After it seemingly has ended........VERY ended.....

how about renewing the relationship? Remarrying/reattaching with the same person? Who hasn't heard of this intriguing life maneuver, and perhaps even considered it for themselves? Spend a little time here and elsewhere on the dating scenes, and up pop incentives a plenty. And the miracles of tincture of time and experience can have much to recommend them. In my case, the mom of our twins and I now have a wonderful friendship, a decade after separating, that seems to get better all the time. To be sure, we still can push each other's buttons, and with her being brighter than I am, it often leaves me in a man huff, in the man cave. Bravo gets to watch it all. I hate his knowing doggy smile at these times. But the bad memories must fight it out with the good. WOW!
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This is a very timely post. I get it
My ex husband and I (divorced for 17 years) have a very good relationship, he's become my best friend, but get involved with him again…..never in a million years.
I too have a great relationship with my ex but would never in a million years live with him again.
No...I choose not to go backwards......wave
Sounds like what Samuel Johnson called "the triumph of hope over experience."
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