Got to talk it out with R.
It seems like R and I are slowly getting back to how it was before. Yesterday, she told me, that she was coming over to my part of the woods tomorrow for the Cher-gig. That means she wants a place to sleep, so she asked me, if she could sleep here.Naturally, I said yes.
We had a phone conversation earlier, and it was so nice to hear her voice again. We were laughing, and talking like we did before the things happened. I do feel like that chapter is closed, and I will not bring it up again. If she wants to talk about it, she is more than welcome to do that. I will just stay away from that subject, in order to not have a falling out, like we did before. It seems like this friendship I have with R is a strong one. I know where we stand now - still friends.
That is all I want from her. She is arriving tomorrow, and she's leaving the day after tomorrow. I will see her after work, and after the concert tomorrow evening.
So now I just have to wait. I need to finish work tomorrow, and then head home as fast as I can!
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That is all I want from her.
But the main reason: Her lifestyle. She likes to party and be out to 5-6 am, which I am getting far too old for now.
I do value her as a friend, a good friend, whom I seldom get to see. But when I do, we have a great time together.
Reason number 1: They don't want a relationship with you.
If reason number one applies, there's no reason for a reason number 2.