
My age and my style is not so good to mess up with a guy, I know myself that way i asked him to wait me for next 3 years + I love my boyfriend so much .
Thanks for nice comments..
Anyway, right now I cant change my mind to meet him before 3 years, I'm not sure for another 1 year, maybe my plan will change
Thanks (Howie)
Maybe you can take a look (Bay) comments.., that's some what the same as my view right now....
that's for the comments
well u used to say to me in my failed relation that i should keep my feet on the ground but im going to say....
enjoy the feeling dear, its the greatest gift
Yes, yes, yes and YES. 100% so.
However I understand that it's not him who is not wanting or able to meet up. A brief Xmas meeting would not help anything anyway, the illusion (if it is an illusion) could go on a fair bit longer. (from personal experience)
Anyway I believe everyone is entitled to get burned or learn from their own mistakes. After all the worst thing would be wasted 3 years (and it's not THAT easy to just find someone new, plus there would be some recovery time involved for sure so it could drag out into 5-6 years easily). Not sure I would want to sacrifice that much out of my life now, waiting for someone who will MAYBE come into my life after some time.
But, it depends. Maybe Moonlove and her boyfriend are so compatible that it's worth the wait and when they meet everything will be just super.
Good luck anyway, but I do recognize myself at 21 (and even later) and a supposedly one-in-a-lifetime chance with a very special person (who, upon meeting up and closer inspection turned out to be not what I had wanted AT ALL, even though he still was and is a great person).