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Do you feel guilty for being in and out of relationships when you have a very close and dear friend who cannot get in one?
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Are the less desirable not worthy of love?
I hear music...
Owner of a lonely heart, much better than the owner of a broken heart.
Interesting point of view Chat. Something to think about.
Thank you.

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By the way, did you ever get to correspond with Sharon Stone? She was using a profile with "no pic," I think... or at least that what I read in the National Enquirrerer Tabloid. professor
I don't see why you should Johnny?

Sometimes the best relationship is the one you're having with yourself!

Besides, someone being in and out of relationships, is not something to be jealous about.dunno
I do feel guilty because I can't keep up with my relationships and they end up totally because of my lack of time to work on them. grin I know most of the times it's my fault.

But I don't want to compare or bring anyone who doesn't get in to relationships into the equation. It's not fair.

Besides it's not about getting in and out of relationships and being desirable is the important point. Being in one and working it out should be the main catch.

And I don't think it is not nice to consider anyone less desirable. scold


Johnny, it's January 2020, how many women you broke up with already for this year?
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I prefer if my friends are happy, whether that is in a relationship or not.
Robert, no Ms. Stone. moping

But, if she has not had a pic up...then maybe. hmmm

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AI, I do agree with your point. Realistically, I would argue...somebody in and out of relationships might be the common denominator....meaning...something more going on behind the scenes than what is showing.


dunno


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Loki, are you talking about Johnny, Robert or Yourself?

Apparently all three of you are one.rolling on the floor laughing
Usha,

Yes it is not nice addressing anyone as less desirable.


Now, I could be way out in left field here....and totally out of line with my sneaking suspicions...

But, I suspect...

That people who have a weak self image of themselves, that are perpetually not in relationship...who desire to be in one....from time to time, when their inner voice comes into their mind and provides them with an assessment of their situation, I would be willing to bet something that that inner voice labels them as less desirable.

dunno

So, to use that exact phrase that I have used...

It was meant to.....in my very own opinion here...to bring light to everyone, including those with favorable self images, to perhaps take note of....for whatever reason they may take note of it.

Also...

That statement is in a sense, is a supporting statement to my main blog...

....a sense of feeling guilty.

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I agree...it is not nice to even think of people as less desirable, but I think people themselves think that way about themselves. dunno
The question then comes...

Why would anyone feel guilty for anyone who has a very positive self image of themselves.
That is the next question Usha...

About myself, Robert, and Loh. rolling on the floor laughing tongue
Hello Molly,

It is nice to see everyone happy...including friends.


I suppose the first question that came to my mind after reading your comment was....would you sacrifice your happiness for theirs?


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Usha...that is mean. laugh
I like the goth look btw Usha.
Now I got what you mean by less desirable.
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I don't mind anyone having a positive self image. But I am not dumb to think that I am the perfect woman for any man who is looking for a woman. My positive image is , I have positives and negatives. I am flawed not perfection. But I am me. Take me for all that I am.

Take me means let me just be. I don't want to be owned and instructed.
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You should feel guilty as it's been years I haven't been in one. frustrated
You have a serious problem Johnny. You have to figure out who you are. Don't think you are Robert. I don't think you can remember all the names he hooks up with. laugh
"Would you sacrifice your happiness for theirs?"

Johnny, I don't see how me being less happy would make them more happy.

I don't see how my breaking up a good relationship because a friend isn't in a relationship would make my friend any happier.

If a friend is only happy by others also being unhappy, then that isn't friendship.
Thanks Usha( I think). Have to say I'm intrigued by the new look. You pull it off quite well.

Gee Johnny,

Just think how wild that would be. Being ALL three profiles on here, Johnny, Robert and Loh, all one in the same, basically talking to yourself.
But in reality if you aren't all three, there would only be three people in the entire world that would know for sure that indeed you aren't all three, and that would be Johnny, Robert and Loh.

On the other hand if you ARE all three, there would be only ONE person that would know for sure, and that would be you.

Cool huh?

cool

*Hum the Twilight zone theme as you read this for more of a dramatic effect.cheers
Thanks Loki. bouquet

I am just trying to keep non political blogs on top. grin
No..
No..you do you... they will have to do themselves since no-one else wants to!!

Sorry, cheap shot
Amic, been some time here as well.


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Lovely points Molly.

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Nice Front. thumbs up
Lovely DD. thumbs up

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Why can't this person get in one?
Welcome home Merc.


Hmmm...you ask if there is a specific person in mind...I think this is just all in theory.

But lets talk in theory then...

Perhaps they don't have the tools...
Perhaps the tools are not obtainable...
Thanks mate.

What you describe sounds like me laugh
Perhaps a lot of people Merc.

dunno
I could easily be in a relationship I do know that much..But because of lack of experience with men I don't think I have the tools..Nothing to be ashamed about it doesn't make me any less of a woman.
I totally agree Merc.
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Hi Jonny

Merc you fool yourself, you have the tools but picky I reckon or the plumber and his bro would have appeared by nowgrin

WELCOME BACK you have been missed by loads of folk peace teddybear
Now, if any ladies don't think they have the right tools or qualities or such for a relationship. Come see me grin

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wave hi Robrt have not lost hope yet of having all required equipment rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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