To whom it may concern

If Doctor Who were on TV, all would be well and good, but if I were watching him, he wouldn’t suddenly become Doctor Whom. The word ‘whom’ is nothing but trouble. Even though the rules governing its use are not complicated, many people continue to use it inappropriately. Even when you know the rules there is still the occasional sentence where it isn’t clear whether a who or a whom belongs in it. Sometimes whom looks wrong even when it’s right, but never, ever, ever looks right when it’s wrong.

I always resist using the word and only give in on the few occasions when its right to be there seems too obvious to deny. I only do it then out of cowardice, not wanting to appear ignorant of correct grammar. Let’s do ourselves a favour and get rid of the clumsy word once and for all; no one would miss it and many would be spared the anxiety of misusing it.

While we’re at it, let’s also outlaw the word ‘genre’, unless French is being spoken, and ‘fora’ as the plural of forum. Sometimes avoiding pretentiousness should take priority over grammar.
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You could yet get your wish, it is now okay to end a sentence with a preposition. My English teacher must be spinning in her grave.

My favourite misuse of whom is 'to whom am I talking to' doh

I have to accept genre - sigh

Fora? Dear me.
I last used whom, in English class at school. Genre I have used. Fora never!!! But then again I was born, Not British!
A preposition at the end of a sentence, Biff! wow I would never put one on. innocent
Keep up the good work on 'whom' and make a bit more effort to avoid 'genre', smiley. thumbs up
I don't mind prepositions at the end of sentences. They feel natural even if technically incorrect.
As for genre, I'm a bit meh. I don't care either way.
I'm a bit disappointed at your sitting on the fence regarding 'genre', molly; after all I've done for you I would have expected a bit more support than that. I didn't even know about the preposition rule until Biff informed us. I'm always a bit nervous about posting when Biff is around, similar to how I would feel strumming my guitar in front of Eric Clapton. bowing
But life is full of buts, Bloody, it's hard to see how we can avoid them.

So I can't get you to sign up for my campaign to get rid of 'whom' then? sigh
Hi Harbal, I remember once I had to write out a statement on a couple of managers who kinda got into it and I was in the room. I started out with To Whom it may concern.

It's funny how it was to the store manager, but turned out to be everyone's concern. laugh

Nosey people, but it did say To Whom it may concern. dunno

cheers my friend
Hi, wen, my friend, whom I am always glad to see. cheers
I shall speak to you in Cantonese when I meet you lest I’d be mocked for my pidgin English roll eyes

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Harbaaaaaaaaaaal handshake
Har, I cannot in good conscience, support your genre stance when I don't feel as strongly about it as you.

I could see the word 'aesthetic' sticking in your craw as sell grin
As well even roll eyes
A man with a Barnsley accent is in no position to mock anybody, MiMi.

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No matter, molly. snooty

I'm bigger than to let this come between us. innocent
Molly rolling on the floor laughing

Be careful now! Don’t roll too far back until you could see your brain! laugh
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