Dec 2019
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What looks like your partner is attractive to you.
Hi friends. My topic will be from the category of banned. Or rather, a topic that is not accepted to talk about. Only this is a topic that excites both women and men. It is a theme of appearance, imposed by stereotypes, the world of fashion and Hollywood. On the one hand, nature has made us who we are. We have everything unique and unique: the shape of the thighs, breasts, nose, leg length, height, eye color, hair color, length of fingers, and even capillaries on the fingers. We are all different. And it is impossible to find the same people on earth. Even twins have some differences. We are all unique and beautiful each in our own way. On the other hand, society imposes certain standards on us. And we begin to correct, adjust, enlarge, reduce something. We run to the gym, to plastic surgeons, nutritionists, to improve and change something in ourselves. We cease to be genuine, but we try to look like someone else. Would you like to be someone's copy? Isn't it better to keep your personality? Aren't you beautiful? I would like to hear an opinion from both sides. Say it honestly. What do you think is perfect about your partner's appearance? What should your partner look like for you? What attracts you to you and what do you look for in the first place at the first meeting? And what looks you don't like. Describe your partner's perfect appearance? Thank you.
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.... and when I saw him..... I've said to myself - i've got to ride that horse
Not fat.
Looks like he takes care of himself
Healthy looking
No missing teeth
Nice eyes
I'm definitely not attracted to a mans outer shell at all...It's not he's looks that are going to treat me as I should be treated.
You must think your an oil painting with all these physical nonsense wants.
Oh yes, I more than agree with you. That pumped body is not always nature. Yes, men often take extra drugs to build muscle mass. But there is still physical training. But is it beautiful? This question is relative. Some people like it. Others do not like it. It is just like women who lie under the knife to surgeons. Insert implants in all possible and not possible places. Stitching Botex. It's also a tribute to fashion. And if they do, it means that someone likes it. So I think every person is beautiful in their own way. We are all different. And the concept of beauty is individual for everyone. What you think is not beautiful, someone may like. But you will agree, we are not all natural. Most of us use the services of a cosmetologist, a hairdresser, we women use cosmetics. That is, we all strive to be a better version of ourselves.
Oh. Thank you. Your answer is more than valuable. After all, it is supported by life experience. And the values ??in the choice of partner will be in each their own. But do you think that some of the things we take for our own thoughts in choosing a partner. In fact, they are not our own thoughts and ideas. Although we may think otherwise. But they are imposed by time, fashion, stereotypes ...
One of the most important things i look for in a person is, are they comfortable in their own skin or comfortable with who they are.. if they are not trying to be someone else, i could imagine a person who is obsessed with looking like and being like another person.. the anxiety's and worries they would have makes me wonder how they get anything done in their life, better to be straight up yourself and be super comfortable than to live a lie and spend your life acting to impress everyone..
The unattractive woman would be much better company and easier to on with and would most likely follow you to the ends of the earth.. as the attractive woman would want you to follow her down the road of vainity and praise..
Not fat.
Looks like he takes care of himself
Healthy looking
No missing teeth
Nice eyes
More times than not if Molly answers for me, she says what I would say, just says it better.
I would just add
must clean up nice
Oh yeah. You are certainly right. The last item you added is definitely crucial.
Thank you.
Then change the topic to our partner? And what he should look like?
First get comfortable with our personality and our beauty then meet someone who is comfortable with their personality and their beauty...
An attractive man is not necessarully good looking in the plastic esthetic sense, but rather in personnality and kindness and humour and intelligence academic and emotional. Open minded, aware, awake with eyes that that see and 'allow to be seen'...
May be my last sentence didn't make sense...
It was meant to convey that even even my eyes can see that someone is 'good looking' in a 'magazine' type way, I don't feel attracted by that sort of 'good looks' because those looks on their own and without the personality are not inviting ....