The best and fastest way to mend a broken heart?
There is probably not an easy way to mend your heart once it's broken. They say, time heals all wounds but how long will it take to get over such dreadful, hurtful, lonely feelings when all you want to do is to see him/her, to hug and kiss him/her? My friend posted a comment on facebook today 'waiting for what never comes...' Her 'what' was love. Waiting for love but love never comes. Waiting for him/her but he/she never returns. There is only you, sitting in the dark, looking at the walls. The sweet memories of you and him/her keep playing in your head. You laugh then cry then ask yourself 'why'. Why did he/she leave? How did I lose him/her? .... Without him/her, you are just a zommbie, walking in your daze, dragging through your days. Because he/she is a reason you survive.So, what can you do to mend your poor heart? The mourning period will end. It can't last forever. At the end, you will live. No one has ever died from having a broken heart. People do kill themselves though. Anyhow, is the heart really broken? Yes, it's a metaphor but the feeling of having a broken heart is extremely horrible. I'm sure no-one would ever want to have gone through such experience.
So, again, what can you do to recover quickly? Any suggestion? People say it may take as long as the time you were in the relationship for you to completely over your ex. Some say it takes two weeks for every month of your relationship for you to move on. I don't know the answer. Thus, I'm asking singles out there: The best and fastest way to mend a broken heart?
Inquiry minds gotta know.
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My Interpretation of this is that for a while you think about what was but then you start to think more of what will be...
this may not be the answer you were looking for but It is how I dealt with my breakup...
jayjay
I hope one day, I will wake up and my broken heart will be mended.
An added perc is the personal growth you gain when you survive something like this. It may sound corny, but it's true - whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger - and wiser, and I'll bet you're already stronger than what you think you are.
*sending healing thoughts your way
Not everyone loves with the same intensity, but one thing for sure, is that one day you will wake up and realize that you are ready to love again.
You will know that it is over, you can't live on false expectations.
The best way to deal with it is getting yourself busy, do the things that you enjoy best, there are so many things that can motivate you to do, simple enjoy life; it has so much to offer.
Best of luck to you.
The blog was just an impromptu from my friend's facebook status. To set the record straight, I asked this question not because I'm broken hearted. (In the past, yes. Not the presense.) I hope that everyone contributes so that one day, when a person needs help with mending his/her heart, this blog can somewhat help him/her to move on.
All change is good, no matter what you think. Accept change and be grateful for whatever experience you go through for it is what your soul is here to experience.
There is only love and we are all one! Your higher self knows this. You must experience this in the physical body to understand what it feels like and all the emotions which are involved, to be able to evolve spiritually
with love, truth anf joy
john