Why man lies?

Just wondering why man lies to their gf or to their wife? THere must be a lot of reasons to it.
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i guess women will deceive men, wives will deceive their husbands too. everybody deceives. nobody can be really genuine.
To ruben: yes you are right that in a relationship one must be honest if you want to make it last. From the start, you should be open already and tell what you need to tell to your partner and if she cant accept it then this mean that she does not love you. Very well said ruben! thanks
I am just thinking one of the reason why man lie to their partner because they do not want their partner to get hurt. IS this what we call white lies?
To janmei, now I got your point that nobody is really honest. We all lie due to the fact that we need to lie even if we dont like
Hi imyouangel,
Good question which I think there is no answer but
we should not judge all people the same and never judge a book by its cover luckily there are good people in the world.
Myself all I can say is that why be a liar in a relationship unless you have something to hide and if you are a liar then do not expect your partner to respect you because I would not and it would be over. kiss
Comments like this also make me upset. Not everyone lies, but I have heard it said that they do, to make it seem like it's not a bad thing. Reub is right, there are some honest people, I hope they don't become extinct.
To craig63 there are a lot people who are still honest. And being in a relationship you should always be open and honest. But what if there are things that you need to hide to your partner because you dont want to lose her love to you. what if you have to lie just to protect your partner, will you still break her up and will not give a chance?
lots of reason....
but its got nothing to do with the gender... scold
TO calmheart: Im sorry to make you feel upset about this. I hope you find the honest man in your life. You deserve it. Cheer up girl!!!
To steveno: nice answer. I like it!!
To Smiling assasin: of course woman lie too but i just want to know whats the reason for man why they lie. I am a woman already so I know why woman lie. I just want to know man's perception of deceit and lying.
hi this is their world behave like this. it gives them satisfaction,,, WHO KNOWSprofessor
if he lies to you he has something to hide from you, and so can not be trusted, any relationship that is expected to succeed must have trust. You would be wise to end it with him for your own happinessbouquet
decor2552 well said thumbs up
hey imyouangel,
i guess, stevno made it a ltl clear for you...
i second his thoughts....
Maybe they do not love their other half and do not want ta get a divorece or break up.
Dear imyouangel
i think lies could never actually destroy others if one just realize that at any given second people could lie in our face, people could hurt us at any time of day.
But if we choose to put those things on our top list priority and deal with every single one of them what our life could actually become? We will have no time to grow right?
Its just my opinion that, if i caught sum1 lied at my face and hes dear to me, i wont jumped right out of my chair and confront him and made him to admit his lies. It would be totally useless.
I could however, ask him nicely, with a smile if i have to, but if he just lie again then well i have 2say, im sorry goodbye.
He is not worth my time.
And if i think that his lies is a harmless white lies, i would just forget about it and move on.
Life is too short to deal with unecessary things!
Dear kasih,
you are right. Maybe there is a reason why our partner lies and one could be is that they do not want us to get hurt or they still want to keep the relationship. Sometimes, we must not jump to conclusion immediately and we should asked our partner and give him the chance to defend himself. ANd if we are not contented with it, its time to let go of him and look for someone who can be honest to us. I like your attitude girl. A very positive woman!!
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