My bags are packed.

I'm headed to Florida for vacation for several months and tonight I packed 2 suitcases full of camera equipment, clothes, and a variety of other things I'll be using there. head banger

Last year I also went to Florida. However, that was not a fun trip at all. I went to visit my mom & sister for XMas, but my mom got sick, went into a coma and died near the end of January. sigh Every day I was in the hospital and then hospice and ultimately her funeral. I gave the eulogy. Indeed, I think I posted that eulogy on here last year. Search among my blogs, if you like.

Nonetheless, this trip will certainly be bittersweet. I will likely be flooded with memories of my mom. However, I will also have a lot of free time to explore the nature in Florida and visit friends and my sister's family. I plan on having fun, hopefully lots of it.

So, my bags are packed. I fly out on Tuesday and will likely not return until perhaps March 2010. That phrase, "my bags are packed", reminds me of the great Jimmy Valvano. I remember a tremendous motivational speech he gave including that phrase. His father always told him that. "My bags are packed". It meant, I'm ready to be there for you, to support and help you. I searched for that speech, which included many great stories. I have it on VHS. You remember those things, right ? laugh

Well, on youtube it wasn't there. And to be honest, it probably is too long to post here anyway. So, instead here is a much shorter speech by him, given just prior to him dying. His body was riddled with cancer, when he gave this speech and let it serve to perhaps inspire you to enjoy this temporary gift that we share - life. Don't worry, it is not a sad speech, it is a joyous one.

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Hey Jim, relax and enjoy the break,yes you will be thinking about you're mum,i think of mine every day and still miss her like crazy..hug wave
Hi Jim, it sounds like a great vacation, hope you are taking a laptop to keep us all amused, you still have obligations you know !

This first Xmas without your mother will be a hard one, I am in the same boat.

beer cheers
Thanks to you both. Yes, I will be taking my laptop with me, so unfortunately for you all, I will still be posting here & in the picture threads, despite requests to the contrary. tongue

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Enjoy the nature bit...watch out for the lizards, big and small!
One good thing about your trip last year was that you were able to see your mother before she moved on. It is so much better then parents drifting off without the chance to say "so long" to them.
Very true. I was not as 'lucky' when it was my dad's time. moping

Yeah, I'll be very careful ESPECIALLY regarding the gators.
I saw several big ones last time and likely will this time too.
They look like they would move slow, because mostly they don't move. But man, they are FAST ! wow
Well Jim you have a wonderful time and who knows you might just meet someone who will steal your heart while your down there...grin Have A "Merry Christmas!"santa waving and while your nice and warm down there..cool Well up here..this will be me..cold

Take care-have fun and don't forget to check in once in a while...wave

Christina...hug
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