Puzzled!

If they put their age preference up at an impossible range, then the likelihood is that they are not looking to be contacted by anybody.

Do they say in their profile text that they are looking to date? Do you have things in common or do you "tick some of the boxes" in what she is looking for?

Some people on here are not looking for a relationship and use this to spend some time but don't want to engage in PM (should be mentioned in the profile though).

If someone isn't interested, that's just it. Concentrate on people that want to engage with you.

Best of luck in finding what's for you.

Dress up and smile on you picture and they will crash the internet to talk with you.

Let's all message LaFonda and hit her with the truth.

What is the truth, Luv?

I'll tell you what's with that. I very clearly wrote in my profile headline that I'm not looking for a relationship. I also posted my real age of 77.

If I was healthy you would be the perfect age for me because there was a time that I liked younger men.
I'm not looking for a relationship. Yet men think they are so desirable that when I take one look at their picture I will fall to pieces. I am on CS for friendly banter usually in the forums. That's it!!!!!

Yet I still get guys saying they want to get to know me.
I get guys young enough to be my grandson
Or that it's not good to be alone
Or better yet that age doesn't make a difference
And even better that miles don't make a difference.

I'm tired of writing "no thank you" or "not interested"
So I block them and then delete

CS is no longer the ideal site to look for love. I have been on here for 13 years. I met several men years ago but none were right for me. CS has turned into more of a social website. Years ago people did meet and some got married. It's not a bad site but it's also not the most ideal to find romance.